Theories on Relationships...18 Jan 16

Dear all...good to see and hear that 'Theories on Relationships' posts are liked by many...from teens to 80s!!....these are just my thoughts which flow just at the time of typing here...not read or preconceived etc...

here are the 'Theories' for the day...that appear in my mind right now!!

No relationship can be forced on anyone!...No relationship can form without the feeling of love!...and Love can not be forced!!

Love is a perception of the perceiver!!...It is the state of mind of the perceiver!!...it is the state of the brain of the perceiver!!...so, relationships are also PERCEPTIONS...and perceptions can not be forced!!...and all perceptions need not result in a relationship!!...ENVIRONMENT and THE SOURCE OF PERCEPTION are all ignitions for the electro-chemical activity in the brain of the perceiver...that is all!!!

Relationships are formed out of the perception that 'I care for you! Don't worry! I am there with you!!...You have full freedom under my wings!!', of the perceiver. It could be with anyone, anything, imaginary or dead or alive!!...So, when the perceiver's brain does not need this feeling, there is no perception of love and there is no relationship!!...But when this is perceived, love is formed, relationship is formed, with or without the knowledge or approval of the source.

This perception, consciously or subconsciously, is important for any living organism to live with good mental health on this earth!!

Body grows naturally and continuously with the tick of every second of Nature. But a person, his or her personality traits, the person who he or she is, are formed through this perception (perception is a process of cognition!!) and related behaviours and emotions that emerge out of all the challenges and people they come across every second in life, in their perception!!

Cloning and heredity can only produce human bodies, and life experiences, and Perceptions formed out of these experiences have greater influence on a person in his or her maturing, evolving and mentally/emotionally/socially growing, more than heredity!!

so, the crux is...

1. we need to meet variety of people with variations in all dimensions

2. form positive perceptions for maturing, evolving and growing into a noble soul

3. perceive love in all positives

i think these are enough for the day to chew...more later....

rams