THIS IS FOR ALL WHO WANT TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING IN LIFE...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL WHO WANT TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING IN LIFE...

Create a Name board of your own, with whatever you want to be...with all the decorations before the name and qualifications after the name or status below your name (e.g Vice Chancellor, Scientist, Prime Minister, Good Human being etc)

Ramesh IAS

Shri IPS

Dr Shri

Shri, Mountaineer................like this......

Fix the board in your bedroom in front of the bed in such a manner that it is big and prominently seen when you wake up, and before closing your eyes in the night it is unavoidably seen by you.

So, you wake up seeing your dream position or destination in life and you sleep with the dreams of your goals, to get up and see to reinforce the same.

This works!!...

The whole day your thoughts, emotions and actions will be towards reaching that goal. All your decisions every day will be to reach the goal. At the end of the day when you again see the board you will think what you achieved towards reaching the goal and what you should do next day towards the same.

This works!!...

Try it out!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

"The children of today are too hard pressed with respect to studies. We are killing them. They are getting burnt out"

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS AND ADULTS...MAY BE STUDENTS TOO...

I keep hearing these words from the mouth of parents everywhere...

"The children of today are too hard pressed with respect to studies. We are killing them. They are getting burnt out"

"The present world and living is 'A life of stress!!'...Too much of load!!...Every body is stressed and burnt out in their profession and job!!"

When we force ourselves or our children to learn or do things in which they are not skilled and interested...When we are forcing them to do some activity beyong their intelligence levels...skill levels...creativity levels...when we expect children to expand suddenly overnight or within a short time to IIT or IIM or IAS or AIMS or such high levels...when we are motivated and blindfolded by 'This is what will bring status or image or identity or money or wealth or a good life in society..So do this!!...............If we do all these then obviously anyone, whether children or we, will be hard pressed, stressed to the core, get killed, get burnt out!!

If we or children...1. understand our present intelligence or creativity or skill or competency levels in various skills through proper measurements (plenty of APA approved tools are available in the net)...

2. If we decide to grow, expand and mature in knowledge and skills gradually in adaptable and sustainable baby-steps or leaps as comfortable to us...

3. in the areas of our interest that matches with our intelligence (some are good in mathematical intelligence and some are good in social intelligence and others in other areas!), skills sets, competency levels...

4. with a definition of life that matches with the way Nature has produced us to expand, grow, mature, get enlightened, to get self actualised, to be self transcending...

5. with a feeling that 'I am here on this earth to enjoy my learning of new things, my expansion, my growth, experiencing my own potentials every second, to enjoy knowing my strengths and weaknesses where i need to improve, to enjoy my journey of life towards enlightenment and self actualisation through possible improvements in my knowledge, skills, potential, competency levels in all dimensions possible....

6. with a feeling that 'i want to share, motivate, give-out all my learnt things to others as i walk through my life and enjoy the life of encouraging, enlightening others in the process of growing and achieving the goals...THEN WHERE IS THE QUESTION OF GETTING STRESSED?...WHERE IS THE QUESTION OF GETTING BURNT-OUT?...WHERE IS THE QUESTION OF KILLING OURSELVES OR OTHERS?...WHERE IS THE QUESTION OF FEELING 'I HAVE WASTED MY LIFE!!'

A person no less than Albert Einstein also says "“Genius is 1% talent and 99% percent hard work...”...So, therefore, if some one says INTELLIGENCE IS A MUST TO BE AN ACHIEVER, then they are differing with none less than Einstein!!

Einstein's statement has been validated statistically and experimentally too!!...There are soo many living examples who are achievers through hard work. Intelligence can be improved within the possible limits by every individual!!...Every one may not be able to become an Einstein or Curie or Edison, but at least they can become whatever possible by them, within their limits of expansion and growth, by enjoying the process, when they grow within the 'rate of growth' possible by them!!..Within their comfort zones of expansion and growth!!

A child interested in dancing with skill sets showing good competency levels in dancing...if we encourage and support this child by showing the path of development and growth in dancing and the knowledge, skills, life-style, habits and culture required to excel, enjoy and become the best dancer too, then through enjoyable-hard-work (i.e extended hours of dancing), through enjoying every second of dancing the child will grow slowly and steadily and learn all forms of dancing in the world and become Master of Dance!!...Where are the problems blabbered by the parents here??...I don't understand!!

Therefore, what parents say is wrong!!...These are excuses!!...What they are forcing themselves or others or their children are wrong, motivated by wrong beliefs, by wrong methods. So, they say so!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

Why so many wars, conflicts, unrest, fights?...Why issues of the kind of Sabarimala issue?...Why countries spend so much of money on Armed forces?

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS...many students ask me this question...even sociology students!!

(Psychology is the study of 'Behaviour of Human Beings as Individuals'!...Sociology is the study of 'Behaviour of Human Beings as groups!...Studying the books and history of these two subjects will not suffice, but analysing and thinking the causes, effects and solutions only will help to find permanent solutions!!)

Qn. Why so many wars, conflicts, unrest, fights?...Why issues of the kind of Sabarimala issue?...Why countries spend so much of money on Armed forces?

Ans: Simple answer is 'As long as we have RULING ATTITUDE AND GREED in human brains all these cannot be stopped. Only when technology develops to an extent of removing these personality traits from brains through Genetic Methods then no one will have these negative traits and become true and good leaders, managers and administrators, truly serving for humanity!!

For this question 'Why....?', many causes can be identified, but mostly they will be social. We might find solutions for these social reasons, but unless we remove these biologically, a total, ultimate and final solution cannot be achieved!!

Now the elaborate answer...

Several thousand years before when we were animals and 'food gatherers' wandering in forests and jungles like vagabonds for food and shelter, such issues were not there!

When we got sixth sense through evolution, when we became 'food producers', started living at one place producing our own food and making own shelters, when 'possessiveness' also came as a gift of evolution, the civilisation started and all problems we have today originated that time!!

Every individual is different and therefore, living together brings in problems at all levels. In a community living, whether inside home or in a society or in an organisation or a team or a group, adaptation to differences is a must. Else either the individual or all members in the community will suffer.

When problems in living together as a community started, rules, regulations, social systems, social structures, methods of functioning and development of societies were made by MEN!!

This is the time we required leaders, managers and administrators. Leaders who can create synergy, who can unite people beyond their differences and individual wants, needs and expectations towards goals of the community, who can lead by example...Managers who can effectively and economically manage the resources for prosperity of every one, administrators who can make policies for true common cause and execute them.

sadly, out of the various negative personality traits that came along the evolution GREED, POSSESSIVENESS, RULING mentality also came along. So, ruthless, egoistic, selfish, power hungry, authoritative, cunning, tyrannical, inhuman rulers were also born who divided the people, land and still ruling the people....from kings, to till now. They create problems and appear to be solving. Till such time these traits exist, this world will be a hell only. Rulers exist at homes, organisations, society, state, country and in the world everywhere!

The only solution that comes to my mind is inventing a chemical that will erase these traits genetically and all mothers give to their children like vaccines and after some generations there will no devils on this earth and all families, organisations, societies, countries and world will become real heaven without any borders, religions, caste, race and all such divisive things the rulers created!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

THIS IS FOR ALL MEN AND WOMEN...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL MEN AND WOMEN...

Today is Men's day!!

Woooooooooooo!!!😜😜😜....Thank you wo'man'!!!💐💐🌸🌸

You all only produce us!!🙏🙏💐💐

Science can create a life from a stem cell but finally it can be grown only inside a womb of a women, delivered by a woman and developed and grown into a confident and adaptable adult by a motherly love only!!...So, jai hind to women!!!💪💪💪🙏🙏💐💐

Truth will always stand tall, shining like a star, beyond the masking baskets of male chauvinistic world!!🙏🙏💐💐

On men's day men should do something good for feminity and on women's day women also to join with men to do something good for feminity so that the world and earth are in peace!!!🙏😃💐💐🌸🌸

If the women are not peaceful, happy and healthy, no child or man or home or organisation or a group or a team or a society or a country can be at good health in peace and happiness!!...All the suffering at home, office and everywhere is because of the non-women friendly system and environment that men have created everywhere!!!...So, if this is changed by men then the world will become The Heaven!!!...💐💐🌸🌸🙏🙏😃

It is not a thought, but a truth!!...Is there any Social Evil ever made against men?🤔...All Social Evils and Rules and Regulations are only for women!!...As they were all made by men and Slavered-women of men!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

An excellent post from some one...worth reading...

Dear all...below is an excellent post i received in my whatsapp...Shared here for enlightenment of every one....

"An economics professor at a local college made a statement that he had never failed a single student before, but had recently failed an entire class.

That class had insisted that socialism worked and that no one would be poor and no one would be rich, a great equalizer*

The professor then said, "OK, we will have an experiment in this class on the following plan : All grades will be averaged and everyone will receive the same grade !

After the first test, the grades were averaged and everyone got a B.

The students who studied hard were upset and the students who studied little were happy.

As the second test rolled around, the students who studied little had studied even less and the ones who studied hard decided they wanted a free ride too so they studied little.

The second test average was a D!

No one was happy.

When the 3rd test rolled around, the average was an F.

As the tests proceeded, the scores never increased as bickering, blame and name-calling all resulted in hard feelings and no one would study for the benefit of anyone else.

To their great surprise, ALL FAILED and the professor told them that communism would also ultimately fail because when the reward is great, the effort to succeed is great, but when government takes all the reward away, no one will try or want to succeed.

These are possibly the 5 best sentences you'll ever read and all applicable to this experiment :

1. You cannot legislate the poor into prosperity by legislating the wealthy out of prosperity.

2. What one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving.

3. The government cannot give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody else.

4. You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it!

5. When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them and when the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that is the beginning of the end of any nation !"

Do you agree that it is an excellent one??

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

PEACE...PEACE...PEACE...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

PEACE is the fundamental, basic, birthright, biggest wealth of life and only we can bring in this inside us and no one can spoil it if we don't react!!...Gaining anything by losing this is a colossal waste!!

A person who reads this, if positive minded, will try to bring-in peace for himself and in others.

A negative minded person will become a nuisance value to others and try to remove the peace in others, thereby removing peace in his or her mind too!!

By spoiling the peace of others, we can not live in peace. Only by providing peace to others, we can find peace in ourselves!!

All the revenge seekers might find some feeling of goodness for a brief time, but will end up with lifetime misery!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

Why people fail in relationships??

🌸🌸...Dear all....THIS IS FOR ALL...

'One who can't perceive love from animals, birds, insects, mountains, hills, rainbow, water falls, rains, drizzles, climates, clouds, sun, moon, forests, jungles, water bodies, flowers, fruits, vegetables or any one of such elements of Nature, can never perceive love from human beings too and will suffer forever with disorders, diseases and strained/broken relationships!!...One who can not develop a relationship with other elements of Nature, can never develop a healthy relationship with human beings for life time!!

One who can develop relationship with Nature and its elements, One who perceives love from every element of Nature, will perceive love from every human being too and always will live in abundance of love with great social relationships for entire life time!!'

So, start loving Nature, to get love and affection from Human beings!!

Parents should first teach the children as to how to love the other elements of Nature, they will learn how to love, live and adapt to human beings automatically!!

Peacefully yours...Rams....Psychologist!!...🌸🌸

Why we suffer?...How to live without suffering????

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...SHORT AND SWEET!!

Animals eat, play, sleep, make their home or live in the home of others, reproduce, rear the children, perceive the threats, fight or flight the threats!!...

Are we doing anything different??🤔...

Oh, Yesss!!...We can Think!...

But the thinking has to be beyond all these elements of Animal Living!!...

That is called Human Life...Human Living!!...Being Human...Human Beings!!...

In Animal Life and living that we do normally, we suffer with the Thinking ability!!...

But animals live happily without this thinking ability!!...

So, if we have to be peaceful, happy, physically-mentally-socially healthy in our living with this unavoidable thinking ability, then we have to think beyond the elements of animal living and life, NO OTHER WAY!!...

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!💐💐

What is the use of relationships, what are they supposed to do?

💐💐...Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

All of us are born on this earth through a mother and father as a small baby!! Nature also provides grandparents, siblings, children, friends...all such kinds of emotional relationships during our growth from infancy to babyhood to childhood to adolescence to adulthood.

For what?...What is the purpose?

What are they supposed to do for us?...Why all these relationships?...What are the duties and responsibilities of these relationships in real terms?

ALL OF THEM ARE AT DIFFERENT STAGES IN LIFE WITH THEIR OWN EXPERIENCES OF DIFFERENT AGES. SO, THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO TEACH US ABOVE LIVING AND INDEPENDENCY...MAKE US LEARNED ABOUT LIFE, MAKE US MENTALLY STRONG TO LIVE ALL ALONE ANYWHERE ON THIS EARTH WITHOUT DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR ANYTHING, EATING WHATEVER IS AVAILABLE, EARNING OUR OWN FOOD, LOOK AFTER OURSELVES BY OUR OWNSELVES, ADAPTABLE TO ANY CLIMATE, LANGUAGE, CULTURE, ALL KINDS OF ENVIRONMENTS ETC.

AS WE GROW WE BECOME THOSE RELATIONSHIPS TO OTHERS AND WE ARE SUPPOSED TO MAKE OTHERS MENTALLY STRONG AND EVERYTHING ABOVE!!

But what happens ultimately?...Do all these people know what they are supposed to do to us?...Do we know the above responsibilities that Nature has vested on us?

The reality is we all get emotionally attached sooo much with these relationships, they also get attached with us, that WE BECOME TOTALLY DEPENDENT AND ATTACHED ON EACH OTHER...NONE OF THE ABOVE IS ACHIEVED...WE ALL SUFFER...!!

Parents and children get attached to each other so much that their life gets messed up totally!...Emotions are required to care and support to make the other person strong...then we are supposed to get detached till again the other person goes mentally or physically weak needing support. But we get glued to the other person always that WE END UP MAKING THE OTHER PERSON MENTALLY WEAK. All the goals and passion get buried as one cannot remain separated from the other!

We need to remember one thing...NO ONE WILL REMAIN WITH US FOR ENTIRE LIFE!!!...PEOPLE KEEP MOVING FOR STUDIES, WORK, MARRIED LIFE, ETC. SO, WE KEEP MAKING THE LOST RELATIONSHIPS WITH NEW PEOPLE NEAR BY WHEREVER WE LIVE. NO COUPLE WILL DIE SAME TIME. THEREFORE, EVERY ONE WILL REMAIN ALL ALONE ATLEAST AT OLDER AGE FOR SOME YEARS. WE HAVE TO KNOW, UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THIS FACT!!

'I know this, but i am unable to do, unable practice!!'...if someone says this, then it shows that there is something wrong during the manufacturing or developmental process from womb to childhood to adolescence!!...There is some issue in the brain...not normal secretions...Of course, such condition happens for every one sometimes in life, but they get alright. For some it remains life long. Through healthy food, lifestyle habits, understanding the above philosophies of life, being goal focussed, we can become strong and manage!!

So, the crux is...

1. All relationships in our life are supposed to makes us strong and independent to live all alone anywhere in the world without dependent on anyone for anything at anytime in life.

2. We are supposed to do the above for others.

3. We will be all alone many times in life. No one is permanent in our life.

4. We keep making, fantasizing or perceiving all kinds of relationships with people around at that point in time or of the past.

5. Attachment is the cause of all sorrows. Remaining detached while being attached only when required is the way out. Following duties and responsibilities in relationships and being emotional only when we are weak or when the other person is weak is the way out. But we should be ready to live without the other person in life any time!!

6. Some are able to forget the old relationships without any damages and make new relationships in no time wherever they are!! Appears weird, but they will be safe and sound mentally.

7. Love, care, emotions, attachment, support are all required, vital, essential, during the entire growth process up to 20 years and later in life too. But detachment is equally essential at every stage in life, and we need to learn this. Attachment comes naturally but detachment-in-attachment requires lots of conscious efforts. Else suffering is sure as the nest will become empty some day and we will have to be all alone or making new relationships with people nearby!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!....💐💐

Who created this universe and all of us?...who is god?

💐💐...Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...a frequent question that comes to me…

Qn. Who created this universe and all of us?...who is god?

Ans. No one can answer this ever!!...Every one has a sifferent answer. Different answers will be convincing to different people!!...Generally people end up in arguing (not discussing, because mostly people are obsessed or emotionally attached to their God, Religion etc) on this issue and will only waste time, energy, increase BP, spoil the relationships, bring-in hate, anger, frustration, fights, destructions and spoil their physical, mental and social well-being and valuable non-returnale life-time. No one can prove or disprove to the other about what he is convinced or not convinced about, leading to only endless argument!!

This universe has only two things…1. Proven…2. Unproven. Generally no one has a different opinion about proven things. But many of them can be proved wrong as and when science and technology improves.

When people talk about unproven things, they will only describe felt experiences, feelings, opinions, perceptions, hear-say statements, some documental evidence that is not proven. All these differ from person to person. People will argue that everything cannot be proven by science etc. Some of their arguments might converge to some conclusion too but without proof and valid evidence, but offering some surprises.

Inventions and discoveries are a never ending continuous process. This universe will have always people who will talk negative, keep saying something or the other is not possible ever, researching on such things is a sin and god will punish them etc. But few things get proven over a period of time, and researches on few things will continue forever. Hundred years back no one felt that an aircraft of mammoth size carrying several helicopters inside can fly in air, or we will go to moon or mars etc. Several examples can be quoted in the history of development of science, humanity, technology etc which were felt impossible.

So, the crux is…

1. Everyone and every answer is right, till such time they are proven wrong.

2. Any answer, which makes a person happy, peaceful, physically and mentally healthy, energetic, positive, and motivated to live and to help others to live, helps that person to make enhancing, flourishing, life-long, strong relationships with people, without hate, anger, discrimination etc is right for that person. All others are wrong for that person. How does it matter whether some one accepts our views are not and who is or what is right or wrong?...Aim is to live. People and our relationships with them are more important than these philosophies which is seen to bring in hate, fights and conflicts.

3. Any answer that unites humanity and keeps the earth green, clean, maintains eco system balance etc is right.

4. Anyone who gives an answer that divides people, brews hate, exploits people, enslaves others, makes others weak and to lose their self-confidence, makes others parasitic and lazy, is a wrong person to be kept away from humanity.

5. Anyone who helps human beings to think, find their own answers through guidance that gives all the above is a right person.

6. God is a tool for us to live peacefully and harmoniously. Our perceptions should not destroy us.

7. So, don’t waste time and energy on this. Scientists are on the job. You may also join with them to find a solution in a systematic way. In this universe, everything is systematic, orderly, stable etc and therefore, only through systematic study one can find way ahead towards the answer, whether the answer will be found out or not, but certainly a headway leading to several break through researches in many directions will happen!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

Press the Esc Button!!

🍁🍁..Haiiiii.....!!

Let us Expand into The Nature...

And the Vast Universe...

Beyond the Social Constructs...

To Free Ourselves...

In a Problem Free Entity of Open Space...

Where there will be no Man-Made-Mundane-Problems...

To see No-solutions Ahead...And Die Every minue!!

But There will be Only Creative Ideas...

And Universe of Oppurtunities...

To XPAND

And Live...!!

Have a Good Day!!...🍁🍁

DON'T FOLLOW THE AMERICAN OR EUROPEAN MODEL OF LIVING, LIFE STYLE....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS...

When we think about doing anything like social development, economy or civil administration or governance etc....regarding what model to follow...we generally look at an American Model or European Model.

All these models are generally focussed on Economic Growth and becoming a Super Power, ruling the world, being a Master, to make every one a Slave!! Not based on PEACE, HAPPINESS, GOOD PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND SOCIAL WELL-BEING OF PEOPLE, WORLD AND EARTH. This is why the mankind is getting stressed in all domains of life and living and dieing.

No country can become rich or wealthy or a super power or strong in any domain without focusing on the PEOPLE!!...Because they make everything on this earth!!...They make the world with economy or military or whatever!!...They make the home or village or town or city or state or country!!...Not the land or other resources!!...With out addressing the people, one can not grab any kind of resource under their hard hold!!...So, PSYCHOLOGY OF HUMAN BEINGS IS EXPLOITED, AND NOT USED, BY THE PEOPLE IN POWER!!

Of course, a country can become a super power by addressing people in a positive way. But sadly right from parenting to administration to politics, we use only negative methods which have their direct or indirect dangers!!

Therefore, all the administrators, politicians, corporate giants, are trying to make the people addicted to unhealthy life style, products, services, make them diseased, with ailments, disorders and spoiled relationships. This is another kind of new generation warfare to destroy the enemy by his ownself!!

Just for the ECONOMY TO FLOURISH we make human beings to eat chemicals by making them 'ADDICTS OF TASTE, SOCIAL STATUS AND IMAGE'. We make them work all 24 hours for fear of losing jobs and failing in professional growth, make them always anxiety struck and stressed, making these stressed bodies to 'binge' eat, become fat and get all kinds of cancer, diabetes, hypertension, depression, phobias, manias etc and die every moment. Increase the age, decrease the mortality rate, but make every one suffer during entire life.

Sadly they focus or exploit on ADOLESCENT PSYCHOLOGY of IMAGE FORMING, ROLE MODELLING etc, by showing wrong and unhealthy methods of image forming ('i eat in KFC'...'I am now in McDonalds!'...'I drink Coke!'...'I am eating Pizza now!') and showing wrong role models to follow in life!...These are the new age social evils!!

So, my dear young generation, please wake-up!!

Let the economy flourish by using healthy products and services!!

Follow the ANCIENT INDIAN PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE AND LIVING. (not the present or recent past!!). Work hard during the wake-up hours and sleep during the silent hours. But we waste too much of the day time, do unhealthy entertainment and bad resting and work during sleep time!!... Follow yoga and healthy exercise regime and eating habits - of stress-not-forming, entertainment, etc...A HEALTHY LIFE STYLE!!

So, the crux is...

DON'T FOLLOW THE AMERICAN OR EUROPEAN MODEL OF LIVING, LIFE STYLE, IMPROVING ECONOMY OF FAMILY, ORGANISATION AND THE COUNTRY OR BECOMING THE SUPER POWER. FOLLOW THE ANCIENT INDIAN MODEL OF LIFE STYLE, LIVING AND GROWTH!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

AN IMPORTANT POST FOR ALL STUDENTS....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR STUDENTS...(and FOR PARENTS TO FORWARD TO THEIR CHILDREN!!)

All the Theories, Laws, Theorems, Formulae, Effects, Equations, Corollaries, Derivations that you read are not verses of Bible or Quran or Bhagvad Gita for you to cage your thoughts, activities and living, in your professional, personal, social and family living. They are not boundaries of your creativity and life!...They are not limits of your brain!...They are not walls of your mind constructed by your teachers and professors!!...They are not sacred and not to be questioned!!...They are just some methods to understand the Nature. There are several to be discovered and invented by YOU!!...They are shown infront of you that you need to question their truth by going beyond and outside those principles. So, use them as ladders and stones to climb up and see the vast horizon of Scince, Engineering, Technology and Nature!!...They are not roads with a dead-end. Make the high-way ahead!!...Work towards disproving all these perceptions and proofs, and break all these walls and barriers of thinking-to-dead-end!!...At the end, either you will understand them well or win a Nobel!!...You are born to do this!!...There are enough people to populate this earth and add to the senses of animals. It does not mean don't live a family life. It only means don't be just a reproductive and USER animal. You be a HUMAN also, to create, generate, make, invent and discover that will keep the earth green and world happy, peaceful and healthy. Every research outcome need not be converted into a Product or Service. Let the negative or dangerous research outcomes remain as research findings only as theories or laws or equations. Researching anything, including the social evils like Religion or those said therein, should never be stopped for the fear of outcomes!!...So, all yours!!...Your parents and grandparents did not have the bloody guts due to fear, they did not have the present global access and oppurtunities and so lived a caged and learned helplessness life of everything. So, let them die their life and go. You show the way to live to the future progeny and mankind!!...All the best!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

Hell and heaven are inside us and not up in the skies!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

Hell and Heaven are not up in the skies. What goes inside the mouth and nose, what goes inside the brain through the ears, eyes and skin (temperature, humidity, touch of liquids, solids and gases) as perceptions, learning, right, wrong, true, false etc create a hell or heaven inside the body and mind!!...They also create heavenly or 'hell'y relationships!!

Anything that creates hell in body, mind and relationships is wrong, false and not true for US!!

We are born to live, the today, and not to reach the God. Let us think about this life and living, not about the tomorrow and next life.

Such stories like 'we are born to reach the divine and lotus feet of God' etc are told to the oldies so that they accept death pleasantly and fearlessly.

So, let us make our body, mind and relationships heaven, and not hell, through what goes inside our sensors and processor!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!