hai all...
here is a post about love by me else where...
" received a comment from my friend who read the discussion here..."did you notice that mostly when people talk of 'love' they mean only lover's love? did you notice that most of the postings are by women? even in western world and eastern world very few people experience such intense love to the fullest! sad to say but true. that is why avg american marries 3 times on a avg! as people become very ambitious love takes a backseat i guess! mostly marriage is a transaction like a business transaction, keeping score of what you did for me and what i did for you etc"
yes...this is the sad thing...when we remember the word 'love' we immediately attribute it to the relationship between two people of opposite gender in a romantic relationship...in my personal opinion, 'love with nature' is the best thing, incomparable, ever gives happiness, never gives sadness, never allows us to perceive sadness (other than destructive natural evolutions like tsunami, fire, lightning, earthquake, tornado etc)...love of nature is unconditional...nature is every where...even inside four walls there can be an insect observing which (as a scientific or non scientific observer) can give us happiness...where ever mind is involved, occupied, interesting, creativity is kindled, positive cognition is there, love is there...as 'every stimulus has got a cognition, and if it is positive, produces positive conation and affection'...so, the positive affection i feel can be referred to love...
so, anything that is positive, anything that produces positive emotions (laugh, pleasantness, surprise etc) can be termed as love...am i right?
then why people in love feel sadness...is it that love by itself does not give sadness but people perceive sadness due to their wants and needs not getting fulfilled?
there are some who say the sadness (Waiting for a lover...longing???)...in love also gives happiness now or later (when they think about good old moments of love later!)
anyway, love is a mystery!
most of the postings are from women as they are vulnerable, experience multiple emotions same time, can change over from one emotion to another emotion fast...as child conceiving, bearing, giving birth, rearing etc requires emotions (can you imagine an emotion less mother?...what will happen to the child?), involves all sorts of emotions, women are blessed with such an attribute.
i will touch upon the remaining part of the comments later...bye...! "
ok guys...we will see about this damn love later...bye...
keep rocking!
rams
here is a post about love by me else where...
" received a comment from my friend who read the discussion here..."did you notice that mostly when people talk of 'love' they mean only lover's love? did you notice that most of the postings are by women? even in western world and eastern world very few people experience such intense love to the fullest! sad to say but true. that is why avg american marries 3 times on a avg! as people become very ambitious love takes a backseat i guess! mostly marriage is a transaction like a business transaction, keeping score of what you did for me and what i did for you etc"
yes...this is the sad thing...when we remember the word 'love' we immediately attribute it to the relationship between two people of opposite gender in a romantic relationship...in my personal opinion, 'love with nature' is the best thing, incomparable, ever gives happiness, never gives sadness, never allows us to perceive sadness (other than destructive natural evolutions like tsunami, fire, lightning, earthquake, tornado etc)...love of nature is unconditional...nature is every where...even inside four walls there can be an insect observing which (as a scientific or non scientific observer) can give us happiness...where ever mind is involved, occupied, interesting, creativity is kindled, positive cognition is there, love is there...as 'every stimulus has got a cognition, and if it is positive, produces positive conation and affection'...so, the positive affection i feel can be referred to love...
so, anything that is positive, anything that produces positive emotions (laugh, pleasantness, surprise etc) can be termed as love...am i right?
then why people in love feel sadness...is it that love by itself does not give sadness but people perceive sadness due to their wants and needs not getting fulfilled?
there are some who say the sadness (Waiting for a lover...longing???)...in love also gives happiness now or later (when they think about good old moments of love later!)
anyway, love is a mystery!
most of the postings are from women as they are vulnerable, experience multiple emotions same time, can change over from one emotion to another emotion fast...as child conceiving, bearing, giving birth, rearing etc requires emotions (can you imagine an emotion less mother?...what will happen to the child?), involves all sorts of emotions, women are blessed with such an attribute.
i will touch upon the remaining part of the comments later...bye...! "
ok guys...we will see about this damn love later...bye...
keep rocking!
rams
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