hai all...i have seen many cases like the following...among relatives, nearby people, at office...
our moms are great!...you know what all they tell their daughters?...'
'yei, nallaaa purushanai pudichhu vachhukko! mathha pombalainga lai paakkarathey ivangalukku velai!' ('take care of your husband nicely, as, these guys always look at other girls!')
'monday viratham pudi...tues day go to near by pillaiyaar kovil. Wednes day antha archanai pannu...naan sonnathellaam gnabhagam irukka, every day in the morning and evening while preying tell those sthothrams, but you have to be 'clean', remember!...and saturday go to nearby perumaal temple...sariyaaa!...pora yedathhuley nalla ponna iru!'...(the mom is basically telling her daughter all the rituals that she has to perform to god and visits to temples on all days of the week and also as to how 'clean and pure' she should be to do all these and how he should be a good girl in the new house and family!)
we have got moms who 'advice' the boys also as to how they can be a good husband....basically, out of possessiveness, keeps him away from his wife...(the same mom will tell him to take the girl out in the evening and make him get hot)
ok...coming to the point...all these people inject fear in her, make the girl to be vigilant, anxiety struck...suspicious...so, she starts checking her husband...guarding him and guarding other woman around...checking his mobile...smelling and checking his dresses...checking his looks when he goes out...noting down the vehicle kms readings...checking his vallet...watching out all his conversations on mobile...give hundreds of calls while being at office or social functions or on road while driving to check him where he is and what he is doing...they also observe the sounds from the surroundings of the man on telephone...when both of them go out she is on the watch all the time as to whom or what he sees and where etc...i.e round the clock, all 365 days and her entire life she is on spy duties with highest vigilance...will she not become a mental patient?...and drive the guy also to become sick?
what is the end result?
the life becomes suffocating to the guy and he will run away one day!
in life 'WHAT WE FEAR OR WORRY OR GET ANXIOUS THAT 'IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN' WILL CERTAINLY HAPPEN!'.
because, out of anxiety and fear we will do many things which will go in favour of that happening...e.g if we fear that we will lose the job, our concentration and focus on job will go...we will not be involved whole heartedly and will not be in the present...so, we will make mistakes...or quality will suffer...and we will certainly lose the job!!...this happened during the recession period and still happening to many!
so, if the girls / boys start sniffing their boy / girl friends, lovers or husbands or wives, the life of the other person will become miserable, and will certainly run away!...so, what you did to avoid something happening will 100% happen!
1. Is it possible to stop a guy or girl running away from any relationship?
2. we can only physically stop, what about mental escape?
they can not stop emotional, intellectual and mental separation while being together inside four walls or total running away or a divorce!!!!!
so, LOVE and LOVE is the only way of keeping a guy or girl physically, emotionally, legally, intellectually, mentally with us in any type of relationship!
Also, 'i care a damn and i am least bothered about you and your relationships or interactions with others...i love you, i like you, i love my relationship with you!' is the best manthra to live in peace today and in future!
all the best guys!
rams
our moms are great!...you know what all they tell their daughters?...'
'yei, nallaaa purushanai pudichhu vachhukko! mathha pombalainga lai paakkarathey ivangalukku velai!' ('take care of your husband nicely, as, these guys always look at other girls!')
'monday viratham pudi...tues day go to near by pillaiyaar kovil. Wednes day antha archanai pannu...naan sonnathellaam gnabhagam irukka, every day in the morning and evening while preying tell those sthothrams, but you have to be 'clean', remember!...and saturday go to nearby perumaal temple...sariyaaa!...pora yedathhuley nalla ponna iru!'...(the mom is basically telling her daughter all the rituals that she has to perform to god and visits to temples on all days of the week and also as to how 'clean and pure' she should be to do all these and how he should be a good girl in the new house and family!)
we have got moms who 'advice' the boys also as to how they can be a good husband....basically, out of possessiveness, keeps him away from his wife...(the same mom will tell him to take the girl out in the evening and make him get hot)
ok...coming to the point...all these people inject fear in her, make the girl to be vigilant, anxiety struck...suspicious...so, she starts checking her husband...guarding him and guarding other woman around...checking his mobile...smelling and checking his dresses...checking his looks when he goes out...noting down the vehicle kms readings...checking his vallet...watching out all his conversations on mobile...give hundreds of calls while being at office or social functions or on road while driving to check him where he is and what he is doing...they also observe the sounds from the surroundings of the man on telephone...when both of them go out she is on the watch all the time as to whom or what he sees and where etc...i.e round the clock, all 365 days and her entire life she is on spy duties with highest vigilance...will she not become a mental patient?...and drive the guy also to become sick?
what is the end result?
the life becomes suffocating to the guy and he will run away one day!
in life 'WHAT WE FEAR OR WORRY OR GET ANXIOUS THAT 'IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN' WILL CERTAINLY HAPPEN!'.
because, out of anxiety and fear we will do many things which will go in favour of that happening...e.g if we fear that we will lose the job, our concentration and focus on job will go...we will not be involved whole heartedly and will not be in the present...so, we will make mistakes...or quality will suffer...and we will certainly lose the job!!...this happened during the recession period and still happening to many!
so, if the girls / boys start sniffing their boy / girl friends, lovers or husbands or wives, the life of the other person will become miserable, and will certainly run away!...so, what you did to avoid something happening will 100% happen!
1. Is it possible to stop a guy or girl running away from any relationship?
2. we can only physically stop, what about mental escape?
they can not stop emotional, intellectual and mental separation while being together inside four walls or total running away or a divorce!!!!!
so, LOVE and LOVE is the only way of keeping a guy or girl physically, emotionally, legally, intellectually, mentally with us in any type of relationship!
Also, 'i care a damn and i am least bothered about you and your relationships or interactions with others...i love you, i like you, i love my relationship with you!' is the best manthra to live in peace today and in future!
all the best guys!
rams
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