We need to evolve,mature and grow with our friends...and shouldn't resist their change...else we will lose them and the relationship!!

Hai all...every one has many friends...many of them keep pursuing various things in life...this makes them mature, age, evolve and become experienced in life issues...some of them do not do anything different or to improve them in various dimensions...so they live the routine reproductive life and remain wherever they are...when we have moved forward and our friends have not moved along with us, then there can be friction...we become different and the relationship also can become different...

friends usually don't like us being so different from them!...because the relationship has started earlier based on the commonality of life and living...now once we change, the degree of liking and the value time spent changes...

and if such friends put up resistance to who we are and how we want to live our life (which is different from theirs), then we need to leave them behind unfortunately!
so, we have to accept this relationship dynamics...

peacefully yours...rams...

• sad thing is that this can happen between couples and partners too! Where one evolves with time to be a better and happier self while the other stagnates and / or becomes gloomy and negative!

   

   this need not necessarily can happen with us changing and the other person not changing...even if we don't change, remain stagnant, and our friend changes and improves (not in wealth or status) and if we try to control or resist the positive change that our friend makes then our friend also will leave us behind and move ahead with the life...there is no point in crying of lost friendship or love and say he or she has cheated etc...

   
yes! natural order of things! we have to do what we have to do! we cannot proceed on our path carrying a huge load in terms of relationships that are pulling us down all the time. time is precious!