where there is 'need', there is 'fear' of losing it (insecurity)...where there is fear, there is no Love!!....so, WHERE THERE IS NEED, THERE IS NO LOVE!!

very true...all of us go to others for needs and make relationships or even in default relationships we look for needs...where there is a need, automatically there is need for security also...ie to ensure that the person is always there for us...i.e through possessing, monitoring, policing, controlling, demanding, ordering, expecting etc...so , automatically we get 'fear' of losing that person in the mind...there is anxiety...there is insecurity....where there is fear, thereis no love....because we will do all the above and spoil the peace, health and happiness of both.....SO, THERE IS NO LOVE BETWEEN THE TWO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....so, don't look for needs...then all the above negatives will not be there...there will be always abundance experienced by you and the other person in that relationship....there will be only love...love and love!!.....enjoyyyyyyyyyyyy....!!.....rams