The biggest asset and danger of all girls...the basic for all living organisms that girls provide....without which no organism can live with good mental health on this earth...what is that??

Dear all…THIS POST IS FOR ALL THE GIRLS AND MOTHERS…there are three things which are positive with respect to girls but they can pose danger and threat for their happiness, peace, health, contentment and success.

They are…

1. A girl is always a mother from birth to death.

2. A girl can not tolerate and remain quite seeing any one or anything suffering.

3. A girl gets more peace, contentment, health and happiness in ‘giving’ love and affection than ‘taking’. 'giving' is the necessary condition and 'taking' is a sufficient condition. Without 'giving' she can not be peaceful and contented.

Now the details are below…you give a toy to a 2 or 3 year old girl baby. It will treat it as its live child and she becomes a mother to that toy…whether it is a bear or cat or dog or barbie. If you give a live baby to a 5 year old girl here again she presumes she is the mother of that baby and showers all the love and affection.

So, you take any girl of any age from birth to death, she assumes the role of a mother to that living or non living organism, whether boy or girl or man (young, middle aged or old). So, even between lovers and couples, mostly the girl portrays motherly love and this gives more satisfaction to the boy and the girl as ….

1. There is no love purer than motherly love because it does not have the LUST element and all the associated negative perceptions, emotions and behaviours. So, it has only all positive perceptions, emotions and behaviours to both the source and receiver.

2. Every human being irrespective of gender longs and wants motherly love from birth to death.

3. Especially men long for it at all times, and more when they face more challenges in life (physical, mental and social).

THEREFORE, WHEN GIRLS SHOW MOTHERLY LOVE TO ANY ONE, THE OTHER PERSON IS SURE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH THE GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...IRRESPECTIVE OF AGE BETWEEN THE GIVER AND TAKER!!!...THIS IS NATURAL BEHAVIOUR, BUT BECOMES A SOCIAL ISSUE BETWEEN THE STAKE HOLDERS OF EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THESE PEOPLE CONCERNED.

The other issue is a girl can not tolerate and remain dormant or emotionless seeing anyone and anything suffering in front of their eyes. Whether it is a baby or man or old man or THEIR OLD LOVER OR DIVORCED HUSBAND or any type of enemy. How much ever they restrain and control, the mother in them will pop out and break all the barriers to go and help the person / or organism suffering or try and arrange some help etc. If they do not help, then their peace, happiness, health etc will vanish temporarily or permanently depending upon their emotional relationship or the extent of damage or impact that suffering of other person has caused in them. THIS BASIC POSITIVE TRAIT AGAIN BECOMES A THREAT TO THEIR PEACE WHETHER THEY HELP OR NOT!!

A girl, though derives happiness and pleasure when she feels that some one is loving her, some one is there for her to take care of and help in her growth etc SHE CAN NOT REMAIN ‘COMPLETELY CONTENTED’ IN LIFE IN ONLY ‘GETTING’ LOVE AND AFFECTION, PHYSICAL INTIMACIES ETC ALL THE TIME. SHE HAS TO GIVE IN ABUNDANCE TO AT LEAST ONE PERSON IN HER LIFE. IF SHE CAN GIVE THE MOTHERLY LOVE TO MORE PEOPLE THEN THAT MUCH AND THAT MANY HIGHER LEVELS OF PEACE, HAPPINESS, MENTAL HEALTH AND CONTENTMENT SHE WILL ACHIEVE!! This again thought a positive trait, poses a major threat to her peace because when she gives love and affection to some person, that person is sure to fall in love with her for that mother in her!!

This is Nature!!...Nature has created girls to be the saviours of all the living organisms on earth, the face of god for all living organisms, the loving hands of god!!...so, all living organisms irrespetive of gender or category to which it belongs to will fall in love with A GIRL SHOWING MOTHERLY LOVE!!!!!!

So, this shows that, by nature, a girl who shows motherly love is not the property of one individual or family, she is the UNIVERSAL PROPERTY!!...but the social systems and norms, which nature has not created, and created by human beings (BY THE WAY, ALMOST EVERY THING CREATED BY HUMAN BEINGS ONLY GIVE COMFORT AND PLEASURE AND ALL ASSOCIATED NEGATIVES!!), brings in social issues and all the negatives associated with it like legal issues, emotional issues related to possessiveness etc.

So, this is the biggest challenge to all girls and families!!!

rams