Wednesday, 16 January 2013

are we all same?

hai guys and gals...

how are we?...i am not sending forwarded mails...these are my own mails...i only send it to my own email id and forward it to all contacts...as it has to be sent three times to accommodate all contacts...from sanfrancisco to canberra...so, it is read by varied people in different societies, religions, regions and culture. Unfortunately only some give feedback.

I am only sharing my views here and not trying to boast as i always consider myself as a school student and look forward for views to LEARN. So, i wish all experts to pour in.

I used the word 'bomb in brain' because many of the social learning i.e sociology...both conscious and unconscious learning... have become bombs in brain damaging our lives, happiness and health. For e.g a conversation that took place between me and my friend few months back is below:-

'hey rams! do you know...video clips of @#$% with %^&* actress is on YouTube...i never imagined that he can do that!!'

I only gave a laugh and he felt unhappy as i was not serious. He felt more offended and angry when i said 'He is not at fault. You and others are only at fault for perceiving him and others like him to be like that!'...to cool him down i had to amplify...

'all living beings from single cell to multicellular have nature driven basic instinct of reproduction. So, they indulge in all behaviours of reproduction...to attract, show love, to help etc. Nobody is exempted by nature unless the organism has some problems in the body or is able to consciously avert it. He being a living organism is no exception!'

'No yaar! People like him are not expected to be like that. They are supposed to keep themselves away from all these. He has cheated all the people and his followers. Not acceptable!'

'He has the same body, organs and the functions like we have. In olden days they lived in hills and forests away from civilization. They followed a life of natural diet with yoga and meditation which controlled the hormones and shaped their ego and super ego components. All famous rishis like vishwamitra and vashist lived a family life and said first 'illaram' and then 'thuravaram'...means you can achieve yogi state only through family life. Reproduction and rearing are basic instincts of life and routes to yogi state. Also today corruption and politics have touched all people. In a nutshell, he is like any other living being but only people have formed a wrong perception and image in their mind that people like him should live like what they have in mind!'

though the friend did not agree at that moment, he later agreed after few days of self thinking and analysis.

So, nature has produced all in the same way. We only perceive people differently. When a child is born, by default, it is a part of a social organisation called 'family'. The organisation has many members with their social status like father, mother, grandfather, brother, sister etc. Each status has a  or set of roles. So, each member with their status behave differently with the child. It learns from them all social beliefs, customs, traditions, habits, culture. It also learns from books, friends, teachers etc. Not from nature. Nature has not produced the child with these in the brain. It has left some other program in the brain which subconsciously works in the body and mind during the development process of the child at different stages of life. So, there is a conflict, consciously or subconsciously which drives the behaviours moderated by the superego component.

So all these social learning is formed by social systems comprising of human beings and not by nature. In the case study we have discussed it is our perception which needs to be changed and nature has produced all to be same.

I just want to ask : 1. Is there any god who is poor?  2. Is there any god man who is poor?

Then who is poor?...why?...where is the problem?...Is it due to our social system, social learning or nature?

see you...

ravusu rams!

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