USEFUL FOR ALL THOSE WHO GET ANGRY WITH THEIR LOVERS, SPOUSES, FRIENDS, SIBLINGS, PARENTS AND CHILDREN.

Dear all...USEFUL FOR ALL THOSE WHO GET ANGRY WITH THEIR LOVERS, SPOUSES, SIBLINGS, FRIENDS, PARENTS AND CHILDREN...

People get angry only when their needs, wants and expectations are not met by others or organisations.

Wherever there is 'no' or deficiency of need satiation then there will be frustration, anger and that person will not listen to the other person.

so, if your lover or spouse or parents or children do not listen to you then remember that there is some need or expectation or wants not met by them from you. So, when they get angry, sit with them, ask them what is that they want, meet their needs, they will calm down and become your pet and listen to every letter and word, and follow too....hihihi...till they come out of that pleasure state of mind and ask for the next need or want. So, it is a continuous process.

the best method is to ask our beloved people 'hai baby! what do you need now and for today from me?..tell me!... i want to do that and keep you happy?'....if we ask by words every day it will become boring and monotonous...so, many creative ways can be researched and used.

How we can avoid getting angry is through accepting people as they are, having less needs and expectations from others, communicating to them about our needs, discussing in detail all issues with them, keeping cool, calm, being matured, evolved, enlightened, in nirvana state, using coping skills, using behaviour modifications, understanding life-living-people-gender differences in needs, behaviours, wants, emotions etc, giving importance to people and relationships etc.

How we can handle the angers of others?

By not reacting to their anger, and thinking 'why he or she is angry?...what is the reason?...how we can avoid making her to get angry?'. When we think like this when the other person is shouting and throwing, then there is no emotional reaction from us, we only use common sense, brain, analyse and ACT after that positively so that the situation is handled efficiently, smartly, in the correct way and solutions are found, happiness returns, peace prevails.

another method is...is...is...is...is...hihihi...hihihi....just pull her by her hip, hug her tight and kiss her hard to shut the mouth!!...the burning volcano can become an ice mountain in a second!!...If not, just buy her that diamond necklace and there is no other way!!...haa..haa.haaa....

enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy...be happy....be peaceful...be cool...

rams