Dear all....there are many people who love some one, the other person may not love them, but they will chase them madly and get married to them...this person thinks that his/her needs, expectations and feeling to possess that person will get satisfied, consciously or subconsciously. Finally, if these are not fulfilled they get frustrated, feel that their judgement has gone wrong, or might feel the other person has cheated (they think this other person showed behaviours, emotions and thinking that created a feeling or assessment in them that he or she will satisfy their needs, expectations and be their property only). And the love breaks, relationship breaks, marriage breaks.
But, before marriage, when they run behind them, if we ask 'do you have any needs or expectations or feeling to possess that person?, they will say 'Noooooooo!!'.
If you ask, 'then why you want to marry him/her?'. If you don't need anything from that person, let that person go in his or her way, go somewhere, live some where, marry some one, live happily, why are you disturbing her/him when he or she is not loving or interested in you?...then they will have no answer!!...this shows why they were behind that person for love, marriage etc!!....
Of course, if it is a devotee relationship then they will let him/her go!!
There are many loves and marriages which happen on such wrong belief or assessment or judgement of an individual.
Also one feels that a good lover will be a good husband too, which may not be the case!!...Without knowing this when they marry, they will feel cheated by the other person, actually not, it is the wrong feeling or assessment or belief of the perceiver!!...not with the perceived person!!
peacefully yours...rams..
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