what is the actual meaning of the three words 'spirituality' 'enlightenment' 'nirvana'?

Dear all....people also have a perception that 'nirvana' or 'enlightenment' or 'spirituality' is a state of 'i don't need anything...i have everything...i have attained, enjoyed, seen all the peaks of life and living...now nothing more...i am moving on my life line in some other direction...spiritual path etc...'

...so, this gives a feeling to the children and young adults that 'it is old people kind' of things...

because this is what is happening in our culture...as this is what is being done by our old people...and when old people talk about these three our young people think 'i will do all these after i become old, let me enjoy now the worldly pleasures and material wealth etc'....but actually and truly it is different...

i would define all these three as a state of 'keeping mind cool, calm, stable, quiet, silent waters, so that we can think about the next level of achievement, handling the crisis situations, creative thinking required for the competitive environment, handling all the variations and different mind and potential resources of all human beings around...all these at all places like organisations, society, friends circles etc requires 'spiritual-enlightened-nirvana' state of mind and associated skills...this is what i mean...

also children and young adults think people of that state can not enjoy love, physical intimacies, sex etc which again is not true...others enjoy short lived, animal like, craving, anxiety struck, lusty of all these...so, they are always like mad dogs...which results in spoiled relationships, break-ups, losing people and friendships...so they get thrown to pubs, liquor, drugs and get screwed up with physical-mental-social health....

but people with all these three enjoy long time, stable, divine, totally involved-immersed and dissolved, with lots of true and long lasting love, physical intimacies, sex etc without any anxiety....at a totally different dimension...

so, the youngsters, young adults and middle aged adults who are alwaysssssss anxiety struck, with less of all these three, as per our culture and living, get screwed nicely with stress and anxiety, enjoy only either animal-like or nothing and waste their precious youth, some times with only a bit of achievement, or neither achievement nor pleasure/happiness/true love...and finally feel 'kuch nahin kiya aur kuch nahin mila' (nothing i did and nothing i got)....and land up in mutts, or laps of spiritual gurus etc....

so, first of all we, as parents living with all these three, showing the children from their childhood that this is the correct way of living to be happy, healthy, peaceful, contented and successful too in all places and spheres of life, motivating and inspiring them to live like that, making them realise in every day life that this is true and correct, is the need of the hour and always!!

peacefully yours...rams...