Dear all... THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS...
One student:
Sir, today everyone has thousands of contacts and friendships. It is so easy to make contacts, friendships and relationships!!.... But every one leaves after some time!... Almost every one suffers break-up!!... Some are less affected and some are affected more!!... that is all the difference.... No relationship stays for long!!... How to believe anyone?... I am scared about my future sir!!.... How to get a life long relationship?... How to find real love?... How to find a life mate?
Everyone goes to the other person only to satisfy their needs, wants and expectations which can never be met all the time and to their satisfaction!!
As relationships are easy, people generally leave one relationship that is not giving satiation and hop to the other and hopping goes on and on!!
Everyone might have thousands of contacts and few hundred friendships and few tens of relationships all the time which may be changing from time to time. But no one probably will have THAT ONE RELATIONSHIP....
.....WITH WHOM THEY HAVE THE TOTAL TRUST AND CAN SURRENDER TO THAT PERSON WITH CONFIDENCE!!
......WITH WHOM THEY CAN SOCIALISE WITHOUT FEAR OR HESITATION OR UNEASYNESS!!
......WITH WHOM THEY HAVE THE COMFORT TO SHARE AND DISCUSS ANYTHING UNDER THE SKY!!
......WITH WHOM THEY CAN STRIKE A RELATIONSHIP THAT THEY STRIKE WITH GODS!!
.....WITH WHOM THEY FEEL THEY ARE HAPPY, PEACEFUL, PHYSICALLY MENTALLY AND SOCIALLY HEALTHY, GROWING, DEVELOPING, MATURING, EVOLVING AND ABLE TO REALISE THEIR PASSIONS, GOALS, DREAMS!!
.....WITH WHOM THEY FEEL THEY DON'T HAVE ANY CONFUSIONS IN LIFE...THEY ARE CLEAR IN THEIR CONSCIENCE AND ARE ABLE TO TAKE DECISIONS THAT DOES NOT DISTURB THEIR PEACE, HAPPINESS AND HEALTH!!
....WITH WHOM THEY FEEL THEY ARE ABLE TO FACE ANY CHALLENGE ON THIS EARTH WITH EASE, COMFORT AND CONFIDENCE!!
....WITH WHOM THEY ARE ABLE TO SELF-ACTUALISE!!
Just be that ONE PERSON IN SOMEBODY'S LIFE!!... and see how things change in your life!!
Peacefully yours... Rams... Psychologist!!
