Wednesday 27 January 2021

"Sir, many say 'Be what you are and who you are!!'...you say 'Have global adaptability!'....which one is right?"

 Dear all,

One Question...One Answer....

Qn. "Sir, many say 'Be what you are and who you are!!'...you say 'Have global adaptability!'....which one is right?"

Ans. The answer is very simple. We have got just one life with limited validity. We don't know when the heart which is ticking right now on our left side will stop. So, let us endeavour to live long...Let us endeavour to live young till the last breathe!!...Let us also endeavour to enjoy the life through health enhancing life style so that we enjoy, live long and remain young!...If we follow health compromising life style then we will get diseases of the body and disorders of the mind that will bring pain. So, we can not enjoy the life!!

'Be what you are and who you are!!' is mostly related to our personality traits, belief systems, morals, values, ethics etc. There are about 840 personality traits with almost about 250 plus health enhancing positive traits, 250 plus health compromising negative traits and about 250 plus neutral traits. 

'Be what you are and who you are!!'....if this has more of negative health compromising traits, beliefs, morals, values and ethics then we are sure to have life style diseases, mental disorders and relationship issues. So, we will be suffering in our 'Be what you are and who you are!!'.

So, to live long, young and enjoy the life let us change a bit to remove all the negatives and bring in the positives!!...If we are rigid with respect to 'Be what you are and who you are!!' then we will suffer in diseases, disorders and loneliness, as people will leave us physically or mentally or emotionally!!

Also, today education and work occupy most of our daily life time and both are global. So, to win in both these domains...to win in family life...to win in all our relationships...to win in totality...it  is important that we become flexible towards health enhancing global life styles, traits, morals, values and ethics. So, global adaptability is a must to enjoy the entire earth and world that is created for us!!

Also, most of the memes and various facebook and whatsapp messages are created by people like us who are born, brought up, soaked and drenched in our TV Serial life style and culture...so no wonder they create all such wrong, false, incorrect memes and shares. So, let us use our common sense and follow only those which give health enhancing life!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!


Tuesday 5 January 2021

Let us understand the life....

 Dear all,

Everyone is talking about economic development all over the world. The drive is for this. The government machinery, entire corporate world and all the B schools are thinking and innovating all the methods to drive the economy, boost the economy, make India an economic superpower etc. Every country is in this mission of economic development.

Economic development can take place only when money flows and rotates freely in the market without getting stagnated. So, everyone is aiming at making people to spend money in buying products and services. More and more attractive services and products at affordable prices with wide varieties and less life time are getting generated.

Everyone wants to study psychology to motivate humans to earn more, spend more and get addicted more!!

They are creating more and more needs and wants of human beings. They are creating a situation that only if you have that product or use that service, you can be alive, happy, peaceful, survive and do any routine life activity also. Also a hype that only if you have that or use it, you will get a social identity among peer groups or society.

The end result is everyone is going mad, working like machines, to earn more and more, to spend more, to buy more, to use more. They are doing jobs which they don't like or not interested in doing. So, no creativity and without creativity no organization or employee can remain in the market in the exponentially increasing competition.   Therefore, they get thrown out. Lose jobs. More and more agony and misery in life. High stress levels in all domains of life. Diseases in body! Disorders in mind!! Strained relationships everywhere!!...The medical industry flourishes boosting the economy!!

What are we up to?

To create a world full of patients or want to make the earth a burial ground??

All the products and services in this world are created mostly for human beings. Only if we buy, there is a market for them!!

We need to understand the funda of life very clearly.

This is probably the only conscious life with limited time on this earth for all of us. We are here to live long, enjoy, be happy and be peaceful.

This is possible only if we are without disease and disorders. Because these two will give us pain and we cannot enjoy the life!!

So, we should not get in that whirlpool explained above.

I am not against economic development. But it should be through ethical means and through health enhancing products and services. Not by unethical, immoral and through health compromising methods, products and services!!

So, let us wake up and pursue simple living, aligned with Nature, and support only health enhancing lifestyle, products and services!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

Monday 4 January 2021

Even those with low IQ can excel in life, grow in career ladder, retain their jobs...how?

Dear all,

All of us are born with different IQ. Does it mean only those with High IQ can shine in life? Only they can excel and reach high positions or retain their jobs?
No!!
Others with low IQ also can!!
There are many jobs wherein honesty, trustworthiness, truthfulness, financial integrity, following the Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs) meticulously, hard working ability are important. These can be done by low/average IQ people also.
So, there are jobs where the personality traits are more important than the IQ.
There are jobs where Emotional Intelligence and Spiritual Intelligence are important.
If we select those jobs, then we can retain the jobs and also excel in our career.
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!


Sunday 3 January 2021

"Be a STUDENT in front of other PROFESSORS and be a PROFESSOR in front of STUDENTS"

 Dear all,

I find many Professors have a high IQ, but they lose out on many things in their life due to the EGO. I follow a policy that has always helped and benefitted me. So, I thought I will share with everyone here.
"Be a STUDENT in front of other PROFESSORS and be a PROFESSOR in front of STUDENTS"
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!