hai...hai...haiiiiiiiiiiiii!
For a long time i have been thinking to start a blog...and the day has come!
I thought i will start with this interesting topic!...the topic that is eating the minds of all human beings today...sub-conciously too!
All of us can write volumes and volumes...and talk for the entire life time on this topic!...
when i sent long mails on many such interesting topics i got feedbacks saying 'let them be short & sweet and attractive like the bikinis!'...hmmmm...what to do!...they start like bikinis but end up long like the nighties but covering all the salient features!
so, let me keep the posts like the bikinis! (looks like there is no provision here to insert the smileys!)
i am also planning to recover the old flowers from my gardens and post them here in the days to come...
All that i type here are my own views and not from any book or from any other place...as those of you who know me, i am an open guy, and so, you can pour in your views...no limitations...no boundaries...you can say anything!...as i don't get angry or upset or feel bad...as my understanding about anything is without boundaries...unlimited...i accept people, issues, places, circumstances, cultures, religions etc etc as they are. So, keep rocking without limits!
Though i can talk about engg, science, management...people like my 'craps' on issues related to human behaviours and issues related to this. I am powered by all people around me on these issues, and so, though they are my personal views, you are one among the sources of my views!
ok...let us start...
There is no human being without any relationship on this earth, as no one can survive without the support of another human being. There is an underlying 'need' in any relationship. The need is 'happiness'. I did not say 'want' as, in my opinion, 'happiness' is a need like water, air, food, clothing and sex and can not be classified under 'wants' ('wants' are those sources of 'comfort'...like car, airconditioner etc).
This is because, in my opinion, 'happiness' should be the bottom line with respect to any act or behaviour of all human beings. If there is an act we are planning to do which is not going to give us or others happiness, then it is better we don't do that. In the same way, if there is an act which will give us or others happiness then it is worth doing it! We should not waste that oppurtunity!
So, for a contact or an acquaintance to become a 'relationship' it has to give 'happiness' to the other. If this element is not there, then, no acquaintance can mature to be a relationship!
ok...i think it is enough for the day!...we will see more later...keep rocking guys and gals!
rams
For a long time i have been thinking to start a blog...and the day has come!
I thought i will start with this interesting topic!...the topic that is eating the minds of all human beings today...sub-conciously too!
All of us can write volumes and volumes...and talk for the entire life time on this topic!...
when i sent long mails on many such interesting topics i got feedbacks saying 'let them be short & sweet and attractive like the bikinis!'...hmmmm...what to do!...they start like bikinis but end up long like the nighties but covering all the salient features!
so, let me keep the posts like the bikinis! (looks like there is no provision here to insert the smileys!)
i am also planning to recover the old flowers from my gardens and post them here in the days to come...
All that i type here are my own views and not from any book or from any other place...as those of you who know me, i am an open guy, and so, you can pour in your views...no limitations...no boundaries...you can say anything!...as i don't get angry or upset or feel bad...as my understanding about anything is without boundaries...unlimited...i accept people, issues, places, circumstances, cultures, religions etc etc as they are. So, keep rocking without limits!
Though i can talk about engg, science, management...people like my 'craps' on issues related to human behaviours and issues related to this. I am powered by all people around me on these issues, and so, though they are my personal views, you are one among the sources of my views!
ok...let us start...
There is no human being without any relationship on this earth, as no one can survive without the support of another human being. There is an underlying 'need' in any relationship. The need is 'happiness'. I did not say 'want' as, in my opinion, 'happiness' is a need like water, air, food, clothing and sex and can not be classified under 'wants' ('wants' are those sources of 'comfort'...like car, airconditioner etc).
This is because, in my opinion, 'happiness' should be the bottom line with respect to any act or behaviour of all human beings. If there is an act we are planning to do which is not going to give us or others happiness, then it is better we don't do that. In the same way, if there is an act which will give us or others happiness then it is worth doing it! We should not waste that oppurtunity!
So, for a contact or an acquaintance to become a 'relationship' it has to give 'happiness' to the other. If this element is not there, then, no acquaintance can mature to be a relationship!
ok...i think it is enough for the day!...we will see more later...keep rocking guys and gals!
rams
