Dear all...every body is different...every mind is different...
even the twins are different in their interests, eating and dressing habits etc...so their behaviours, thinking etc are different...!!
everyone's definition of life...day to day living are different....!!
their interest, passion, aims / goals in personal life, professional life, social life etc are different...!!
so, ever one can not follow the same life style and living like their parents and relatives....!!
every one need not get married...every one need not get married at the same age and stage in life...!!
if some one is not interested in marriage at some age, even after telling or knowing the positives and negatives, it is better to leave them without disturbing….!!
May be their body and mind are not ready for a married life of sharing their body and mind, committed life, the routines and chores of family life...!!
hurrying saying 'once we get aged young and easy matches not possible, child delivery will be an issue, bla bla...' leads to only a 'curry' and 'kichdi' of life leading to worries for every one and they start thinking 'i was happier before!...so, why did i get married?...what use?..what for?..for whom? etc...
when the body and mind are not ready nothing can be done!!...gone is the old stupid body based culture and it is no more relevant...so, hurry leads to curry life full of worries...and all these three bring anxiety, frustration, sadness, screwed up life, loss of peace, happiness, health and obviously success!!
peacefully yours...rams...
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