Monday, 28 October 2013

What is Love?...Part-11

haiiiiiiiiiiiii all...how are we? (smile)...as usual, the warning, if you are reading it for the first time, i suggest you read from mail one of this topic...

one might think the other person is not beautiful and lovable etc. But repeated interaction brings in the chemical reaction and they start loving each other...it might be only physical attraction or real love based on loving of personality attributes...so, after the honey moon is over when the spade work starts the clouds will be clear and they will know whether it is only physical attraction or real love...so, repeated interaction can lead to love.

also if we leave two disliking people of same sex or opposite sex in an isolated place or in a condition where survival is challenged, i think all their differences will get ironed out, have to help each other, have to support physically, emotionally etc leading to sexually too...so, love can bloom out of survival instincts too!...here too possibility exists of separation (if only physical and survival was conceived in the minds) once the survival challenge disappears!....hmmmm, human beings are great!

also one sides loves are common...one can love, but the other may not...
even if the other person loves, the depth and width can be different...
the durations may be different...one might continue loving, the other might withdraw....

there are some people who love (?) a person for just one time mating!

there are some people who chase people just for making the other person to love...they chase many like this...may not mate or continue the relationship...just they want to make them fall for them...that is it!...mentally sick people!...but how to know they are sick?...so, many fall and later on realise after things get messed up nicely!

time,energy and money is spent a lot by many on chasing people for love, by youngsters and grown ups equally!...some even loose jobs, realtionships, wealth, status, even life in this game of love!

one might love more people to the same deep extent...the natures defintion shows that it is possible...two might be loving each other, but there can be others who love them deeply!

woffffffffffff....what all issues this word 'love' has created and complicated!...'possessiveness' adds fuel to the fire and burns up many life and lives!

hmmm....why did nature give this damn love yaaaaaaaaaaaaaar!

ok, atleast, let us keep rocking!

rams

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