Indians can almost not experience true love in their life...because...
Indians are scared about:-
1. parents (parents rear and want their children to fear them)
2. gods (all gods appear scary and parents teach to fear god)
3. gurujis (parents feel that when fear gurus, we will be on track)
4. swamijis (ditto)
5. teachers (every one thinks that only when we have this fear we will read)
6. neighbo...
Indians are scared about:-
1. parents (parents rear and want their children to fear them)
2. gods (all gods appear scary and parents teach to fear god)
3. gurujis (parents feel that when fear gurus, we will be on track)
4. swamijis (ditto)
5. teachers (every one thinks that only when we have this fear we will read)
6. neighbo...
urs (fear of taking away our property, information security, spreading bad about us, talking ill about us, rape, theft)
7. siblings (taking away our things/property)
8. losing husband (extramarital affairs)
9. thieves
10. politicians
11.police
12. lawyers
13. goondas
14. many doctors
15. losing wives (extramarital affairs)
16. getting good schools for children
17. getting good college and course for children
18. safety and security of children
19. any negative things we read in news papers, watch in tv, hear from others
20. any dealing with a governmental organisation due to heavy bribes
21. every one in india uses 'fear of nuisance value' to get the control of others...e.g every one is scared about politicians due to their nuisance value...
22. mother is scared to lose her son after marriage
23. fear of unknown
24. fear of death
25. fear of dangerous diseases
26. fear of losing the job
27. fear of next birth
28. fear of ghosts
29. fear of animals
30. fear of natural calamities
31. horoscope
32. stars
33. many superstitions
34. many beliefs
35. fate, destiny
36. fear of losing the lover
37. fear of others snatching our people
wofffff....the list goes on and on and on....we are scared about everything...can we be happy in such an environment?...is it not suffocating?...who has created all these?...who else other than we!!!!
Those people who want to exploit others, enslave others...
fear is a negative feeling...a negative feeling results in negative perception about people, things, places, life events...selfishness...it affects our neurotransmitter secretion...it affects our moods...it results in weak or bad or worry some mental structures...it leads to anxiety...anxiety leads to hypertension and possessiveness...control...dem
can they ever experience love?
when one is fear struck, then they want to cling on to some one for security...emotional, physical, legal, economical, social securities...this attraction to others out of 'physical or mental' needs is construed or perceived as love by our people...which is wrong!...need based love will get weakened, diminish and vanish after some time...when the need is not met to the level of satisfaction, unfulfilled expectations will result in weakened love...
love is a positive feeling and positive perception.
What we feel love is actually opposite sex attraction...nature makes our body to get matured after few years and all organisms are driven for reproduction...every one falls in love with young girls or boys...why not older people?...nature wants only healthy offsprings...only young people can produce healthy off springs...nature has given beautiful looks only to young people to attract the opposite sex...
nature wants the offsprings to be reared properly and safely...so it has also given positive emotions towards opposite sex during the period of reproductive cycle so that the children are looked after...so, both the man and women are attracted to each other during this period...the negatives of each other are forgotten...
also the body needs like air, water, food, sex form the basic survival needs...'id' needs (if I have type about 'id' then it will go to many pages...i.e what all behaviours it will produce in an individual and its characteristics)...the important thing is 'id' needs will make the organism to do anything, tell any thing, sacrifice anything, hide, tell lies, to get the body needs satisfied...(more about id is available in my blog or type in google and read)...so, the period from 13 years to 40 or 45 years is a 'phase of infatuation'....i.e remaining attracted to the opposite sex based on physical and mental needs...more of physical...if you feel it is wrong, then don't give all that your partner needs for the body and watch out what happens to the love that you are defining or perceiving...does the love remain?
so, the true love, love of positives can occur only when we remove all the above fears, only when we remove associated negative perceptions about people, only when we feel positives about everyone and everything, only when we feel 'the complete earth is for me to enjoy and not to 'use up' or destroy...only when we feel that every one is my friend...only when we leave possessiveness, expectations, demanding, controlling etc...only when we free ourselves from all the clutches of religion, caste, superstitions...only when we come out of selfishness...when we feel abundance...when our needs are less...when our wants are less...when we move towards self actualisation with confidence on our own knowledge, skills and experience...with high self esteem...
can Indians reach this state of mind?
can their gods and swamijis make them reach this state?
can their religion and gurus make them reach this level?
can their holy books help them reach this?
can their culture give them this?
Nature bless incredible Indians of incredible india!
a comment received on this post is below...
'Every moment, we either choose love or we choose fear. Where there is fear, love cannot exist. This knowledge already exists. But each one has to get past their mental and societal conditioning and consciously choose love over (ie not) fear every single moment, if they want true love in their lives. Way to overcome fear is to have faith: faith in oneself and one's own abilities, faith in others, faith in divinity / nature. If one keeps thinking others are bad, then paranoia sets in.'
my comment on this observation is below...
'rightly said! FEAR is the opposite of LOVE. So, when we have fear spread all over our conscious and subconscious mind how can we experience love. What we experience is the feeling of security...the pleasure of meeting the needs of the body and mind...this is what Indians actually feel...but they feel it is love...that is why I keep saying that their definition of love is wrong...the way they measure love is wrong...and therefore, all their angers, frustrations etc etc with their spouse is wrong...and they ruin their happiness and peace and ultimately their life too!'
7. siblings (taking away our things/property)
8. losing husband (extramarital affairs)
9. thieves
10. politicians
11.police
12. lawyers
13. goondas
14. many doctors
15. losing wives (extramarital affairs)
16. getting good schools for children
17. getting good college and course for children
18. safety and security of children
19. any negative things we read in news papers, watch in tv, hear from others
20. any dealing with a governmental organisation due to heavy bribes
21. every one in india uses 'fear of nuisance value' to get the control of others...e.g every one is scared about politicians due to their nuisance value...
22. mother is scared to lose her son after marriage
23. fear of unknown
24. fear of death
25. fear of dangerous diseases
26. fear of losing the job
27. fear of next birth
28. fear of ghosts
29. fear of animals
30. fear of natural calamities
31. horoscope
32. stars
33. many superstitions
34. many beliefs
35. fate, destiny
36. fear of losing the lover
37. fear of others snatching our people
wofffff....the list goes on and on and on....we are scared about everything...can we be happy in such an environment?...is it not suffocating?...who has created all these?...who else other than we!!!!
Those people who want to exploit others, enslave others...
fear is a negative feeling...a negative feeling results in negative perception about people, things, places, life events...selfishness...it affects our neurotransmitter secretion...it affects our moods...it results in weak or bad or worry some mental structures...it leads to anxiety...anxiety leads to hypertension and possessiveness...control...dem
can they ever experience love?
when one is fear struck, then they want to cling on to some one for security...emotional, physical, legal, economical, social securities...this attraction to others out of 'physical or mental' needs is construed or perceived as love by our people...which is wrong!...need based love will get weakened, diminish and vanish after some time...when the need is not met to the level of satisfaction, unfulfilled expectations will result in weakened love...
love is a positive feeling and positive perception.
What we feel love is actually opposite sex attraction...nature makes our body to get matured after few years and all organisms are driven for reproduction...every one falls in love with young girls or boys...why not older people?...nature wants only healthy offsprings...only young people can produce healthy off springs...nature has given beautiful looks only to young people to attract the opposite sex...
nature wants the offsprings to be reared properly and safely...so it has also given positive emotions towards opposite sex during the period of reproductive cycle so that the children are looked after...so, both the man and women are attracted to each other during this period...the negatives of each other are forgotten...
also the body needs like air, water, food, sex form the basic survival needs...'id' needs (if I have type about 'id' then it will go to many pages...i.e what all behaviours it will produce in an individual and its characteristics)...the important thing is 'id' needs will make the organism to do anything, tell any thing, sacrifice anything, hide, tell lies, to get the body needs satisfied...(more about id is available in my blog or type in google and read)...so, the period from 13 years to 40 or 45 years is a 'phase of infatuation'....i.e remaining attracted to the opposite sex based on physical and mental needs...more of physical...if you feel it is wrong, then don't give all that your partner needs for the body and watch out what happens to the love that you are defining or perceiving...does the love remain?
so, the true love, love of positives can occur only when we remove all the above fears, only when we remove associated negative perceptions about people, only when we feel positives about everyone and everything, only when we feel 'the complete earth is for me to enjoy and not to 'use up' or destroy...only when we feel that every one is my friend...only when we leave possessiveness, expectations, demanding, controlling etc...only when we free ourselves from all the clutches of religion, caste, superstitions...only when we come out of selfishness...when we feel abundance...when our needs are less...when our wants are less...when we move towards self actualisation with confidence on our own knowledge, skills and experience...with high self esteem...
can Indians reach this state of mind?
can their gods and swamijis make them reach this state?
can their religion and gurus make them reach this level?
can their holy books help them reach this?
can their culture give them this?
Nature bless incredible Indians of incredible india!
a comment received on this post is below...
'Every moment, we either choose love or we choose fear. Where there is fear, love cannot exist. This knowledge already exists. But each one has to get past their mental and societal conditioning and consciously choose love over (ie not) fear every single moment, if they want true love in their lives. Way to overcome fear is to have faith: faith in oneself and one's own abilities, faith in others, faith in divinity / nature. If one keeps thinking others are bad, then paranoia sets in.'
my comment on this observation is below...
'rightly said! FEAR is the opposite of LOVE. So, when we have fear spread all over our conscious and subconscious mind how can we experience love. What we experience is the feeling of security...the pleasure of meeting the needs of the body and mind...this is what Indians actually feel...but they feel it is love...that is why I keep saying that their definition of love is wrong...the way they measure love is wrong...and therefore, all their angers, frustrations etc etc with their spouse is wrong...and they ruin their happiness and peace and ultimately their life too!'
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