a mail sent to my other friends....
hai friends...how are we?
...just came back after attending the independence day celebrations...hihihi...started thinking...(what else to do?)
(i
keep getting mails
asking how do i manage the time to think and type mails...if we are in
the present (after planning the future, the steps of activities then
what else other than
just to implement)...without of emotions...without the fear of unknowns
of future...so, present moment is THE PRESENT by the nature...god's
gift...thinking about the failures of the past or thinking about the
unknown future with anxiety can only spoil the present moment, our
thinking, our happiness, our physical and mental health
and screw up the job we do at that moment leading further failures and
no progress state!..all successful people live in their
present...otherwise how to handle different meetings on different
subjects successively one after another in a day?
our
mind is absolutely free during most of the activities...brushing the
teeth, shaving, taking bath, clearing the abdomen, morning or evening
walks, traveling, etc etc...during this time we can think...if we have
good typing speed then downloading from brain on net takes about half an
hour or so for my long mails!...one mail...i.e half an hour in 15 days
is ok i think...what do you think?)
ok...let
us go back to the first line, THINKING...thinking about the
independence...freedom...forget about freedom of the country...first
let us free ourselves from us!...are we free from our own-selves?...our
own thinking...the resultant, our own behaviours...overt and covert...
ok...what
to think?...what to do?...i think we should follow the manthra of
HAPPINESS, HEALTH and ACHIEVE while remaining within three
systems...individual system...legal system...social systems...
individual
system...the world we have built within ourselves within which we
live...with our beliefs, our fundas, our principles, our rigid
behaviours, our flexibilities, our definition of life, happiness, social
living, health and achievements...our own rituals, traditions, cultural
practices, hobby, work, etc which are different from that of
others'...it may affect others in reality or due to their perception....
legal system is judiciary and related issues...it basically stresses that 'others or resources of others should not be exploited'...
social systems deals with living with the culture...i.e living with the way of life of others...
all three basically stress on non exploitation of one's resources...physical, financial, mental and social...live and let live policy...
if our individual system can not fit in the legal and social systems of the land...then what to do?...simple...try to change your individual system within your happiness, health and achievements definition...or change and go to a place where the legal and social systems suiting you exist!
happiness...good health...achievements....
each one pulls the other...i.e 'anything' that gives us happiness can not be followed, as, if it affects our health immediately or in a long run then it is not the correct way of getting happiness...so, we can only resort to sources of happiness that will not affect the health and achievement components...similarly we can not sacrifice happiness and health for long time to achieve something...as health is wealth and if wealth is earnt by sacrificing happiness and health then we will end up spending the entire wealth to just retain life in side the body...i.e retain the affected health...so all three are the corners of the triangle within which we have to live...so, we need to list down the things that give us all three...happiness...good health...achievements...
happiness...
legal system is judiciary and related issues...it basically stresses that 'others or resources of others should not be exploited'...
social systems deals with living with the culture...i.e living with the way of life of others...
all three basically stress on non exploitation of one's resources...physical, financial, mental and social...live and let live policy...
if our individual system can not fit in the legal and social systems of the land...then what to do?...simple...try to change your individual system within your happiness, health and achievements definition...or change and go to a place where the legal and social systems suiting you exist!
happiness...good health...achievements....
each one pulls the other...i.e 'anything' that gives us happiness can not be followed, as, if it affects our health immediately or in a long run then it is not the correct way of getting happiness...so, we can only resort to sources of happiness that will not affect the health and achievement components...similarly we can not sacrifice happiness and health for long time to achieve something...as health is wealth and if wealth is earnt by sacrificing happiness and health then we will end up spending the entire wealth to just retain life in side the body...i.e retain the affected health...so all three are the corners of the triangle within which we have to live...so, we need to list down the things that give us all three...happiness...good health...achievements...
happiness...
we
should think about only happiness...things that give us
happiness...people who give us happiness...places and occasions or
situations or moments that give us
happiness...we can derive happiness in thinking and covert
behaviours...when it becomes overt it can affect the happiness of
others...if it is in reality then we should find out methods of
exhibiting the behaviours with out affecting others...if it is due to
perception then we should try to change their perception...if not
possible then change the place or people!...we are born to be
happy...not to be unhappy...
of course, dependently independent, coexisting, compromising, giving up, adjusting, adapting are the lubricating words and behaviours required in social living, if we are amidst like minded people...i.e those who follow these same principles in life...accepting people as they are, no expectations, no possessiveness etc...then dependency is less...less compromises, easy understanding of each other, less giving up...easy coping up with legal and social systems...easy life!...happy life!...and healthy life also!...achievements too!
after happiness comes health...the state of physical, mental and social well-being...we perceive the word health generally to physical health...leaving the the other two...which are the most important things which disturb our health...mental and social health...as what we think in our mind gets translated to behaviours which affect the physical health...our social life...i.e the combined effect of our behaviours and the behaviours of others around us...both covert and overt...affect our both mental and physical health...
here too, if we are with like minded people, who have common definition of health...things that go inside the mouth and mind...eating habits which are healthy...thinking habits which give happiness and good health...social habits which generally spread happiness to others...a physical activity regimen which is common with that of ours or adaptable...then our life is swinging...is it not?
achievements....
this varies from person to person...the definition of achievements...here too if there is a commonality then the happiness and health components do not get affected...if there is a mismatch then there are lots of misses, including missing of happiness, good health and life itself!...in general, any achievement focused towards 'wealth' does not go hand in hand with happiness and health components in a long run...any achievement that is focused towards 'service' goes hand in hand with happiness and health...any achievement where the 'end result is only happiness and not the process' will not go hand in hand with health and happiness...any achievement where 'both the process and the end result yield happiness' go hand in hand with the health and happiness...
so, let us liberate us from ourselves on this 66th independence day...with the manthras of happiness, health and achievements...to live amidst like minded people...in a suitable legal system...in social systems with like minded people...then life is easy...simple...full of happiness, good health and achievements only!
so...keep rocking guys and gals...!
bye
of course, dependently independent, coexisting, compromising, giving up, adjusting, adapting are the lubricating words and behaviours required in social living, if we are amidst like minded people...i.e those who follow these same principles in life...accepting people as they are, no expectations, no possessiveness etc...then dependency is less...less compromises, easy understanding of each other, less giving up...easy coping up with legal and social systems...easy life!...happy life!...and healthy life also!...achievements too!
after happiness comes health...the state of physical, mental and social well-being...we perceive the word health generally to physical health...leaving the the other two...which are the most important things which disturb our health...mental and social health...as what we think in our mind gets translated to behaviours which affect the physical health...our social life...i.e the combined effect of our behaviours and the behaviours of others around us...both covert and overt...affect our both mental and physical health...
here too, if we are with like minded people, who have common definition of health...things that go inside the mouth and mind...eating habits which are healthy...thinking habits which give happiness and good health...social habits which generally spread happiness to others...a physical activity regimen which is common with that of ours or adaptable...then our life is swinging...is it not?
achievements....
this varies from person to person...the definition of achievements...here too if there is a commonality then the happiness and health components do not get affected...if there is a mismatch then there are lots of misses, including missing of happiness, good health and life itself!...in general, any achievement focused towards 'wealth' does not go hand in hand with happiness and health components in a long run...any achievement that is focused towards 'service' goes hand in hand with happiness and health...any achievement where the 'end result is only happiness and not the process' will not go hand in hand with health and happiness...any achievement where 'both the process and the end result yield happiness' go hand in hand with the health and happiness...
so, let us liberate us from ourselves on this 66th independence day...with the manthras of happiness, health and achievements...to live amidst like minded people...in a suitable legal system...in social systems with like minded people...then life is easy...simple...full of happiness, good health and achievements only!
so...keep rocking guys and gals...!
bye
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