Dear all...we keep reading such posts, some of them even carry the brand of enlightened people...
what is important is...we can be ourselves...we can have our originality...we need not change our life basics...provided...provided...what we are, our basics, our definition of life and living, our personality attributes, our belief systems, our faith, our culture, our god, our holy book, our superstitions, etc should give us peace...give us happiness...give us good physical health...good mental health...good relationships (social health)...give us contentment...give us unlimited growth in wisdom...keeps us in the path of self actualisation...keep us liked by all...make us to connect with every one on earth...should not make us to hate some people...this hate can lead us to failures in jobs, lose promotions-good appointments and other benefits, isolation in society etc...
as long we get these then we are right...no need to change...we can be what we are...
if what we are does not give these, then we need to think...we need to list down the personality attributes which steal off these five from us...we really really need to work on it...else we are sureeeeeeeeeeely going to suffer a lot in life!!
all our personality attributes that are harmful to us are called personality disorders....DANGER!!
personality disorders are the common reason for failure of love, relationships, loss of jobs, failure of marriages, life style diseases, few ailments, some of the terminal illnesses, no promotion in jobs...in general failure in life!!
alcoholism or smoking or drug addiction is nothing compared to the damages caused to self and others due to personality disorders!!
peacefully yours....rams
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