'SENSE' itive issue! - கனவு உலகம்!

hai friends....

thanks for all your comments on the 'how to remain young while getting aged!' mail....

here is another mail...

the aim of psychologists is to keep everyone mentally and physically healthy and happy....with this perspective in the mind we will analyse one among the thousands of issues related to happiness and mental health.....

we all know that we have sense orgains...and senses...

eye - vision
ear - hearing
skin - touch
nose - smell
tongue - taste

there is one more thing...MIND...where the 6th sense of happiness dwells!...we will touch this untouchable, 'sense'itive, imaginary issue at the end...

we know that we see things with eyes. The objects / places / situations we see give happiness. If we continuously see only one object all the time all days will we feel happy?...even if the object is the most happiness giving object?...no!...is it not!...that means we need variety!...variation...! our eyes have to see variety of things to consolidate the sense of happiness for ever.

we taste things with tongue. Can one food only give us happiness?...no!...it is the same story here again!...we want variety for prolonged happiness....if we are given the same tastiest food forever we will feel like vomitting!...so, darwin nails on the forehead....variety required!

we hear using our ears. Can we remain happy hearing the best of music for years! no!...we want variety!

can we remain happy getting the same smell continuously!...even if we like one smell the most!...no!...we want different fragrance to remain happy for ever!

touch sense!...with respect to happiness...for emotional support....which is the MOST important sense of love for happiness....will we feel happy for ever with only one type of touch from one person!...can a mother remain happy with the love from only his children?...one needs love of different varieties...a lady needs love from children, parents, lover / husband, friends....each love is different...each touch is different...each emotional support is different!...we need variety!

is it possible to get different visions (people, places, situations), different music, different tastes, different fragrance, different touches (different love supports)...the type we want...the extent we want...at time of our need...all the time...throughout our life?...not possible...is it not!

no individual or no place or no situation can ever remain with a person to give everlasting happiness. So, happiness can not be sought from outside. It has to be visualised or sensed from inside. Happiness is a sense of perception. Visualised by the mind. It does not lie permanently in the item or person or situation.
As one that is a source of happiness becomes source of misery the next moment.

can we visualise a particular fragrance in the absense of it?...மல்லீப்பூ இல்லாமே அந்த வாசம் தரும் இன்பம் பெற முடியுமா...not possible!...is it not?
can we visualise a taste in the absence of it?...லட்டு சாப்பிட்ட மாதிரி imagine செஞ்சு சந்தோஷ பட முடியுமா....not possible...is it not?

can we visualise a music in the absence of it?....yes...if we listen to suprabhatham in the morning it keeps lingering at the sub concious level throughout the day...and gives us happiness!
can we visualise a person or place or situation in the absence of it?...yes...we can capture the picture and imagine to get the happiness!
can we visualise the touch...love of a particular type...yes...the mother imagines the touch of her child by hugging a teddy bear!...even the visualisation of other types of love is also possible.
But all these three visualisations have their own limitations. The percentage of happiness we get with virtual objects or fantasies is less than reality. But in some of the life issues fantasy gives more happiness than reality.

'oh...nature...the god of creations!..you have given 'variety' seeking behaviour for ever lasting happiness...but you have given the  contrasting 'possessiveness' too...the source of miseries!'

'oh my dear child...that is why i have given the MIND...the functional correlate of brain...with which you can imagine or fantasize and derive the happiness without the conflicts between the two!'

so, friends...create your own கனவு உலகம் which has the people you need, places you love, situations or occasions which give you happiness...only for 'tongue taste' and 'fragrance' you have to have the real items...all other sources of happiness could be visualised...fantasised...!

all the best...

next topic of discussion....'டேய் பன்னி! ஏண்டா என்னை ரெண்டு நாளா கட்டி புடிக்கலே?'

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