Dear all...In western countries and people in western countries the culture is 'Me and My'. They want everything for themselves and are self centric. They want all people and relationships in their lives to serve for them. They go to people and make relationships only for this. Here it is only 'wanting' 'needing' 'expecting' 'possessing'. So, no happiness and peace. They go mad. Break relationships, do not mind losing people, without knowing the damage that it creates in their mental health, marry many times, change people many times.
In India too, the youngsters are like this and therefore they suffer. The people in mid life and Oldies are the other extreme, they compromise and sacrifice everything including their basics like dreams, passion, health, happiness, peace, finances, for the family, parents, relatives, caste, religion and what not!!...Is this right?...It is madness!!...they lose their identity and in the process of pleasing every one and keeping all happy, they keep no one happy and healthy including their own selves!!
So, both the extremes are wrong!!...Can not result in happiness, health and peace!!
We should look after ourselves well within our own resources, without depending upon others and hitting their bellies. We should help others in a way that they can look after themselves. We should take everyone of this nature along with us in our lives, not ego centric people and parasites. Then we will be happy, healthy and peaceful.
peacefully yours...rams
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