hai all...
our ancestors made three monkeys...one closed its eyes saying don't look at bad things...one closed the ears saying don't listen to bad things...one closed it's mouth saying don't speak bad things...
but what are those 'bad things'
they did not define them clearly and so all of us are getting screwed!!
hmmmm....what all mistakes our ancestors have done!
they said 'don't hear bad things, don't speak bad things, don't see bad things'...but these guys died without defining what is bad!
Or they said smoking, drinking liquor, gambling, watching blue movies, private behaviours and such other limited things as bad. That is all.
Are all the divorces or conflicts at home are due to these?
Most of the fights at home, divorces etc are not due to these...they are all due to adaptability problems...rigidity in personality traits...due to the mothers who have groomed their children as 'nalla paiyan, nalla ponnu' (good boy or good girl)...what we need to do is grooming adaptable children.
what are bad things?...anything that spoils the happiness, peace, strains the relationships, makes us cruel, makes us to perceive negatives, negative emotions, show negative behaviours (e.g watching tv serials, all programmes where they show negative things, all news papers (media)which blow up all negatives to create sensation among people)...the list is a real big one....in fact most of the things we do in a day are all bad...e.g talking ill about others...and all these behaviours originate from wrong or bad or negative perceptions...the resultant by product is bad emotions...
peacefully yours
rams
our ancestors made three monkeys...one closed its eyes saying don't look at bad things...one closed the ears saying don't listen to bad things...one closed it's mouth saying don't speak bad things...
but what are those 'bad things'
they did not define them clearly and so all of us are getting screwed!!
hmmmm....what all mistakes our ancestors have done!
they said 'don't hear bad things, don't speak bad things, don't see bad things'...but these guys died without defining what is bad!
Or they said smoking, drinking liquor, gambling, watching blue movies, private behaviours and such other limited things as bad. That is all.
Are all the divorces or conflicts at home are due to these?
Most of the fights at home, divorces etc are not due to these...they are all due to adaptability problems...rigidity in personality traits...due to the mothers who have groomed their children as 'nalla paiyan, nalla ponnu' (good boy or good girl)...what we need to do is grooming adaptable children.
what are bad things?...anything that spoils the happiness, peace, strains the relationships, makes us cruel, makes us to perceive negatives, negative emotions, show negative behaviours (e.g watching tv serials, all programmes where they show negative things, all news papers (media)which blow up all negatives to create sensation among people)...the list is a real big one....in fact most of the things we do in a day are all bad...e.g talking ill about others...and all these behaviours originate from wrong or bad or negative perceptions...the resultant by product is bad emotions...
peacefully yours
rams
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