Dear all...today's points about relationships...
In general what i have observed is...
1. Boys are casual about relationships. They take everything lightly. Whereas girls are serious about relationships.
2. Boys are non committal in relationships. They are confused about what sort of relationship they have with her, whether body level or mind level too etc. They want the relationship but do not want to marry. They can not commit also how long they will be able to continue the relationship and how deep etc. Only after the girl leaves the relationship they will realise, understand and thereafter run behind her, when it is too late, even after she got married or he got married or both got married, which puts both the marriages in to shambles.
So, boys, beware, take care, if required remain without talking and seeing for some time, after mutual agreement, to know what and where you are and how strong is the relationship etc, whether you want just the relationship or family living too, whether you are ready to take up the responsibilities of living together with all its financial, emotional and other loads for life long. Will you get aroused, attracted even when she gets old with all the wrinkles of skin, sagging of body parts, when she becomes fat etc. List down all, give weightages and decide. Take your time but decide. Cheating in this will result in damages for both gravely.
There is an ocean of difference between being a lover and being a husband, father, son-in-law etc. It requires real guts to jump in. Not so simple as you think!!
Of course, the same holds good for the girl too. Both have to attain NIRVANA state to be able to understand each other's issues in personal life, organisational life, social life, their common family life etc beyond their own ego, needs, expectations...giving importance to giving...and not taking...!!
more tomorrow...bye...good night...
peacefully yours...
rams
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