hai all...one more thing about funny culture...
the husband wants to rule his wife and children with fear and his 'nuisance value'...parents of the boy (husband) also like and encourage this...it is an unwritten rule here that the husband is the Head of the family, has all the powers and supreme commander of the family forces!!!...a typical organisational way of functioning...and that too autocratic!!!...do you think a friendly and heavenly love or intimacy will exist in such an environment?...if 'fear' is the force or bond that keeps people linked to each other, it will be weak and even a small force can break the bond. If the bond is through love, affection and friendship then it will be strong and can never get broken. True and lasting intimacy with unconditional love will exist.
First of all why should we have some one called 'Head of the family', if the decision making is by democratic means and by consensus with freedom of expression and respect to all, treating all as human beings and equal without discrimination?
In our culture no one wants to keep the bondage with true love and affection...e.g the force, that provides the most important thing to the people, security and safety, police force, wants to 'rule' (why should they rule?) the people by 'fear' and 'nuisance value'. Not only the administrators, every one in the administrative machinery from top to bottom want to rule the common citizen directly or indirectly with 'fear' or 'nuisance value'. End result is the bondage between the people and their 'gods'...police and administrators...is 'fear', 'hatred' and 'nuisance value'...very weak!!!...what a society and culture we have created!!!
'Hatred', 'fear' and 'nuisance value' are the opposites of 'love', 'peace', 'happiness', 'good health' and 'success'.
We can have all this positives listed above in our society and culture only when the 'gods' radiate love and affection. Otherwise the society and culture only will get sick and die along with its people.
'hatred, fear, nuisance value' are the Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD) in a society...not the atom bombs or nuclear bombs!!!
Love,like, affection, positive perception and attitudes are the Weapons of Mass Attraction (WMA)!!!
Which one we should have????
rams-psychologist and sociologist
the husband wants to rule his wife and children with fear and his 'nuisance value'...parents of the boy (husband) also like and encourage this...it is an unwritten rule here that the husband is the Head of the family, has all the powers and supreme commander of the family forces!!!...a typical organisational way of functioning...and that too autocratic!!!...do you think a friendly and heavenly love or intimacy will exist in such an environment?...if 'fear' is the force or bond that keeps people linked to each other, it will be weak and even a small force can break the bond. If the bond is through love, affection and friendship then it will be strong and can never get broken. True and lasting intimacy with unconditional love will exist.
First of all why should we have some one called 'Head of the family', if the decision making is by democratic means and by consensus with freedom of expression and respect to all, treating all as human beings and equal without discrimination?
In our culture no one wants to keep the bondage with true love and affection...e.g the force, that provides the most important thing to the people, security and safety, police force, wants to 'rule' (why should they rule?) the people by 'fear' and 'nuisance value'. Not only the administrators, every one in the administrative machinery from top to bottom want to rule the common citizen directly or indirectly with 'fear' or 'nuisance value'. End result is the bondage between the people and their 'gods'...police and administrators...is 'fear', 'hatred' and 'nuisance value'...very weak!!!...what a society and culture we have created!!!
'Hatred', 'fear' and 'nuisance value' are the opposites of 'love', 'peace', 'happiness', 'good health' and 'success'.
We can have all this positives listed above in our society and culture only when the 'gods' radiate love and affection. Otherwise the society and culture only will get sick and die along with its people.
'hatred, fear, nuisance value' are the Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD) in a society...not the atom bombs or nuclear bombs!!!
Love,like, affection, positive perception and attitudes are the Weapons of Mass Attraction (WMA)!!!
Which one we should have????
rams-psychologist and sociologist
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