Hai all...how are we?...i posted a msg in FB...the discussion is here...
"I am making a serious alligation...let me see what people feel about it!
Most of the indian women can never feel true happiness because...
1. They marry for ‘social obligation’ and not for ‘personal fulfillment and happiness’...the true, big, hidden reason...parents are the culprits here!
2. They try to achieve all common needs and wants of any human being on earth through others (food, water, shelter, sex, love and affection, security of all these for life time, self esteem and self actualisation...all these through children, husband, parents and siblings...a handful number...who can never be with them always and can give all these always in the quantity, quality, type, variety and depth they want!)...can parasites be happy forever?
3. None of the activity they do at home can be creative each time they do throughout life...therefore, they can never be in THE PRESENT!
4. They are highly talented, resourceful and intelligent but not even a fraction of this percentage is used by them. So, they will always feel unfulfilled, ‘something missing’, ‘blanks and vacuum’ in their life!
5. They feel their significant people love them only when they are cuddled, kissed, verbally loved and sexually satisfied. The truth is there is no scale for love, it can’t be measured, can’t be quantified, has no single definition and shown differently by different people at different times. As their scale of measurement is wrong they will always feel at least one of their significant people is not loving them, get ‘feeling of rejection’, feel frustrated, feel angry, feel depressed, feel like leaving everything and all going to some planet where it is calm and peaceful, feel ‘i do so much for every one but no one for me’. It is not the ‘comparison’ or ‘jealous’ that kills them. It is all the above.
The list is real big but these are the basic reasons why an indian woman can’t be happy ever.
If we ask why? Who made all these? Who is responsible for this state?
It is Men, who made this culture here!
More at funnyrams.blogspot.com
Most of the indian women can never feel true happiness because...
1. They marry for ‘social obligation’ and not for ‘personal fulfillment and happiness’...the true, big, hidden reason...parents are the culprits here!
2. They try to achieve all common needs and wants of any human being on earth through others (food, water, shelter, sex, love and affection, security of all these for life time, self esteem and self actualisation...all these through children, husband, parents and siblings...a handful number...who can never be with them always and can give all these always in the quantity, quality, type, variety and depth they want!)...can parasites be happy forever?
3. None of the activity they do at home can be creative each time they do throughout life...therefore, they can never be in THE PRESENT!
4. They are highly talented, resourceful and intelligent but not even a fraction of this percentage is used by them. So, they will always feel unfulfilled, ‘something missing’, ‘blanks and vacuum’ in their life!
5. They feel their significant people love them only when they are cuddled, kissed, verbally loved and sexually satisfied. The truth is there is no scale for love, it can’t be measured, can’t be quantified, has no single definition and shown differently by different people at different times. As their scale of measurement is wrong they will always feel at least one of their significant people is not loving them, get ‘feeling of rejection’, feel frustrated, feel angry, feel depressed, feel like leaving everything and all going to some planet where it is calm and peaceful, feel ‘i do so much for every one but no one for me’. It is not the ‘comparison’ or ‘jealous’ that kills them. It is all the above.
The list is real big but these are the basic reasons why an indian woman can’t be happy ever.
If we ask why? Who made all these? Who is responsible for this state?
It is Men, who made this culture here!
More at funnyrams.blogspot.com
regards
rams
comments are here...
comments are here...
"What a serious allegation! Of course you are writing all this out of concern for people! I think if each child (boy and girl) is taught to take responsibility for their own lives right from a very young age, these above feelings of 'self pity' and feeling like a 'victim' can be prevented to a large extent. When each person realizes that their destiny is in their own hands and not in others hands, then blaming others, including their family, will stop. Then they can start focusing on what they want and need and use their resources in achieving the same! It is basically a feeling of powerlessness that is expressed in so many ways. The truth is - the only person one can control is oneself and no one else in this world! So parents, spouse, and siblings work is to empower their loved ones and make them take responsibility for themselves. Easily said than done! But at least we need to say this!
"there is kind of data from TOI ( of 17th)... Karnataka ttoped in mobile number portability. In top seven otehr states like gujarat etc came in. But Tamilnadu is not in that list. This means that TN people are happy to go steay with same service provider as they do it in family life.. This means less entrophy in family life in TN.. long live TN with its unique culture.. may be looking unrealted to what rams said in the above, but i feel less entrophy will lead to happy life and minimal unwanted events."
"As you correctly said that rules of the society is mostly made by men, I feel tongue tied to say much. It will be really good if our ladies friends on Facebook open their heart and mind and say something. Amen"
"sir, had they opened their mouth, their destiny would have changed long back. They will never open their mouth and we are masters in converting 'silent' ones to 'moving dead bodies'!"
"Very strong words Subbu, but so true, from family disorder to religious turmoil all could have been different."
"So speak up, all! It is good to speak about things that can make a positive difference in quality of life! Our world is a reflection of our own beliefs and values (ie of ourselves) for the most part!"
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