problem of many girls and boys of all ages, from birth to death, today and always...

Dear all...here is a girl...her problem is here...

QUESTION...."I love a guy. With high intensity. He does not have that much of feelings. But i get too much of feelings, with even tears, so I get angry and often shout at him that he does not have any emotions with me, does not love me, i am a fool to love him madly etc!!..i get too tensed if he does not pick up my call!...i get worried if something has happened to him!...i feel like throwing away everything and running to him who lives far away!...My mind all the time keeps thinking about him, though i am able to do my chores and study well, provided he attends my calls, chats, mails and talks etc. I feel nothing is important to me on this earth, other than him!...I want to achieve so many things on earth, i know i am capable too, but not at the cost of losing him!

He likes if i talk, but even if i don't talk it does not affect him much. He will just call up and find out what happened, if no issues with me?, and that is it! Mostly he does not call me, I only call up!..but if I don’t call up for a day or two then he will call up!...

He likes talking to me.

Whereas there is another guy who loves me madly with high intensity, he can do anything for me!...he is exactly like me, with me, the way i am with my man!...but i don't have any feelings towards him. Yes, he is a good guy, that is all, i neither love or lust him...i just like him...just because he loves me!!...Period!!...He is not in my fantasies.

So, i am able to understand the feelings of this ‘high intensity guy’ because I also have the same towards another person!...I am able to understand the low feelings of my man, because I don’t have any feelings for this second guy!!

So, I am able to understand that one might have love towards some one but the other person may not!!...The other person might love or like us but may not have intense feelings towards us!...i am unable to figure our whether this low or no feelings is 'like' or 'love'?

All this I am able to understand, but unable to accept!!...my heart wants more and more!! It is pointing towards only that guy, and not any one else!...but that guy is like a ‘stone’!!...woffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff!!

So, my issues are…

1. Whether he loves me or not?
2. Should I go up for marrying him or not?
3. Or should I marry the guy who loves me intensely?
4. My parents are eating up my head and making my life a hellllllllllll that I should marry faster, if i cross 30 then only older guys i will get etc, and therefore are looking for boys for me. Should I give a nodd and marry a guy whom they show?

5. I am anxiety struck and I want to come out of this rut!...what should I do?...this love is too stressful!!...But I do enjoy loving him and feel pleasurable too… I also feel that I can not live without my guy in my life!!...I am puzzled!!...

any answers from any one?????????

as the question itself is long, i think i will answer this tomorrow....

any guesses what would be the suggestion or answer??

There are manyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy boys and girls of all ages like this girl here....hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!

peacefully yours....rams