the great indian women!

today i went to bank...no customers...the lady on cash was eating fruit...moment she saw me she kept it aside...i said 'eat eat, no problem!'...she said 'i am eating for my baby in the womb, not for me!'...this is the indian mother...bad mothers!!!...first they have to look after themselves, then everything will fall in place...this shows she does not care for her health...i am sure she must have abused her body badly without nutrition so far...and now she is eating...after pregnancy...saddddd!...is it not required to keep the body healthy and fit for pregnancy?...a unfit body gets pregnant and eats for the child!...after delivery again the abuse will start...no wonder indian mothers are with weak bones and less blood...and they feel proud about saying 'see, how much i am caring for my child and how i am a good mother!...i am not caring for myself and i am sacrificing my happiness and health for my baby! that much of love and affection i have got for my child!'...if this is told by a daily wage earner then it is ok. But if a lady who has enough money and wealth to keep her healthy is not doing it, then she is really mad and uneducated!'

i think every one should look after him / her self at home...then things will automatically fall in place...there will be no anxiety to any one...but at home the child sleeps and mom keeps running from pillar to post...she whirls for good 4 hours to ensure all are out of the home...lots of shouting, sweating, anxiety, heart inside the mouth...and finally (she brushes her teeth at 10 am and) break fast at 12 noon or at 2 pm...obviously she has no time to exercise or look after her health and gets diabetes at 35, high BP at 40 and cardiac problems by 50...