Dear all...here is a question....
How can we have a relationship with or love some one without any needs and expectations?
There are many people on this earth whom if you just think about, you will get all the giant energy, mountainous motivation and bull-headed drive to get up from your bed, break all the shells, social chains, run and meet all your needs and expectations by your own-self!!
You can have mental relationship with that person to derive all this fire-power!!
You will not be possessive and obsessive about this person. You will not require that person physically or expect any communication from/with him/her. It could be god or living or dead human being/animal. It could be an item or life event too.
You will always feel connected with that person, with or without the knowledge of that person. You will always feel secured in that imaginary social envelope. You might or might not meet or communicate with that person.
You become devoted and devotee. You love that person beyond expectations and needs.
Many people will love that person as a devotee. They are created for all and the entire humanity and not for just one person to just reproduce and die.e.g mother Teresa
If you marry that person then he or she will become yet another ‘husband’ or ‘wife’ and your relationship of devotee will vanish and you will live normal life like others with all fights, loves, possessiveness, jealousy etc.
Haa.haa.haa…so the converse of the theory is…is…is…if you want to have a permanent, peaceful, happy, healthy, contented, successful, life long relationship, not to lose a person, then have a devotee kind of relationship, don’t marry, so that you get tremendous radiance and energy from that person for entire life, no break-ups, no sobbing, no heart burns etc.
How about you becoming one such person for every one around and entire humanity??
It is tooooooooo simple to become one such person who will have many devotees!!
In fact many people tell me ‘No one loves me! No one is there for me!’….in some cases it is true in reality (it is not because of others, but just because of them only, that they are not lovable due to their disorder personality traits!!) and in many cases it is just a perception of loneliness inspite of having many around to love him/her. In such cases it is just that they feel one specific person whom they love is not loving them as per their perception…that is all!!...If they become lovable then their person will also love them and become a devotee!!
Now, how to become one such person?...it is toooooooo simple.
Any person who is noble, happy, peaceful, physically-mentally-socially healthy, contented, self actualized all the time and can make others perceive all these within themselves will be loved by all and will have many devotees!!!
This person need not be a saint. Need not be a Guru. Need not be a God. Need not have long beard or hair. Need not have any of the identities of a sadhu on his body. This person could be a teacher, nurse, bank employee, factory employee…could be any one who lives one amongst us with same dress, same appearance etc…he may be rich or poor…!!
Are you ready now??
peacefully yours...rams...
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