How to know if you are in love with a person or not?..or "how to find out your lover?'

Dear all...the biggest problem with all is 'how to identify if i am in love with that person or not?'...some simple tips are here...

1. many say the bell rang in my mind moment i saw her/him...

if you feel some changes happening in side and outside your body during the fertile days, whenever you saw that person, over a prolonged period, then it is not love...it is only a lust...it is only a 'like'...the attraction may not last a life time...or even for a long period...when the features creating the lust disappear the love feeling also will disappear...

2. if you don't feel any changes inside and outside the body and you feel only peaceful, happy, calm, contended, heavenly, in the mind, even during the fertile days, over a prolonged period, then it is love...this is likely to last long...may be a life time too...provided both change and adapt to the other person during every age and stage in life...you need not fear that you may not lead a reproductive life...when you love a person in the mind, you 'like' him also...and this will lead to a reproductive life too...

rams