this mail is being read by nearly 150
experts all over the world who have gone upto MIT (USA) level to those
high tech ladies presently in the kitchen)
today morning the first song I listened to
was ‘Mudhal vanakkam endrum muruganukke….mun nindru kaakkum
iraivanukke’ by seerkaazhi govinda rajan…
thank you for all those who said ‘the
first thing I do every day is to read your mail’, ‘I found a drastic
transformation in me during the last 15 days and others are also saying
this’, ‘I look forward for your mail every day’ etc.
at this point I would like to give my ‘Mudhal Vanakkam’ to my teacher and inspirers in this education….
Mr Balasundaram – The 55 year old Chief
Manager of Stage Bank of India who spends the whole day reading
psychology books…what ever I am typing has been taught by him…and he is
my ‘Guru’ and ‘father of (my) psychology’ knowledge…Thank you very much
sir!
Mr Santhanakrishnan – The 68 year old
retired IIT Chennai lecturer who in addition to being the CMD of his own
21 year old icon organisation in the industry and active member at
corporate level of many elite organisations, did two courses
simultaneously with Anna University and Bharathiar University…a sincere
person…a true student …rare to see such a person of his age backed with
achievements…was always on the ‘run’ (actually!) to departments and
teachers during the break hours to avoid being late to the classes…was just a student
and never showed his position in the society and industrial
sector…shows his dedication and sincerity to studies even after reaching
the helm of affairs in life…used to study during late hours…he inspired
me during the studies.. His children after studies at BITS, Pilani and
other elite institutions are at USA…he has handed over me to an
international fame professor
and scientist in psychology who has several decades of studies and
research in this field…for my further studies. Thank you so much sir…you
will be remembered by me throughout my life!
Dr Shantha kumari – Inspite of being a PhD
in management and a faculty at PSGIM, behaved like a good student in
the class…stood first in the class too…my inspirer! Thank you madam.
Now back to the lessons…
Some have also said ‘I am scared to read
your mail but can’t resist myself from reading it’….one scientist has
suggested the stage theory of behaviour correction…I take it as a
procedure suggested by him not only to correct problem behaviours but
also to force people to avoid problem behaviours to live happily and
healthily without they knowing that they have been forced….this is what I
am using…when the time comes I will explain this stage theory and my
perception about it.
Some have said ‘I get a feeling that your
mails are based on me / pointing my characteristics’….when I read the
psychology text books I also used get the same feeling that they are
about my behaviours…as the scientists have researched human beings and
written those books and you are a human being with those characteristics
you are feeling so…in fact everyone reading the mails will feel that it
is pointed towards them…this shows the success of the scientists and
their theories.
We have been discussing about the
personality traits…how they are formed and what havoc they do in our
lives…scientists have studied people with different traits and the
health problems they face in their lives…accordingly they have
categorized the personalities…as Type A, B, C etc…you might find some
types of type A, B and C in you…the most prominent traits of a
particular type will produce the most prominent health risks pertaining
to that type…
We will see about the Type A personality
traits, health risks for these people, how to correct the behaviours,
how to avoid the health risks while retaining that behaviour, how to
deal with the people with Type A personality trait etc tomorrow…
Till then…
Take long breaths and keep yourself relaxed!
rams
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