What is the meaning of 'Do you like the girl?'...the question asked to the boy who has visited to see a girl for marriage...

Dear all...in our marriages the parents of the boy visit the house of the girl to 'see' the girl and decide if she is 'fit' enough...

after the event of 'seeing' they ask a fantastic question to the boy...'Do you like the girl?'...

what is the meaning of this question?...after seeing her for few minutes or talking to her for few minutes...

It simply means...1. do you feel she is beautiful?...2. do you feel aroused when you look at that girl?....3. do you think she will satisfy your 'needs'?...4. do you think you can walk along with her on the roads and in front of your friends with pride?....4. do you think she is that homely you wanted?...5. do you predict from her appearance that she will make a good wife for you?....6. do you think she can fulfill your dreams?

(tottaly body based and single sided. They don't bother if the boy can meet her needs or wishes or passion or ambitions etc)

they will also make a statement...'we like that girl'...this means....1. they are rich and wealthy 2. they can adapt with us 3. they belong to our caste and religion 4. we can walk with pride if we have alliance with this family 5. we have already seen the horoscope and it is matching 6. we have already discussed the deal and we are ok with it 7. 'you better agree to marry and live with her, ok!!' 8. their family is 'good'

(anything else i missed out??)

what a fantastic way of match making!!!

rams