hai guys...if you are reading this thread for the first time, i suggest you read in sequence from the first mail on this topic...
hope i have not confused you too much! i am glad that you asked this question!
what i understand is: just love people. you don't need a reason to love people. also have not too much expectations on your loved ones so that love can freely flow by transcending the relationship expectations and requirements!
also sometimes we may not agree with everything said. but later it may start making sense to us! so i just hear everything with an open mind and leave it if i don't really agree or understand! anyway this world is full of mysteries. no one can understand everything in this universe including love and especially love!
My addition to this is below…
yes...it is nicely explained with examples...the explanation has cleared the cloud...
we understand many things in life the way we have been taught...the way we have experienced...the way others have experienced and explained and have convinced us...but it may not be actually true, happy-healthy-success giving...if some belief or experience is not giving us these three then what is the point in following it...
same way, love is understood by every one differently....what the spiritual leader says is true...when we give it a restricted understanding then it leads to a relationship and affects it... with expectations, possessiveness etc....
i understand love as 'happy emotions'....a happy feeling...yes, we are made of love…(so, let us not make ourselves with ‘unhappy emotions’ or negative emotions)….it can come from any one or any place or any situation....we love that person or situation or place....moment we tie ourselves with that person that all the above said things will torture us and the source of happiness...the source of love will become a source of pain, sorrows etc........so, let the love be there...love all...love everything...love every life situation.....as everything, every one has a positive element to give us happiness!
moment we tie up with people based on love then we give it a name we know like frienship, husband, wife, lover, sister, brother etc....some times we also feel 'dei! i don't what sort of a relationship it is daa...it is not friendship...it is not husband...it is not wife...it is not sister...it is not brother...it is something different daaa!'....so we are unable to name it....let it not be named...moment we name with one of the above relationships, you will agree with me that there will be a restriction in exchange of love...i.e exchange of happy emotions....positive emotions......as each relationship has a restriction of exchange of information, feelings, etc...each relationship has an envelope of everything in which the people concerned dwell....the spiritual leader says...let it remain without any name...so that there is no restriction of exchange of love...and the source of happiness remains to be a source of happiness for ever!
hope i have added more info to it and not confused more...this is my understanding of love paaa....'sex' is an element which pollutes the meaning of love...we always understand love with a bit of sex...we are unable to understand love without sex....and we have given lots of sacredness to sex....also nature has created many forces of making opposite sexes to get attracted to each other...and we call it love....whereas the spiritual leader says love can exist between any two human beings...it is beyond gender etc....
ok guys...let meet in the next part later...bye...keep rocking!
peacefully yours....
rams
hope i have not confused you too much! i am glad that you asked this question!
what i understand is: just love people. you don't need a reason to love people. also have not too much expectations on your loved ones so that love can freely flow by transcending the relationship expectations and requirements!
also sometimes we may not agree with everything said. but later it may start making sense to us! so i just hear everything with an open mind and leave it if i don't really agree or understand! anyway this world is full of mysteries. no one can understand everything in this universe including love and especially love!
My addition to this is below…
yes...it is nicely explained with examples...the explanation has cleared the cloud...
we understand many things in life the way we have been taught...the way we have experienced...the way others have experienced and explained and have convinced us...but it may not be actually true, happy-healthy-success giving...if some belief or experience is not giving us these three then what is the point in following it...
same way, love is understood by every one differently....what the spiritual leader says is true...when we give it a restricted understanding then it leads to a relationship and affects it... with expectations, possessiveness etc....
i understand love as 'happy emotions'....a happy feeling...yes, we are made of love…(so, let us not make ourselves with ‘unhappy emotions’ or negative emotions)….it can come from any one or any place or any situation....we love that person or situation or place....moment we tie ourselves with that person that all the above said things will torture us and the source of happiness...the source of love will become a source of pain, sorrows etc........so, let the love be there...love all...love everything...love every life situation.....as everything, every one has a positive element to give us happiness!
moment we tie up with people based on love then we give it a name we know like frienship, husband, wife, lover, sister, brother etc....some times we also feel 'dei! i don't what sort of a relationship it is daa...it is not friendship...it is not husband...it is not wife...it is not sister...it is not brother...it is something different daaa!'....so we are unable to name it....let it not be named...moment we name with one of the above relationships, you will agree with me that there will be a restriction in exchange of love...i.e exchange of happy emotions....positive emotions......as each relationship has a restriction of exchange of information, feelings, etc...each relationship has an envelope of everything in which the people concerned dwell....the spiritual leader says...let it remain without any name...so that there is no restriction of exchange of love...and the source of happiness remains to be a source of happiness for ever!
hope i have added more info to it and not confused more...this is my understanding of love paaa....'sex' is an element which pollutes the meaning of love...we always understand love with a bit of sex...we are unable to understand love without sex....and we have given lots of sacredness to sex....also nature has created many forces of making opposite sexes to get attracted to each other...and we call it love....whereas the spiritual leader says love can exist between any two human beings...it is beyond gender etc....
ok guys...let meet in the next part later...bye...keep rocking!
peacefully yours....
rams
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