'shit yaar!!...was it me those days who took such decisions?'

Dear all...read the thing above...teenage (adolescence) is a transient phase of life while maturing from childhood to adult hood!!...as today all Indian teens are engineers, you know, transient state of a system is an unstable state...so, system behaviour will be like that only (extremes in thinking, emotions and behaviours!)...once the system becomes stable then the thinking, emotions, behaviours...all change!!...and looking back, we laugh at our own selves!!...if we are not convinced about what they say, suggesting, advising etc will not work, asking questions, making them think, giving them time to decide, creating a social envelope from childhood where they develop confidence that 'my parents will make me think properly amidst the chaos and i will be able to take correct decisions!' is the right thing to do....rams