Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...all our people go to others asking for something...needing something...wanting something...expecting something...this going to others with a need includes husband, wife, children, parents, siblings...alllllllllll!!
when we go to others and make a relationship with a need, asking for something, we will only get pleasure....short lived feeling...we will keep craving...we will never be satisfied with that person...we will always feel that relationship is lacking something...the person is not giving the full...the person is cheating…we feel frustration...we feel sad...we keep fighting...we lose peace, health and there is no happiness ever!!
When we go to others for giving something, then we always get happiness. We will always feel peace. The feeling is ever lasting. We keep longing to meet that person to give more (e.g if we are associated with the orphan children of a home at one place, and when we move to a different place we keep thinking about going there and meeting children again...to know about their well-being and being with them to spend some memorable moments again). We will always be loved. We always find love in us. In a devotee kind of relationship we might get pleasure too. But it will not make us to crave. It will only make us to give pleasure too to them.
So, if we want to have people and relationships in our life, happiness in our life, peace in our life, contentment in our life, then we should always approach people with a feeling of giving. Not with a feeling of taking or needing.
The best thing to give is love and affection which does not need any money or wealth. Even the poorest can give. It is there inside us in abundance. In fact this is the only thing that is there in every one in abundance which we don't know. It is the one which keeps growing more and more in us as we give. This is the only thing that nature has created us to be giving all the time. If you don’t give love and affection to some one, you will feel miserable. You can not be peaceful.
However much pleasure, comforts etc you may enjoy in your life, but if you don’t give or if there is no oppurtunity for you to give love and affection to some one, then you will always feel sadness inside you. You will always feel incomplete. You will feel lonely even if sooooooo many are present around you. Even if you have the biggest fame and richness, if you don’t have one person whom you love and show love and affection, then actually the world is empty for you. Nothing is there for you in this world. No one is there for you in this world. YOU ARE ALONE!!...
This is the reason why most of the rich and famous are depressed after some time. And all beautiful, rich and famous women who killed themselves in the world did that as they did not find one who loves them dearly, truly and they did not find even one person on whom they can shower their abundant love and affection!!
So, if we want to have people and relationships in our life, happiness in our life, peace in our life, contentment in our life, then we should always approach people with a feeling of giving. Not with a feeling of taking or needing.
NO ONE CAN BE HAPPY, PEACEFUL AND CONTENTED IN NEEDING AND WANTING FROM OTHERS. IT GIVES ONLY PLEASURE. PLEASURE CAN NEVER GIVE HAPPINESS AND PEACE. IT CAN ONLY CALM DOWN THE HEART FOR SOME TIME. ONLY GIVING ABUNDANT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND AFFECTION TO ALL THE NEEDY WILL GIVE PEACE, HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT. SATISFACTION IN LIFE. WELL-BEING IN LIFE.
rams
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