hai guys and gals...yet another old mail from my library...enjoy!
rams
--- On Sun, 12/12/10, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@gmail.com> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@gmail.com>
Subject: மறுபடியும் ரவுசு ராம்ஸ்!...எப்படி "ஓடிபோலாமா?" வை தடுப்பது?
To: "M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN" <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Date: Sunday, 12 December, 2010, 10:15 PM
என்னடா கண்ணுகளா...சௌக்கியமா..."டேய்...ஓடி போனியில்லே...மறுபடியும் ஏன்டா திரும்பி வந்தே?' ன்னு நீ கேக்கறது எனக்கு கேக்கறது...என்னடா பண்ணுவேன்...நான் ஒதுங்கி நின்னாலும் இந்த சைக்காலஜி மேட்டர் 'விடாது கருப்பு' ன்னு என்னை துரத்துது...இந்த சுப்ஜெக்ட் வேற ஒரு மாதிரி...படிச்சதை மத்தவங்களுக்கு சொன்னாதான் பிரயோஜனம்...இல்லாட்டி சுத்த வேஸ்ட் ...so i thought to discuss with you an important issue of life...if we see the problems faced by people in social life, "extra marital affairs" stands out clearly as the major cause of disharmony in family life.
so, those who want to keep away themselves, their spouses and children from "extra marital affairs" can read this mail..."அட போடா! அதில்லாமே வாழ்க்கையா!" ன்னு சொல்றவங்க இந்த மெயிலை படிக்க வாணாம்!
i happened to read an article in one of the tamil mags...i have attached the pages in jpeg format...i am unable to convert into pdf format for easy reading...arasu boss...can you help me?
...otherwise also you can download, enlarge it and read...i will describe it shortly here...an educated girl is forced by her mother to marry a man with unadaptible (alcoholic) behaviours...he lives away...she meets another guy...starts as friendship and ends in love...both love each other deeply...both become possessive of each other...boy marries another girl...now this girl is in trouble...she has a child through this guy...this is the story in short! (i hope i satisfied our saravana kumar!)
...the counsellor has given some solutions for this girl...will this solution work?...what can be the correct solution?...what is the reason for extra marital affairs?...how to avoid them?...this is the crux of this mail. (அடடே...உனக்கு கூட சுருக்கமா சொல்ல வருதே! சபாஷ்டா ராம்ஸ்!)
the case study here is one type. But most of such issues are similar to this. To attack this problem let us go back to the basics of life.
As nature has not discriminated us from other living beings, it considers us as animals only with the major functions as eating and reproduction. We have only discriminated ourselves from other living beings as "Human beings". So, we are no different from animals. The male looks for food and opposite sex for reproduction. The female looks for food, security for her and the offsprings (food, economic, physical, social, legal etc etc) and healthy reproductive agents for producing healthy off springs. All this happen subconciously in the case of human beings. As the brain is developed it also looks for those 5 needs identified by Maslow. So "Mental" needs also gets included. So, "Love" forms the major part human needs along with the other basic animal needs above.
So, it is very clear that even if one of the above is lacking, then extramarital affair is most likely to happen. So, food, sex, shelter, clothing, all dimentions of security, satisfaction of all types of mental needs, love of all types are a must if it should not happen. So, what is to be done?
Don't discriminate men and women in any dimention of life. Both are equals in any sphere of activity of life and women also have all wants, needs and emotional requirements of life including all types of love like men. Break all shackles of what ever the society has taught you about discrimination of women...rituals...cermonies etc etc which degrade them physically or mentally in any form. Be a new transformed human being. Decide whether you want to live with the society, age old rituals, ceremonies, beliefs etc or with your spouse!..."பெண்" ஐ நேசிக்காதே..."பெண்மை" யை நேசி!..."பெண்" means loving her body only..."பெண்மை" means her mind and her intellectual needs...treating her as equal...giving her the same liberty in all aspects of life the way you need... "அட போடா! i can't change. My parents have taught me and society has taught me. Our culture is this. We should follow our culture!" அப்பிடீன்னு பேசினா then be ready to sacrifice your spouse or மனதால் வேறு ஒருவரோடும் ...உடலால் உன்னோடும் உன்னோட ச்பவுஸ் வாழ்வதை நீ ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளவேண்டும்...You have to choose either of this.
When the world is changing, social dynamics is changing giving more and more oppurtunities for women also to self actualise, you living as a primitive organism with age old சித்தாந்தம் will only send you back to jungles or commit suicide or send you to a psychological counsellor.
So, இன்னையிலே இருந்து தம் அடிக்காதே, தண்ணி அடிக்காதே,
rams
--- On Sun, 12/12/10, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@gmail.com> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@gmail.com>
Subject: மறுபடியும் ரவுசு ராம்ஸ்!...எப்படி "ஓடிபோலாமா?" வை தடுப்பது?
To: "M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN" <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Date: Sunday, 12 December, 2010, 10:15 PM
என்னடா கண்ணுகளா...சௌக்கியமா..."டேய்...ஓடி போனியில்லே...மறுபடியும் ஏன்டா திரும்பி வந்தே?' ன்னு நீ கேக்கறது எனக்கு கேக்கறது...என்னடா பண்ணுவேன்...நான் ஒதுங்கி நின்னாலும் இந்த சைக்காலஜி மேட்டர் 'விடாது கருப்பு' ன்னு என்னை துரத்துது...இந்த சுப்ஜெக்ட் வேற ஒரு மாதிரி...படிச்சதை மத்தவங்களுக்கு சொன்னாதான் பிரயோஜனம்...இல்லாட்டி சுத்த வேஸ்ட் ...so i thought to discuss with you an important issue of life...if we see the problems faced by people in social life, "extra marital affairs" stands out clearly as the major cause of disharmony in family life.
so, those who want to keep away themselves, their spouses and children from "extra marital affairs" can read this mail..."அட போடா! அதில்லாமே வாழ்க்கையா!" ன்னு சொல்றவங்க இந்த மெயிலை படிக்க வாணாம்!
i happened to read an article in one of the tamil mags...i have attached the pages in jpeg format...i am unable to convert into pdf format for easy reading...arasu boss...can you help me?
...otherwise also you can download, enlarge it and read...i will describe it shortly here...an educated girl is forced by her mother to marry a man with unadaptible (alcoholic) behaviours...he lives away...she meets another guy...starts as friendship and ends in love...both love each other deeply...both become possessive of each other...boy marries another girl...now this girl is in trouble...she has a child through this guy...this is the story in short! (i hope i satisfied our saravana kumar!)
...the counsellor has given some solutions for this girl...will this solution work?...what can be the correct solution?...what is the reason for extra marital affairs?...how to avoid them?...this is the crux of this mail. (அடடே...உனக்கு கூட சுருக்கமா சொல்ல வருதே! சபாஷ்டா ராம்ஸ்!)
the case study here is one type. But most of such issues are similar to this. To attack this problem let us go back to the basics of life.
As nature has not discriminated us from other living beings, it considers us as animals only with the major functions as eating and reproduction. We have only discriminated ourselves from other living beings as "Human beings". So, we are no different from animals. The male looks for food and opposite sex for reproduction. The female looks for food, security for her and the offsprings (food, economic, physical, social, legal etc etc) and healthy reproductive agents for producing healthy off springs. All this happen subconciously in the case of human beings. As the brain is developed it also looks for those 5 needs identified by Maslow. So "Mental" needs also gets included. So, "Love" forms the major part human needs along with the other basic animal needs above.
So, it is very clear that even if one of the above is lacking, then extramarital affair is most likely to happen. So, food, sex, shelter, clothing, all dimentions of security, satisfaction of all types of mental needs, love of all types are a must if it should not happen. So, what is to be done?
Don't discriminate men and women in any dimention of life. Both are equals in any sphere of activity of life and women also have all wants, needs and emotional requirements of life including all types of love like men. Break all shackles of what ever the society has taught you about discrimination of women...rituals...cermonies etc etc which degrade them physically or mentally in any form. Be a new transformed human being. Decide whether you want to live with the society, age old rituals, ceremonies, beliefs etc or with your spouse!..."பெண்" ஐ நேசிக்காதே..."பெண்மை" யை நேசி!..."பெண்" means loving her body only..."பெண்மை" means her mind and her intellectual needs...treating her as equal...giving her the same liberty in all aspects of life the way you need... "அட போடா! i can't change. My parents have taught me and society has taught me. Our culture is this. We should follow our culture!" அப்பிடீன்னு பேசினா then be ready to sacrifice your spouse or மனதால் வேறு ஒருவரோடும் ...உடலால் உன்னோடும் உன்னோட ச்பவுஸ் வாழ்வதை நீ ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளவேண்டும்...You have to choose either of this.
When the world is changing, social dynamics is changing giving more and more oppurtunities for women also to self actualise, you living as a primitive organism with age old சித்தாந்தம் will only send you back to jungles or commit suicide or send you to a psychological counsellor.
So, இன்னையிலே இருந்து தம் அடிக்காதே, தண்ணி அடிக்காதே,
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