regarding the increase in the number of 'old age homes' in our country...and every one blaming the children saying 'they are ruthless, they don't have responsible or love or faithful feeling to their parents'...
1. once the parents of a guy living in mumbai visited...they travelled all the way from kanyakumari for two days and nights in second class train (those days konkan railway was not there)...they reached the home after changing buses at 11 am...the guy had gone to office...his wife opened the door and came...when she saw her in-laws, she shut the door and went in and shouted 'get lost! don't enter my house!'...those days there was no mobile...so they waited here and there in the colony...the guy came in the evening...met the parents...took them home...the wife refused to open the door inspite of all the requests etc...as there was no other way, the guy took them back to the railway station and sent them back in unreserved...can you imagine two oldies travelling for days and nights in unreserved second class train from bombay to kanyakumari?
i am sure you must be boiling against that lady who did not allow them inside the house!!!....at the same time why don't you think about the lady's side 'what made her to behave like this?'...'what the oldies did to her to make her get so angry and behave inhuman?'...(the lady looks after her husband and children soooo well and she has a good name around as a good wife and nice mother)...i am sure they must have treated her very badly some time...
boys are generally attached to their mother soooo much, they just love them a lot!...but if they are pushed to such levels of keeping them safe and sound in old age homes, then it must certainly be due to the parents...
1. interfering in the internal affairs of the boy and girl
2. directing them and controlling them
3. expecting them to live a life dictated by them
4. the girl is treated just as a servant girl
5. never allow any intimacy to bloom in between the two
6. mothers get attached to their sons so much that they feel possessive and do not like any other girl coming in between and snatching away his love, time, emotions, attention, money and all the resources from her
7. interfering in the rearing of the children (this is one no mother likes. The mother wants to rear the children as per his wish and when the m in law interferes in this, she does not like it)
8. they demand so much right of their son and authority in running the affairs at home
9. they treat the girl in humanly and insult her and her family members.
obviously they will be thrown in old age homes...
so, guys and girls in middle age, let us pull up our socks and behave better with our daughter-in-laws and our sons.
rams
1. once the parents of a guy living in mumbai visited...they travelled all the way from kanyakumari for two days and nights in second class train (those days konkan railway was not there)...they reached the home after changing buses at 11 am...the guy had gone to office...his wife opened the door and came...when she saw her in-laws, she shut the door and went in and shouted 'get lost! don't enter my house!'...those days there was no mobile...so they waited here and there in the colony...the guy came in the evening...met the parents...took them home...the wife refused to open the door inspite of all the requests etc...as there was no other way, the guy took them back to the railway station and sent them back in unreserved...can you imagine two oldies travelling for days and nights in unreserved second class train from bombay to kanyakumari?
i am sure you must be boiling against that lady who did not allow them inside the house!!!....at the same time why don't you think about the lady's side 'what made her to behave like this?'...'what the oldies did to her to make her get so angry and behave inhuman?'...(the lady looks after her husband and children soooo well and she has a good name around as a good wife and nice mother)...i am sure they must have treated her very badly some time...
boys are generally attached to their mother soooo much, they just love them a lot!...but if they are pushed to such levels of keeping them safe and sound in old age homes, then it must certainly be due to the parents...
1. interfering in the internal affairs of the boy and girl
2. directing them and controlling them
3. expecting them to live a life dictated by them
4. the girl is treated just as a servant girl
5. never allow any intimacy to bloom in between the two
6. mothers get attached to their sons so much that they feel possessive and do not like any other girl coming in between and snatching away his love, time, emotions, attention, money and all the resources from her
7. interfering in the rearing of the children (this is one no mother likes. The mother wants to rear the children as per his wish and when the m in law interferes in this, she does not like it)
8. they demand so much right of their son and authority in running the affairs at home
9. they treat the girl in humanly and insult her and her family members.
obviously they will be thrown in old age homes...
so, guys and girls in middle age, let us pull up our socks and behave better with our daughter-in-laws and our sons.
rams
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