Hai all...specially the teen ages....How to know if we are in love or
not?...Many mess up their lives without knowing this and come for
counseling...
When you feel you have fallen in love with some one ask the question to yourself 'OK, what do you want from that person?'...if the immediate spontaneous answer that appears in the mind is physical intimacy and reproductive needs then you are not in love. You have just an animal instinct. It is better to leave that person.
But if the answer that appears is 'I want that person to be happy, healthy, peaceful, successful, enjoy freedom and feel liberated to skies and above, grow in all dimensions in life viz knowledge, skills, wisdom, wealth, fame, authority etc'...I want to contribute to that person in this endeavor throughout my life!' then you are in love with that person.
When you feel you have fallen in love with some one ask the question to yourself 'OK, what do you want from that person?'...if the immediate spontaneous answer that appears in the mind is physical intimacy and reproductive needs then you are not in love. You have just an animal instinct. It is better to leave that person.
But if the answer that appears is 'I want that person to be happy, healthy, peaceful, successful, enjoy freedom and feel liberated to skies and above, grow in all dimensions in life viz knowledge, skills, wisdom, wealth, fame, authority etc'...I want to contribute to that person in this endeavor throughout my life!' then you are in love with that person.
peacefully yours
rams
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