This is what we are supposed to do in our life!!

Dear all… A LONG POST...BUT ASSURE A POSITIVE CHANGE IN YOU, YOUR FAMILY, AND LIVING AFTER YOU READ....

All of us are born here. Before we realise what is happening, we grow, do some childhood things, do some studies, get some job, marry some one, produce children, do something to them, show them our life and make them also live like us, get lots of diseases, eat medcines, get old and die.

What makes us to do all the above?...Who teaches us to do what and when in our life?

THE SOCIETY AROUND!!...THE WAY PEOPLE WHO ARE AROUND US LIVE!!...DO WE GIVE ANY THINKING IF THAT IS RIGHT??...WE JUST BLINDLY FOLLOW SO THAT THEY ACCEPT US IN THAT SYSTEM!!

Moment a child is born or before we marry, what do we decide about our child?

1. My child should become the best in the class.

2. My child should study in the best school and college.

Why?...

If it is boy child, then he will be able to get a highly paid job, get married to a highly educated, rich and famous family. His life will be good.

If it is a girl child, then she will be able to make her living if necessary, get a highly educated and well paid boy (may be foreign educated, dollars/pounds earning and foreign living boy) as her husband, well educated, rich and famous family as the boy’s parents. Her life will be good.

We don’t think or conscious about people (including our children) dying early, getting disease born early, eating medicines life long, strained social relationships with all…because we feel all these are ‘normal’ and that is how life is and no way out and it is destiny that decides when we will die, whether we will live with good health or not, whether we will have peaceful married life or not, whether we will be successful in our profession or not, whether we will have peaceful realtionship with every one or not!...but one thing we are sure, ‘making big wealth is in our hand’ and for that ‘we have to be smart and shrewed’.

Are all the above right?

In my opinion all of us should think like below. For a comfortable reading I am not typing ‘his/her’ everywhere. I am only typing ‘he’. But remember, both sexes are same with respect to the living and challenges in life. So, things typed below are common for both sexes.

‘My child thoughout his life will have four things….
1. body
2. Mind
3. People
4. Relationships.

My child should know how to keep peace, good physical-mental-social health, happiness, contentment and self actualisation with all these four elements in his life. This is the first and foremost.

We think wealth making and joining with people-of-wealth-and-fame through marriage is the way to have all comforts in life so that life is good and that is the correct life and correct way of living.

Is this right?

Are all those people feeling their life is good?...

Is their life actually good?...

Are they all peaceful?

What is the point in being the president or prime minister of india or chief minister of the state or any other rich or famour or powerful person if he is not having a peaceful life?...

What is the use of all the fame and wealth if we are not physically, mentally and socially healthy, happy?...

What is the point in living long till 95 or 100 years of age without all these five basic chore elements in life?...

Can we get all these with fame, wealth and money or from people with these three?...

Do people with these three have those basic chore elements of life?

INSTEAD OF THINKING IN THE CONVENTIONAL WAY ABOVE WE NEED TO THINK

1. HOW MY CHILD CAN KEEP HIS BODY AND MIND HEALTHY AND PEACEFUL THROUGHOUT HIS LIFE AND PROTECT HIS BODY AND MIND FROM THE EXTERNAL VARIABLES ACTING AGAINST?...HOW HE CAN LIVE LONG WITH ALL THESE IN THIS WORLD?

2. WHAT IS THAT KNOWLEDGE REQUIRED AND HOW TO GET THAT KNOWLEDGE WITH WHICH HE WILL PERCEIVE PEACE, HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT EVEN IN THE ABSENCE OF PEOPLE, RELATIONSHIPS, WEALTH, FAME, POWER AND MONEY?

3. RUNNING BEHIND GETTING KNOWLEDGE THAT WILL MAKE HIM GET WEALTH, FAME, RICHNESS, POWER, PEOPLE, RELATIONSHIPS ETC MAKES HIM DISEASED, PEACELESS, MAD DOG WITH OUT CONTENTMENT, NOT SUCCESSFUL REALY IN TRUE SENSE IN LIFE.

INSTEAD…

“what is that knowledge that is required to make wealth, fame, richness, people, relationships, love and affection, god, comforts etc run behind him and he is not bothered about them, not mindful about them and they don’t enter his envelope of physical-mental-social health, happiness, peace, contentment but they are all present around them!!”

“how to get this knowledge”?

For this…

First we need to be physically-mentally-socially healthy, happy, peaceful, have good people, keep our relationships healthy. We need to tell him, ‘My son! Remember we are not the only parents for you. Your brothers and sisters only not your siblings. No one can take birth from space. So, nature has created us as the medium for your birth. That is all. Don’t think your house is only this. This whole world is yours. This earth is your house. The entire Nature is your God to give you everything and protect you within it and you are a part of it and it is a part of you. All those everywhere are your parents, brothers, sisters and all other relationships you think you need. Don’t get attached to one person, one relationship, one house, one city, one knowledge, one skill. Go all around the world. Learn everything that is positive under the sky and in space. Acquire as many skills as possible. Be adaptible to live in all climates, environment and variations of people all over the world. Remember, life is a journey of learning. Learning is not to make wealth, but to make what we are, noble, matured, evolved, great personality traits, peaceful, happy, healthy, contented, self actualised. Do everything physically, mentally and socially to get all these. Always use your brain, think and perceive to make your own knowledge and wisdom and don’t accept any knowledge or wisdom as they are who ever or what ever gives that!! Learn everything about how to attract good people, make even the bad people to turn good automatically when they come to us, how to keep the relationships healthy and life long without affecting the chore basic elements of our life and their life. Once you do all these wealth, fame, richness, people, relationships, love and affection from all over the world will be around you, but will not affect your peace, happiness and health as you will be already insulated.

Does this make sense?

By this…your child will be…

1. Highly educated and multiple skilled, widely traveled, noble, highly matured.
2. A mahan.
3. He will have all the positives I have described above.
4. He will live even after his death till the earth is alive.
5. Obviously, who ever is your God, will stand-by him and bless him!!

peacefully yours....rams