Thursday, 4 September 2025

Variety and Obsession....

 Dear all,

Human beings want variety in everything except in those which they are obsessed with!!
It means if we are seeking variety in something, generally we don’t have obsession in that!!
If we are not seeking variety, then there is a likelihood of obsession there!!
Obsession means ‘this is the only sweetest…this is the only best…etc’ which is incorrect and not the reality.
Obsession leads to disturbed physical, mental, and social well-being and therefore affects overall health, living, and life!!
Both attraction and love without attraction have the potential to lead to obsession!!
Obsession can be there in needs, wants, expectations and all the three or any two also!!
So, obsession can make life too complicated and painful for self, significant people in our life and everyone!!
Peacefully yours….Rams….Psychologist!!