who will be a happy, healthy and contented parent in overall life??

Dear all...THIS IS FOR PARENTS....

A parent who feels...

"My children are my world. They think i am the last word and last world for everything in their life. They have that much confidence on me. They are important to me. I have a responsibility in my decisions to keep them happy, healthy, growing, enjoying freedom of everything on this earth, not to make them slaves and make them feel proud of their own selves and their parents. Nothing else or no one else is important to me. Not the religion. Not the caste. Not the community. Not my place or language. Not my relatives. My children are important to me and i am important to them. Grooming them to be highly adaptable, self confident, self dependent and global children capable of earning their own wealth, fame, power, authority, status, happiness, peace, health, contentment and self actualisation is my primary responsibility. That is it!!"

Will be the happiest person. Will feel a sense of fulfillment, contentment and peace in his/her life. He/she will be respected by their children. The children will standby them come what may in life. Such a parent will never feel lonely, neglected, low self-esteem and low self-concept. That parent will be mentally sooo strong that he or she will feel a Hercules strength of shaking this earth. That parent will never fear for any one and anything. That parent will feel on top of the world always. That parent is likely to live with great physical and mental health. In the long run even the community, religion, relatives etc will understand his/her resolve in life and follow him/her regarding him/her as the best parent!!

A parent who feels his/her religion, caste, language, relatives, place are most important in life, and not the children, will miserably fail in his/her life. That parent will suffer silently and subconsciously inside and show confident and consoling behaviours for self and others. That parent will feel guilty one day of his/her decisions. That parent will cry for his/her life one day. That parent will not be happy, healthy, peaceful and contented in his/her life. Though that person might feel self actualised in profession, but will feel a miserable failure in personal or family life. If that person has a weak mind, might commit suicide also. Some people might leave the family and go away. Some might become even schizophrenic and become a mad person on the roads.

Therefore, we can decide what we want in life!!...Whom we want in life!!

Peacefully yours....Rams....Health Psychologist!!