Dear all...today's lines on RELATIONSHIPS...
1. the feeling of attachment that springs in a person for fear of losing securities (financial, emotional, physical, legal, social etc) when he or she loses a person or relationship is NOT LOVE!...Traditional marriages gave only this!
2. 'I am there fore you! I care for you!...Don't worry. You look after me!...You look after my parents and my children!...Look after this house!...Don't go any where!...No need to study, go for job and work etc. We have everything at our home and enjoy the life here!'...is NOT LOVE!...Traditional marriages gave only this!
3. Traditional marriages were marriages of religion, caste, elders, status, money, families, businesses, egos on the name of marriage between a boy and a girl!...There was an agenda in the mind of all stake holders and they succeeded in that!...It was only for 'securities' of the girl mostly, and a bit for the boy. All the compromises, sacrifices and adaptation were dumped on mostly the girl, and a bit on the boy!!...And they blamed both for not adjusting amongst themselves and others!!...'No divorce' in court and surviving inside four walls was declared as 'successful marriage!'
more later...
rams
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