Saturday, 21 December 2013

why we are scared about the children on 'love' and 'sex'?

hai all...

all parents fear on two issues with their children...'LOVE' and 'SEX'

Any text book teaches this? do parents teach? Have they created a social envelope and conducive atmosphere ever to discuss such issues? do the teachers teach?...then who teaches these?...how do they learn?

so, they fear on two things and are help less!

1. from childhood of 2 years we should allow them to ask about anything under the sky and discuss with out any inhibitions, shyness, anxiety, hesitation, most importantly FEAR.

2. they should gain confidence that 'my parents are the best people whom I can comfortably and confidently discuss anything under the sky'

It is the duty of the parents to create such a social envelope with children from the day one!

this will make them to take decisions in all life situations, they will be confident on life, trust the parents more and parents will become the centre of their faith in life.

rams-psychologist and sociologist

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