.I want to become spiritual and get that power to do good in studies and in my profession. Whom to follow?...Which Spiritual guru i should listen to?...When i ask others every one says a different person. I am confused!

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Question....I want to become spiritual and get that power to do good in studies and in my profession. Whom to follow?...Which Spiritual guru i should listen to?...When i ask others every one says a different person. I am confused!

Answer....i am sure those who read my posts will laugh after reading this question thinking 'Whom he is asking this question!!...a guy who does not follow any one!!'

I know many who keep hopping from one guru to the other. There are people who have changed from one religion to the other trying out each...landing up with several religions as they were not comfortable with any religion and finally gone mad kind off!

so...my answer is simple...

1. Don't follow any person.

2. Don't hate any person or religion.

3. Don't ask any person as to whom to follow. Because every one will tell you the person whom they are comfortable with or with whom they are obsessed with. Every 'body' 'mind' 'life style of this body and mind' 'social situations of this body and mind' 'culture in which these two are living' are different.

4. There is no point in following something you are comfortable with or can not sustain life long or can not modify to suit your life and living.

5. So, make out your own path that is suitable for your body, mind, culture, social situations etc. How to make that?...here it is...

6. There are only five things that are important in life...PEACE, HAPPINESS, PHYSICAL-MENTAL-SOCIAL HEALTH, CONTENTMENT AND SELF-ACTUALISATION.

7. Read about all these in internet. You have enough intelligence, commonsense, situational awareness etc to decide which all methods, knowledge, experience of others, tools, life style and behaviour modifications that are suitable to you.

8. If you want listen to the speeches of all spiritual people, read their wisdom writings, read may be all holy books, take out those things which are suitable to you, appealing to your common sense, make out your path and live as per that.

9. There is even nothing wrong in attending to their courses to learn certain techniques of meditation, yoga, kriyas, methods of calming mind etc.

10.  Never follow one person because you will lose the advantage of all the knowledge and wisdom of the universe. You will get caged. You are likely to get obsessed also. You are likely to land up in emotionally getting attached to the person and his principles. This might make you to go out of reality, socialisation, family, friends, society etc which is not the aim.It might make you run out of schooling, college, organisation in which you are working, the family in which you are living, your parents, your siblings, your friends etc. You might start hating other human beings, people of other religions, people of other caste and race, people of other languages, other cultures, other countries etc which is not right and will not make you a good human being, noble person etc. People might say 'you will leave people but you will reach a group of like minded and good people'. But this is not right in my opinion. Spirituality is to get adaptability, flexibility and ability to live at any place in the world, work in any organisation, work with any one, live with any one, love every one, radiate peace, happiness, good health, contentment etc to all around. If it makes you to run away from all this and be with just one group of people then i don't think it is right understanding of spirituality!!!!...It will not help anyway to live in this materialistic world, to go and work, etc. It will only help to join a mutt, do service there etc and every one on earth can not be like that. Then there will be no reproduction and sustenance of life on earth. There will be no family. The whole world will become a mutt and there will be only mutts which is not possible. So, the right thing is 'which is that knowledge, how to get that knowledge, which will give us all those five things while we live in a family, work in organisations, live as one amongst the societies, love all, being a common human being for all without any labels, symbols, specific identities of religion or religious or spiritual groups, being a noble person, JUST AS A HUMAN BEING. That is all. You have to find out that using methods i have said which suitable and sustainable for you.

11. As i have been saying, you being a science person, read all science and engg books for getting these five. Read my recent posts on this issue. Attach more to nature and learn from it. Make your living place with more of silence, trees and plant life, more of birds and other animals, be filled with soothing and other music liked by you, follow health enhancing behaviours and life style, about all these you can get from internet and from my blog too.

12. After that make out your path, life style, living etc.

13. Follow that and keep adding value to it as you move on in life. That is all.

peacefully yours...rams....