hai all...
'dei, unakku vekkam maanam rosham soodu soranai irukkaadaaa! uppu pottu thaan thingariyaaa!'
this is a common sentence spoken by any tamilian often...i don't know how to translate it...i think it means simply 'izzat' (self pride?) of a person...
this is the sentence which makes people
1. to get angry
2. to commit many murders
3. to feel revenge and indulge in anger, jealousy and all negative and destructive behaviours
4. to strain their relationships with people
5. to develop enemity with close relatives, sibblings, friends and neighbours
6. to make their children also to develop all the negatives above
this sentence normally causes lots of physiological changes inside the body, volcanic processes inside the mind...it makes us to indulge in provoking behaviors which turns the other person in to an animal, get angry and come with all the force to destroy us!
our culture teaches those destructive behaviours as the response to the above sentence...and above sentence is used by others on us or used by our own mind on us, when we are
1. cheated (may be only a perception) by others
2. insulted by others
3. challenged by others for our caliber in any field of life or issue of life
the real 'vekkam maanam rosham soodu soranai' or 'izzat' we will have only when we show physical and mental behaviours which will make the other person TO CHANGE, MAKE HIM THINK ABOUT HIS ACT AND FEEL BAD OR FEEL GUILTY, correct him and make him to do a positive act as a good changed new human being.
other wise this 'vekkam maanam rosham soodu soranai' will only destroy the happiness, peace, physical, mental and social health of both the people concerned!
So, shall we get ready to screw up our lives with this 'izzat'????
peacefully yours
rams-psychologist and sociologist
'dei, unakku vekkam maanam rosham soodu soranai irukkaadaaa! uppu pottu thaan thingariyaaa!'
this is a common sentence spoken by any tamilian often...i don't know how to translate it...i think it means simply 'izzat' (self pride?) of a person...
this is the sentence which makes people
1. to get angry
2. to commit many murders
3. to feel revenge and indulge in anger, jealousy and all negative and destructive behaviours
4. to strain their relationships with people
5. to develop enemity with close relatives, sibblings, friends and neighbours
6. to make their children also to develop all the negatives above
this sentence normally causes lots of physiological changes inside the body, volcanic processes inside the mind...it makes us to indulge in provoking behaviors which turns the other person in to an animal, get angry and come with all the force to destroy us!
our culture teaches those destructive behaviours as the response to the above sentence...and above sentence is used by others on us or used by our own mind on us, when we are
1. cheated (may be only a perception) by others
2. insulted by others
3. challenged by others for our caliber in any field of life or issue of life
the real 'vekkam maanam rosham soodu soranai' or 'izzat' we will have only when we show physical and mental behaviours which will make the other person TO CHANGE, MAKE HIM THINK ABOUT HIS ACT AND FEEL BAD OR FEEL GUILTY, correct him and make him to do a positive act as a good changed new human being.
other wise this 'vekkam maanam rosham soodu soranai' will only destroy the happiness, peace, physical, mental and social health of both the people concerned!
So, shall we get ready to screw up our lives with this 'izzat'????
peacefully yours
rams-psychologist and sociologist
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