yet another interesting mail...
it also contains the mails i received from various corners around the world...from US to australia...
you also enjoy!
rams
--- On Sun, 21/11/10, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Subject: பாகம் அஞ்சு - 'யேங்க என்னை ரெண்டு நாளா கட்டி புடிக்கலை?
To: "B ramya dilip" <ramyadilip@gmail.com>, "Brindha chelliah" <flyurwaybri@gmail.com>, "CA Shaneer Nadaf" <shan.cool21@gmail.com>, "CAPT VM DOSS" <vmdos@rediffmail.com>, "CDR A MUTHU" <muthu0409@gmail.com>, "CDR DHINAKARAN" <ltcdrdhina@gmail.com>, "CDR MANIVANNAN" <iam_vannan@hotmail.com>, "CDR R BALASUBRAMANIAN" <bala2905@gmail.com>, "CDR RAGHUNATHAN" <ragshoba@yahoo.co.in>, "CDR SHIV SHANKER" <shivker@yahoo.co.in>, "D B ANAND" <Anand.B@fmcti.com>, "D B ANAND" <b.anand36401@gmail.com>, "D C KANNICHAMY 36413" <kannichamy@qp.com.qa>, "D C MAHENDRAN 36417 'VANDI' & CLASS REP" <Chinnannan.Mahendran@ranhill-worley.com.my>, "D C MAHENDRAN CLASS REP" <cmagi2002@yahoo.com>, "D CDR V KANNAN 36412" <kannanvenkat_99@yahoo.com>, "D D Nagarajan 36422" <nagu_16@yahoo.com>, "D GANESA PANDIAN" <pandiangan@rediffmail.com>, "D IMMACULATE SYLVIA" <sylvia@igcar.gov.in>, "D JAYAKARUNALAYA" <karuna_mahesh@rediffmail.com>, "D JAYAMANI MANICKAM JOLLU KING THE GREAT 'O'" <jayamani_m@yahoo.com>, "D K KUMARA DASAN" <kk36415@gmail.com>, "D K MEENAKSHI SUNDARAM STYLE KING 36418" <sundaram.km@petrofac.ae>, "D KAILASH" <m_kailash@hotmail.com>, "D M SOMASUNDARAM 36435 ITA CHAIRMAN" <jcsomasundaram@yahoo.co.in>, "D NAGARAJAN 36422" <Nagarajan.Dhandapani@jacobs.com>, "D R SURESH BABU" <R.Babu@petrofac.com>, "D S MOORTHY 36421" <sd.moorthy@eil.co.in>, "D S MOORTHY" <s.moorthy@eil.co.in>, "D S MOORTHY" <somasundarammoorthy@yahoo.co.in>, "D S SIVARAJAN 36434 COMP CLUB SECRETARY" <SIVS@chevron.com>, "D SARAVANA KUMAR" <askumar@shaw.ca>, "D SHANTHI" <Avj1@rediffmail.com>, "D SKU" <sku64@yahoo.com>, "D SURESH BABU mit" <suresh.babu@petrofac.com>, "D THOMAS CHRISTOPHER" <jthomaschris@yahoo.com>, "D V ANTHONY PANGRAS 36402" <Vincent.Anthony2@protek.com.my>, "D V S VADHOOTH 36439 PLACEMENT SECRETARY" <vadhooth@qp.com.qa>, "D V S VADHOOTH" <vadhooth_s@yahoo.com>, "D V SHANTHI" <shanthi.venkataraman@hic.gov.au>, "D venkitti" <venkatesh.iyer@honeywell.com>, "D viji siva" <vijisiva0726@yahoo.com>, "D VIJI SIVA" <vijisiva@singnet.com.sg>, "D VINCENT ANTONY PANGRAS" <Vincent.anthony@ranhill-worley.com.my>, "D Y DOMINIC XAVIOUR 36406" <Dominic.Xavier@ranhill-worley.com.my>, "Dr Deepa Asst Director Research Anna Univ Cbe." <deepapsg@rediffmail.com>, "DR HAMSA PRIYA" <psg_research@mail.psgtech.ac.in>, "Dr Jayakumar Singaram" <jk@epigon.in>, "Dr Mahalakshmi Phd scholar" <abisam3@yahoo.co.in>
Date: Sunday, 21 November, 2010, 10:09 PM
hai guys and gals...
if you don't read long mails ....please change your concept from today....and read this mail.....you will know the reason at the end of this mail....from the comment of one of our friends...then you will read all the mails on this series....
today is 21 sunday....இன்று கார்த்திகை தீபம்...நேரம் மாலை 6.15 மணி...திருவண்ணமலையில் கார்த்திகை தீபம் ஏற்றி விட்டார்கள்...எங்கள் வீட்டிலும் சுற்றிலும் தீபம்...i can see from மொட்டை மாடி a birds eye view of the surroundings...தீபங்கள் ஜக ஜோதியாய் காட்சி அளிக்கிறது...இந்த தீபங்களை போலவே எல்லோர் மனசுக்குள்ளும் உடம்பிலும் சந்தோஷமும் நலமும் (health) நிறைந்து நிற்க வாழ்த்துக்கள்...வீட்டிற்குள் வருகிறேன் ...டிவி யில் ஒரு பாட்டு...
மஞ்சளும் தந்தாள் மலர்கள் தந்தாள்
மங்கள மங்கை மீனாட்சி
நெஞ்சம் ஒருவன் சொந்தம் என்றாள்
தேவி எங்கள் மீனாட்சி
பாட்டை கேட்டதும் எனக்கு நம்ம மெயில் ஞாபகம் வந்தது...போன தடவை அனுப்பிய மெயிலுக்கு இன்னும் நிறைய வாழ்த்துக்களும், எண்ணங்களும் வந்தா வண்ணம் இருக்கின்றன ....எல்லோருக்கும் நன்றி...நன்றி...நன்றி...எனை ஊக்குவிக்கும் எல்லா கரங்களுக்கும் அன்பு உள்ளங்களுக்கும் நன்றி...நன்றி..நன்றி...some of the mails i received are below...for the sake of confidentiality some parts have been removed...my comments are alongside their comments in colour...here we go....
first comment is from my good friend who lived with me for three years...கணக்குலே புலி ன்னு சொன்னா கணக்குக்கு கேவலம்...ராமானுஜத்துக்கு பக்கத்துக்கு வீடுன்னு சொன்னா கொஞ்சம் ஓகே...a guy who has reached up to Massachussettes Institute of Technology, USA where the teachers are Nobel laureates...his mails is the first one below....
From:
"Dr Jayakumar Singaram" <jk@epigon.in>
Dear All,
May be the following provides some hint to resolve soul mate issue that you had stated.
Practical terms and formulation family framework, provides general guide lines for Husband and Mrs to duty bound couple. As we all know, most of the people will not like or repel when some thing forced or demanded some work or obligation as part of duty. At the same time, lady meets some person ( may be lady or man) who is just friend then they tend to like each other more and enjoy those few time or occasions they interact. But same thing may not be true, if it is part of family duty. நீங்க சொல்றது புரியுதுங்கையா...ஆனா இந்த விஷயம் இப்பிடி மேல் போக்கா பாத்து அலசற விஷயம் இல்லீங்களே...இப்பிடி சிம்பிள் ஆன விஷயம் நா social websites ஏன் இப்பிடி flourish ஆயிட்டிருக்கு...மனசுக்குள்ளே மனசு...அதுக்குள்ளே ஒரு மனசு...அட அதுக்குள்ளேயும் ஒரு மனசு...மூளை அவ்வளவு சின்ன விஷயம் இல்லையேப்பா... Thus, way out for this is to give up duty bound mode in family life....ஆஅ...இப்ப சொன்னீங்களே....இது கொஞ்சம் சரி...ஆனா இதுவும் பத்தாது... But how it is possible ?. If they give up then it will become LiveIN style for format....ம்ம்ம்ம் அப்பிடி ஒரேயடியா சொல்லீட முடியாதே.... As Martin Luther King says on community and I would like to revise the same for family context ; “soon or latter family people innovate way to live together as non duty bound family members but yet provide stability to family”....சும்மா நச்சுன்னு நெத்தியடி அடிச்சீங்க போங்க!..இப்பதான்ய நீங்க சைண்டிஸ்ட் மாதிரி பேசறீங்க... If we do things based affection and love then husband and mrs become real soul mate....எஸ்...நீங்க சொல்றது சரி...பட் இதுவும் பத்தலையே...ஒரு கேப் விழுதே... Otherwise they have been part stage managed drama which was formulated by hindu darma or neethi framework. I hope, I could able to get across.!!! In case not, I need some more deep thinking during weekend. I wish you all very happy weekend ( may not be with soul mate )...ஐயா...கொஞ்சம் சொசியாலாஜி ...கொஞ்சம் ஜெனெரல் சைக்காலஜி கலந்து பாருங்க....வரும்...Kind Regards
jk
Now the next mail....
Dear Sir,
Again your message is picturing my real life situation.
Of course my wife is the best wife and equally the worst enemy for me in the earth
What is missing may be "soul mate"
our forefathers are really great that's why they believed,
"மனைவி அமைவது எல்லாம் இறைவன் கொடுத்த வரம்"
Best wishes & Warm regards
என்ன ஜே கே சார்...இந்த மெயிலுக்கு என்ன பதில் சொல்றீங்க...இங்கே லவ் இருக்கு...affection இருக்கு...பட் soul mate ஆகலையே!
Now the next mail...
Wonderful messages Sir,
I take this opportunity to
" WISH YOU & FAMILY A VERY,VERY HAPPY & COLORFUL DIWALI"
now the next mail...
Dear Mr.Ramasubramaniam
The issue you have taken is true.
We women are not even having a right to have a friend (opposite
gender) after marraige. Society and our culture hinders??
we are not allowed to talk or chat with our childhood friends and relations ??
sociology clearly explains this issue...i replied to this mail...but that reply is missing in my 'sent' box...friend...can you forward that reply?...so that i can paste it here...in a nut shell 'our entire life, culture etc have always been based on the basic profession of the socity...the agrarian society has changed into industrial society...but our minds and culture are still agrarian...technological innovations have entered the homes...but minds are still primitive...there is a conflict in many of the issues in the mind...we are in that transient phase...it will take time to change...if we wish, between spouses and within family with healthy discussions and understanding it could be changed and some peace could be attained...
now the next mail...
Rams,
Interesting question. Spouse is the ideal soul mate. Who is going to be with u till last....sir, கொஞ்சம் வித்தியாசம்...இதுக்கு பேரு life mate ன்னு சொல்றாங்க...life mate, soul mate ஆ ...இல்லே ரெண்டும் வேற வேறயா...இதுதான் பிரச்சினை...Some people have more confidence on friends than their spouse...இது...இது...இந்த டுபுக்கு பத்தி தான் நாம இங்கே பேசறோம்...note the word confidence...that is why i have coloured it...so those people do not have confidence on their spouses is it?.... Still i feel i have great authority / understanding / freedom/ socializing/ affection over my girl friend than my wife...பார்ரா பார்ரா...மனைவி கிட்டே இருக்கிற authority, understanding, freedom, socialising freedom, affection ஐ விட girl friend கிட்டே நிறைய இருக்காம்....this means that he has a better socialising climate with his girl friend than his wife...ithukku peru thaan soul mate...But u look deeply , the inner feeling always says that only spouse could be ur saul mate...இந்த டுமீல் தானே சார் வானாங்க்றது...
Bye Rams
now the next mail....
From:
"angello mani" <angellomani@gmail.com>
Dear sir , Your speech at ALVERNIA MATRICULATION SCHOOL was thought provoking. Thanks for sending the speech. Regards Deputy Commandant Angello Innocent
now the next mail....
Hi Uncle!
It is been long time since i send my last mail to you... what to
do so much of study tension?..Lol i'l not say such a word! actually i was
suffering from severe illness..dat i forgot to check my mail! Believe me or
not i studied all your mails on one day! it is very interesting... seeing.
and laughing at ur mails i get cured!! These days i'm really trying to
follow ur words.. Coz it is just the love thing( very easy to do)..... after
i spoke much about your advice to my parents, they too changed a lot.. in
fact they gave my life in my hands(Full freedom to study and to select my
partner)... Before i get my freedom from my parents i do search for my love
and i thought it is the oly thing in lyf but after i get my freedom
(believe) i'm really interested in learning than to search someone to
love!!!! To say clearly i feel better now, wish to achieve something in my
lyf... Thanks for the guidance!! and i wish to do some good
papers.. give some tips regarding dat. Bye 4 now
அப்பாமார்களே...அம்மாமார்களே...இந்த பொண்ணு என்ன சொல்லுதுன்னு கேட்டீங்களா...most of the time you are anxiety struck and keep telling your child ஏய் சைட் அடிக்காதே...லவ்வு கிவ்வு பண்னி கிட்டு படிப்பை கோட்டை விற்றாதே ...இப்பிடி சொல்லி சொல்லியே we don't make them to concentrate on studies and not allowing them to dream big in life...so they keep thinking about site adichhufying. Now see what has happened in this girl's life...i am happy tht her life is changed now...she will certainly become big oneday in life!
now the next mail....
From:
"mohan doss" <vmdos@rediffmail.com>
Dear Rams,
What u have done is indeed a great thing for the society. Ur message was very emotional and sentimental.
Good Rams, i am really proud of my friend.!!!! My varisu!!!! ( i am using this word after a long time)
Bye
Doss....மீண்டும் பல பல நன்றிகள் சார்...your motivational injections mean a lot to me!
now the next mail...
From: ansari mjoshi <ansarimjoshi@yahoo.com>
Dear Sir,
Great Speech and what relevance does it have in today's world. Kids being pushed around by parents to acheive their social status - i have seen small kids when they were not even 4 being sent to different tution classes like tennis, dictions and what not i dont know. But will be happy if atleast 10% of people take your words and think in this right direction. Really proud to have worked with you and only sad that our association did not last long for me to learn these, hopefully i will make up throught these mails :)...என்ன கண்ணா பண்ண....இவங்க எல்லாம் Life Span Psychology or Developmental Psychology பத்தி படிச்சிருந்தா இப்பிடி பண்ண மாட்டாங்க...all those who want to grow your children in the right way please type 'life span psychology' or 'developmental psychology' in google ...you will find the soft copies of study materials of ignou, bharathiar university etc....read them and get benefitted...thank you so much for your nice words again jo!.
now the next mail...
From:
"Suresh" <suresh_soundarajan@hotmail.com>
hi bond!.... no no.... hi Commander,....It was a hot hot mail Cmdr, but very nice one. hihihi....one more guy also says the mails are so hot that he is unable to read infront of his daughter and wife...he says he hides them and reads....இவனை என்ன pannalaam....நீங்களே சொல்லுங்க....as for as i am concerned my mails can be read by all those who are aged more than 17....am i right? I could write on and on about my experiences, ridicules by few of the so called relatives and friends, .........and about my anger in particular........later ...........not now....may be i will tell you over phone......just feel like sharing it with you. anyway again your anger is right and it is a very good message. bye ...Suresh.... oru chinna varutham ......you could have been a spiritual psychologist.........i would have enjoyed more....... no problem you go in your own path. every body's experience is important for them....தலீவா!psychology deals with anything that can be proved..... as it is a science...spirituality deals with anything that can not be proved but could only be experienced...as science has not proved everything as of now....let me master science first and graduate to experience the spirituality later....
now the next mail...
From:Arasu
As usual, some sectors attracted some parts of my brain....
The most impressive :
உடம்பை ஏசி லே வைக்காதீங்கடா...
.மூளையை ஏசி லே வைங்கடா.
..மனசை ஏசி லே வைங்க...
Mohan ... I feel we need to appreciate our Moderator...for one thing.
If I were to be in his place,,,,, at some point of time, I would have written...
"What the f'k is going on man... Can't you guys write atleast one line or a word to place it as an acknowledgement....So, never consider me for Moderator role, if you alll want to live in Peace....
Otherwise, you will see Pieces.....
Rams: ------My suggestion to you:
To sell your idea or message - You have to convert it o a capsule - Like a Tablet, Sugar Coated....
If the whole content runs like a story, ofcourse, the same methodology is OK.....
Like the doctor says.... one tablet after 8 hours,,,, you can also send your capsules, weekly once...(For effectiveness);
Let me shutup...
Anbudan
Arasu...
அரசையா...என்ன பண்னி தொலைக்க...நம்ம வாய் ஓட்டை வாய்...திறந்தா மூடாது...அது தான் பிரச்சினை...
now the next mail........
From:
"arasu nagu" <nvarasu@gmail.com>
டியர் ரம்ஸ்,,,,
ஒன்னு சொல்ல மறந்துட்டேன்..
ஒரு போட்டோ பார்த்தேன்...
நாலு சிஸ்டருக்கு நடுவுலே நச்சுன்னு " ராமண்ணா"
An austrain programmer is near me...
I just explained him what I am writing....
Between the sisters. my classmate naval capatain is looking great is what is written above... As I explained....
அன்புடன்
அரசு
now the next mail.....
Dear Rams,
I have not usually read long mails.Today I was up early and my Internet connection which was not working properly for so many days is working well for a change.So read all the mails.First Arasu's reply.That triggered me to read your Let us Dig ourselves part 4 and your attached speech.I am happy that I read it.Immediately I thought of replying to your personal mail.
The soul mate? question it is very tricky,isn't it.!@##$%%^^&*&**(()) I appreciate your sincere effort in writing a long and meaningful mail.Reading it made me write this.
Thanks Rams,
Keep up the good work,you never stop amazing me.
..thank you daa for all these nice words...
ஹ்ம்ம்ம்....இந்த மனசை என்னடா பண்ணலாம்....நம்ம கன்னு தினமும் பல பேரை பாக்குது...நிறைய பேரை மனசு பாக்கறது இல்லை...சில பேர் மனசுலே சில செகண்ட்ஸ் மட்டும் நிக்கறாங்க...சில பேர் சில மாசம்...சில பேர் சில வருஷம்....சில பேர் பச்ஹக்குன்னு லைப் பூராவும் ஒட்டிக்கறாங்க....சில பேர் பாத்ஹா உடனே மனசுலே பெல் அடிச்சிர்றாங்க....if we show the most beautiful girl on earth to a guy he says that she is the ultimate....when the same guy is allowed to socialise with a simple village girl for some days he says she is also beautiful....is something becoming clear from all these?.....in life the mental faculties mean a lot to all of us than the physiological requirements....that is what clearly emerges....என்னா நான் சொல்றது கரெக்டா?....வருது வருது...அட waittu...waittu......சயின்ஸ்.... பின்னாடி வருது....
ரவுசு rams
it also contains the mails i received from various corners around the world...from US to australia...
you also enjoy!
rams
--- On Sun, 21/11/10, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Subject: பாகம் அஞ்சு - 'யேங்க என்னை ரெண்டு நாளா கட்டி புடிக்கலை?
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Date: Sunday, 21 November, 2010, 10:09 PM
hai guys and gals...
if you don't read long mails ....please change your concept from today....and read this mail.....you will know the reason at the end of this mail....from the comment of one of our friends...then you will read all the mails on this series....
today is 21 sunday....இன்று கார்த்திகை தீபம்...நேரம் மாலை 6.15 மணி...திருவண்ணமலையில் கார்த்திகை தீபம் ஏற்றி விட்டார்கள்...எங்கள் வீட்டிலும் சுற்றிலும் தீபம்...i can see from மொட்டை மாடி a birds eye view of the surroundings...தீபங்கள் ஜக ஜோதியாய் காட்சி அளிக்கிறது...இந்த தீபங்களை போலவே எல்லோர் மனசுக்குள்ளும் உடம்பிலும் சந்தோஷமும் நலமும் (health) நிறைந்து நிற்க வாழ்த்துக்கள்...வீட்டிற்குள் வருகிறேன் ...டிவி யில் ஒரு பாட்டு...
மஞ்சளும் தந்தாள் மலர்கள் தந்தாள்
மங்கள மங்கை மீனாட்சி
நெஞ்சம் ஒருவன் சொந்தம் என்றாள்
தேவி எங்கள் மீனாட்சி
பாட்டை கேட்டதும் எனக்கு நம்ம மெயில் ஞாபகம் வந்தது...போன தடவை அனுப்பிய மெயிலுக்கு இன்னும் நிறைய வாழ்த்துக்களும், எண்ணங்களும் வந்தா வண்ணம் இருக்கின்றன ....எல்லோருக்கும் நன்றி...நன்றி...நன்றி...எனை ஊக்குவிக்கும் எல்லா கரங்களுக்கும் அன்பு உள்ளங்களுக்கும் நன்றி...நன்றி..நன்றி...some of the mails i received are below...for the sake of confidentiality some parts have been removed...my comments are alongside their comments in colour...here we go....
first comment is from my good friend who lived with me for three years...கணக்குலே புலி ன்னு சொன்னா கணக்குக்கு கேவலம்...ராமானுஜத்துக்கு பக்கத்துக்கு வீடுன்னு சொன்னா கொஞ்சம் ஓகே...a guy who has reached up to Massachussettes Institute of Technology, USA where the teachers are Nobel laureates...his mails is the first one below....
From:
"Dr Jayakumar Singaram" <jk@epigon.in>
Dear All,
May be the following provides some hint to resolve soul mate issue that you had stated.
Practical terms and formulation family framework, provides general guide lines for Husband and Mrs to duty bound couple. As we all know, most of the people will not like or repel when some thing forced or demanded some work or obligation as part of duty. At the same time, lady meets some person ( may be lady or man) who is just friend then they tend to like each other more and enjoy those few time or occasions they interact. But same thing may not be true, if it is part of family duty. நீங்க சொல்றது புரியுதுங்கையா...ஆனா இந்த விஷயம் இப்பிடி மேல் போக்கா பாத்து அலசற விஷயம் இல்லீங்களே...இப்பிடி சிம்பிள் ஆன விஷயம் நா social websites ஏன் இப்பிடி flourish ஆயிட்டிருக்கு...மனசுக்குள்ளே மனசு...அதுக்குள்ளே ஒரு மனசு...அட அதுக்குள்ளேயும் ஒரு மனசு...மூளை அவ்வளவு சின்ன விஷயம் இல்லையேப்பா... Thus, way out for this is to give up duty bound mode in family life....ஆஅ...இப்ப சொன்னீங்களே....இது கொஞ்சம் சரி...ஆனா இதுவும் பத்தாது... But how it is possible ?. If they give up then it will become LiveIN style for format....ம்ம்ம்ம் அப்பிடி ஒரேயடியா சொல்லீட முடியாதே.... As Martin Luther King says on community and I would like to revise the same for family context ; “soon or latter family people innovate way to live together as non duty bound family members but yet provide stability to family”....சும்மா நச்சுன்னு நெத்தியடி அடிச்சீங்க போங்க!..இப்பதான்ய நீங்க சைண்டிஸ்ட் மாதிரி பேசறீங்க... If we do things based affection and love then husband and mrs become real soul mate....எஸ்...நீங்க சொல்றது சரி...பட் இதுவும் பத்தலையே...ஒரு கேப் விழுதே... Otherwise they have been part stage managed drama which was formulated by hindu darma or neethi framework. I hope, I could able to get across.!!! In case not, I need some more deep thinking during weekend. I wish you all very happy weekend ( may not be with soul mate )...ஐயா...கொஞ்சம் சொசியாலாஜி ...கொஞ்சம் ஜெனெரல் சைக்காலஜி கலந்து பாருங்க....வரும்...Kind Regards
jk
Now the next mail....
Dear Sir,
Again your message is picturing my real life situation.
Of course my wife is the best wife and equally the worst enemy for me in the earth
What is missing may be "soul mate"
our forefathers are really great that's why they believed,
"மனைவி அமைவது எல்லாம் இறைவன் கொடுத்த வரம்"
Best wishes & Warm regards
என்ன ஜே கே சார்...இந்த மெயிலுக்கு என்ன பதில் சொல்றீங்க...இங்கே லவ் இருக்கு...affection இருக்கு...பட் soul mate ஆகலையே!
Now the next mail...
Wonderful messages Sir,
I take this opportunity to
" WISH YOU & FAMILY A VERY,VERY HAPPY & COLORFUL DIWALI"
now the next mail...
Dear Mr.Ramasubramaniam
The issue you have taken is true.
We women are not even having a right to have a friend (opposite
gender) after marraige. Society and our culture hinders??
we are not allowed to talk or chat with our childhood friends and relations ??
sociology clearly explains this issue...i replied to this mail...but that reply is missing in my 'sent' box...friend...can you forward that reply?...so that i can paste it here...in a nut shell 'our entire life, culture etc have always been based on the basic profession of the socity...the agrarian society has changed into industrial society...but our minds and culture are still agrarian...technological innovations have entered the homes...but minds are still primitive...there is a conflict in many of the issues in the mind...we are in that transient phase...it will take time to change...if we wish, between spouses and within family with healthy discussions and understanding it could be changed and some peace could be attained...
now the next mail...
Rams,
Interesting question. Spouse is the ideal soul mate. Who is going to be with u till last....sir, கொஞ்சம் வித்தியாசம்...இதுக்கு பேரு life mate ன்னு சொல்றாங்க...life mate, soul mate ஆ ...இல்லே ரெண்டும் வேற வேறயா...இதுதான் பிரச்சினை...Some people have more confidence on friends than their spouse...இது...இது...இந்த டுபுக்கு பத்தி தான் நாம இங்கே பேசறோம்...note the word confidence...that is why i have coloured it...so those people do not have confidence on their spouses is it?.... Still i feel i have great authority / understanding / freedom/ socializing/ affection over my girl friend than my wife...பார்ரா பார்ரா...மனைவி கிட்டே இருக்கிற authority, understanding, freedom, socialising freedom, affection ஐ விட girl friend கிட்டே நிறைய இருக்காம்....this means that he has a better socialising climate with his girl friend than his wife...ithukku peru thaan soul mate...But u look deeply , the inner feeling always says that only spouse could be ur saul mate...இந்த டுமீல் தானே சார் வானாங்க்றது...
Bye Rams
now the next mail....
From:
"angello mani" <angellomani@gmail.com>
Dear sir , Your speech at ALVERNIA MATRICULATION SCHOOL was thought provoking. Thanks for sending the speech. Regards Deputy Commandant Angello Innocent
now the next mail....
Hi Uncle!
It is been long time since i send my last mail to you... what to
do so much of study tension?..Lol i'l not say such a word! actually i was
suffering from severe illness..dat i forgot to check my mail! Believe me or
not i studied all your mails on one day! it is very interesting... seeing.
and laughing at ur mails i get cured!! These days i'm really trying to
follow ur words.. Coz it is just the love thing( very easy to do)..... after
i spoke much about your advice to my parents, they too changed a lot.. in
fact they gave my life in my hands(Full freedom to study and to select my
partner)... Before i get my freedom from my parents i do search for my love
and i thought it is the oly thing in lyf but after i get my freedom
(believe) i'm really interested in learning than to search someone to
love!!!! To say clearly i feel better now, wish to achieve something in my
lyf... Thanks for the guidance!! and i wish to do some good
papers.. give some tips regarding dat. Bye 4 now
அப்பாமார்களே...அம்மாமார்களே...இந்த பொண்ணு என்ன சொல்லுதுன்னு கேட்டீங்களா...most of the time you are anxiety struck and keep telling your child ஏய் சைட் அடிக்காதே...லவ்வு கிவ்வு பண்னி கிட்டு படிப்பை கோட்டை விற்றாதே ...இப்பிடி சொல்லி சொல்லியே we don't make them to concentrate on studies and not allowing them to dream big in life...so they keep thinking about site adichhufying. Now see what has happened in this girl's life...i am happy tht her life is changed now...she will certainly become big oneday in life!
now the next mail....
From:
"mohan doss" <vmdos@rediffmail.com>
Dear Rams,
What u have done is indeed a great thing for the society. Ur message was very emotional and sentimental.
Good Rams, i am really proud of my friend.!!!! My varisu!!!! ( i am using this word after a long time)
Bye
Doss....மீண்டும் பல பல நன்றிகள் சார்...your motivational injections mean a lot to me!
now the next mail...
From: ansari mjoshi <ansarimjoshi@yahoo.com>
Dear Sir,
Great Speech and what relevance does it have in today's world. Kids being pushed around by parents to acheive their social status - i have seen small kids when they were not even 4 being sent to different tution classes like tennis, dictions and what not i dont know. But will be happy if atleast 10% of people take your words and think in this right direction. Really proud to have worked with you and only sad that our association did not last long for me to learn these, hopefully i will make up throught these mails :)...என்ன கண்ணா பண்ண....இவங்க எல்லாம் Life Span Psychology or Developmental Psychology பத்தி படிச்சிருந்தா இப்பிடி பண்ண மாட்டாங்க...all those who want to grow your children in the right way please type 'life span psychology' or 'developmental psychology' in google ...you will find the soft copies of study materials of ignou, bharathiar university etc....read them and get benefitted...thank you so much for your nice words again jo!.
now the next mail...
From:
"Suresh" <suresh_soundarajan@hotmail.com>
hi bond!.... no no.... hi Commander,....It was a hot hot mail Cmdr, but very nice one. hihihi....one more guy also says the mails are so hot that he is unable to read infront of his daughter and wife...he says he hides them and reads....இவனை என்ன pannalaam....நீங்களே சொல்லுங்க....as for as i am concerned my mails can be read by all those who are aged more than 17....am i right? I could write on and on about my experiences, ridicules by few of the so called relatives and friends, .........and about my anger in particular........later ...........not now....may be i will tell you over phone......just feel like sharing it with you. anyway again your anger is right and it is a very good message. bye ...Suresh.... oru chinna varutham ......you could have been a spiritual psychologist.........i would have enjoyed more....... no problem you go in your own path. every body's experience is important for them....தலீவா!psychology deals with anything that can be proved..... as it is a science...spirituality deals with anything that can not be proved but could only be experienced...as science has not proved everything as of now....let me master science first and graduate to experience the spirituality later....
now the next mail...
From:Arasu
As usual, some sectors attracted some parts of my brain....
The most impressive :
உடம்பை ஏசி லே வைக்காதீங்கடா...
.மூளையை ஏசி லே வைங்கடா.
..மனசை ஏசி லே வைங்க...
Mohan ... I feel we need to appreciate our Moderator...for one thing.
If I were to be in his place,,,,, at some point of time, I would have written...
"What the f'k is going on man... Can't you guys write atleast one line or a word to place it as an acknowledgement....So, never consider me for Moderator role, if you alll want to live in Peace....
Otherwise, you will see Pieces.....
Rams: ------My suggestion to you:
To sell your idea or message - You have to convert it o a capsule - Like a Tablet, Sugar Coated....
If the whole content runs like a story, ofcourse, the same methodology is OK.....
Like the doctor says.... one tablet after 8 hours,,,, you can also send your capsules, weekly once...(For effectiveness);
Let me shutup...
Anbudan
Arasu...
அரசையா...என்ன பண்னி தொலைக்க...நம்ம வாய் ஓட்டை வாய்...திறந்தா மூடாது...அது தான் பிரச்சினை...
now the next mail........
From:
"arasu nagu" <nvarasu@gmail.com>
டியர் ரம்ஸ்,,,,
ஒன்னு சொல்ல மறந்துட்டேன்..
ஒரு போட்டோ பார்த்தேன்...
நாலு சிஸ்டருக்கு நடுவுலே நச்சுன்னு " ராமண்ணா"
An austrain programmer is near me...
I just explained him what I am writing....
Between the sisters. my classmate naval capatain is looking great is what is written above... As I explained....
அன்புடன்
அரசு
now the next mail.....
Dear Rams,
I have not usually read long mails.Today I was up early and my Internet connection which was not working properly for so many days is working well for a change.So read all the mails.First Arasu's reply.That triggered me to read your Let us Dig ourselves part 4 and your attached speech.I am happy that I read it.Immediately I thought of replying to your personal mail.
The soul mate? question it is very tricky,isn't it.!@##$%%^^&*&**(()) I appreciate your sincere effort in writing a long and meaningful mail.Reading it made me write this.
Thanks Rams,
Keep up the good work,you never stop amazing me.
..thank you daa for all these nice words...
ஹ்ம்ம்ம்....இந்த மனசை என்னடா பண்ணலாம்....நம்ம கன்னு தினமும் பல பேரை பாக்குது...நிறைய பேரை மனசு பாக்கறது இல்லை...சில பேர் மனசுலே சில செகண்ட்ஸ் மட்டும் நிக்கறாங்க...சில பேர் சில மாசம்...சில பேர் சில வருஷம்....சில பேர் பச்ஹக்குன்னு லைப் பூராவும் ஒட்டிக்கறாங்க....சில பேர் பாத்ஹா உடனே மனசுலே பெல் அடிச்சிர்றாங்க....if we show the most beautiful girl on earth to a guy he says that she is the ultimate....when the same guy is allowed to socialise with a simple village girl for some days he says she is also beautiful....is something becoming clear from all these?.....in life the mental faculties mean a lot to all of us than the physiological requirements....that is what clearly emerges....என்னா நான் சொல்றது கரெக்டா?....வருது வருது...அட waittu...waittu......சயின்ஸ்.... பின்னாடி வருது....
ரவுசு rams
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