hmmmm...another mail from the archives...
rams...ravusu rams!
--- On Wed, 10/11/10, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Subject: [PSGBSC81-84] LET US DIG OURSELVES - 'ஏண்டா பன்னி! ஏன்டா என்னை ரெண்டு நாளா கட்டி புடிக்கலே?' - பாகம் மூன்று
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 10:25 PM
ஹாய் கண்ணுகளா! எப்படி இருக்கீங்க? சௌக்கியமா?
பாகம் இரண்டு மெயில் soooperaaa இருந்துச்சா?...
நமக்கு நம்மளை பத்தி நினைக்க நேரமே இல்லை...நம்ம மனசு கீழே, மேலே, உள்ளே என்ன நினச்க்க்கிட்டு இருக்குன்னு தெரிஞ்சுக்கவே நேரம் இல்லை...ஆனா நம்ம மனசு நிறைய விஷயங்களை நமக்குதெரியாமே உள்ளே போட்டு கொடைஞ்சுகிட்டே இருக்கு....
before we go to the next part of the mail...
i have got a friend...25 years friend who is 46 years old...he is also my boss...family friend too...a very busy person...all the time thinks about the department, organisation, profession, what to do next, etc etc...வேலை வேலை வேலை...சதா இதுதான் நெனப்பு...ரஜினிகாந்த் இவர் கிட்டே கை கட்டி நிக்கணும்...in fast planning and executing with quality, precision etc...மின்னல் வேகம்...நடக்கவே மாட்டார்...ஓடிக்கிட்டே இருப்பார்...கோயிலுக்கு போகும்போது...சாமி கும்பிடும்போது...எப்பவும் ஓட்டம்...பரபரப்பு...so, i don't send my mails to him...i send only 'ஹலோ ன்னா ஹலோ' type of mails...as he might get angry and perceive 'what a bloddy useless chap!...wasting time and energy!'....but i don't know what happened...while selecting the contacts in the previous mails, by mistake i selected his id also...he has read the mails and you know what he has said...நீங்களே படிச்சு பாத்துக்கோங்களேன்...
Dear Rams,
Some say their husband / wife is the BEST SPOUSE on earth but that best is not sufficient. Then what is missing? What is creating the barrier? Why the best spouse is not the soul mate? Can you tell your spouse that he or she is not the soul mate? Do you have the guts? Do you have the courage / guts / environment / social climate with your spouse to discuss why he or she is not the soul mate and how they can become your soul mate? The same way the spouse also will tell you how you can become his or her soul mate? Are you both ready to change? If the other spouse changes and becomes the way you want will you accept the changed behavior? Changed person? Or Will you feel he has become a different person and feel odd about it? i.e you are not ready to accept him / her that way? Then how will you get your soul mate? Are you ready to live like this?
I hope you are able to understand the gravity of the issue. There are far toooooooooo many issues related to ‘socialisation between two people of opposite sexes during their entire life time from childhood to death’…as their socialisation is the not the same during the entire life cycle…due to the continuously changing and unmatching needs and wants of individuals…
Social sites and networks in internet are full of 'soul mate ' search. Many are happy with what they have. Most of these people have not got the oppurtunity to search for their soul mate. Most of those people who have got the oppurtunity and time, look for this social relationship. Some crave for it. It also depends upon the QUANTITY, QUALITY AND TYPES of emotional support and love which they are getting from their significant people (those to whom they are significant and those who are significant to them). Does one need a soul mate? What will happen if he or she does not have one?
let us continue in the next mail...i think this is enough to munch for the next few days...
(மெயில் லாங்கா போனா சரவணா குமார் அடிக்க வாரான்...என்ன பண்ணுவேன்!)
your comments are welcome...i know it is a delicate issue...but when are we going to discuss the delicate issues and find solutions...
scientific theories on such behaviours, what to do?...how to resolve these issues....we will see in the future mails...
till then...
bye from ரவுசு ராம்ஸ்
rams...ravusu rams!
--- On Wed, 10/11/10, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Subject: [PSGBSC81-84] LET US DIG OURSELVES - 'ஏண்டா பன்னி! ஏன்டா என்னை ரெண்டு நாளா கட்டி புடிக்கலே?' - பாகம் மூன்று
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 10:25 PM
ஹாய் கண்ணுகளா! எப்படி இருக்கீங்க? சௌக்கியமா?
பாகம் இரண்டு மெயில் soooperaaa இருந்துச்சா?...
நமக்கு நம்மளை பத்தி நினைக்க நேரமே இல்லை...நம்ம மனசு கீழே, மேலே, உள்ளே என்ன நினச்க்க்கிட்டு இருக்குன்னு தெரிஞ்சுக்கவே நேரம் இல்லை...ஆனா நம்ம மனசு நிறைய விஷயங்களை நமக்குதெரியாமே உள்ளே போட்டு கொடைஞ்சுகிட்டே இருக்கு....
before we go to the next part of the mail...
i have got a friend...25 years friend who is 46 years old...he is also my boss...family friend too...a very busy person...all the time thinks about the department, organisation, profession, what to do next, etc etc...வேலை வேலை வேலை...சதா இதுதான் நெனப்பு...ரஜினிகாந்த் இவர் கிட்டே கை கட்டி நிக்கணும்...in fast planning and executing with quality, precision etc...மின்னல் வேகம்...நடக்கவே மாட்டார்...ஓடிக்கிட்டே இருப்பார்...கோயிலுக்கு போகும்போது...சாமி கும்பிடும்போது...எப்பவும் ஓட்டம்...பரபரப்பு...so, i don't send my mails to him...i send only 'ஹலோ ன்னா ஹலோ' type of mails...as he might get angry and perceive 'what a bloddy useless chap!...wasting time and energy!'....but i don't know what happened...while selecting the contacts in the previous mails, by mistake i selected his id also...he has read the mails and you know what he has said...நீங்களே படிச்சு பாத்துக்கோங்களேன்...
it
is great pleasure to read ur mails. Off late when ever, i see mails, in
variably urs come in the first categories. Tell me , how u could send
mail in tamil. it is better to communicate in mother tongue u see!!!
Any
way rams , ur mails are like a story, i suggest u come out with a
weekly issue, so as all of us look forward ur mail during weekends so
to cherish the feeling of being young.
Bye Rams
Doss
doss sir, your mail is a good motivator for me...thanks a lot!
இப்ப நம்ம மெயில் க்கு போலாமா ....
before you read further, i suggest you read the previous mail on this subject to refresh the issue...there are many dimentions of issues when a male interacts with a female...irrespective of their age...as we focus on the age of the mind and not the body...as in socialisation, age of the body does not matter...as it is the socialisation of the minds...and not the bodies!....here at present we are discussing about the socialisation between the spouses...tht too only one dimention...
have you read the previous mail?...for the continuity....now read on....
Many feel ‘I am a happy
mother, professional, wife, daughter-in-law etc etc…but I miss
something…I can’t figure out what it is?’…some say ‘there
are unfilled vacuum spaces between me and my spouse’…some say ‘I
have everything but something is missing’….some say ‘that
missing something is haunting me a lot’… only when it affects their day
to day routine functioning, they go to a counsellor or
psychologist....they don't go on their own...they tell their
friends...if they are lucky then they get guided towards a
psychologist....Such people have
everything which a common human being is looking for like economic
prosperity, academic prosperity, lots and lots of love, affection and
care from all family members. It is not like they are lacking something
in their life. But they miss something from their spouse. That is the
issue. So, inspite of getting everything from every one this is the
state. Many men
also say this. Some say they are missing their ‘soul mate’. doss sir, your mail is a good motivator for me...thanks a lot!
இப்ப நம்ம மெயில் க்கு போலாமா ....
before you read further, i suggest you read the previous mail on this subject to refresh the issue...there are many dimentions of issues when a male interacts with a female...irrespective of their age...as we focus on the age of the mind and not the body...as in socialisation, age of the body does not matter...as it is the socialisation of the minds...and not the bodies!....here at present we are discussing about the socialisation between the spouses...tht too only one dimention...
have you read the previous mail?...for the continuity....now read on....
Some say their husband / wife is the BEST SPOUSE on earth but that best is not sufficient. Then what is missing? What is creating the barrier? Why the best spouse is not the soul mate? Can you tell your spouse that he or she is not the soul mate? Do you have the guts? Do you have the courage / guts / environment / social climate with your spouse to discuss why he or she is not the soul mate and how they can become your soul mate? The same way the spouse also will tell you how you can become his or her soul mate? Are you both ready to change? If the other spouse changes and becomes the way you want will you accept the changed behavior? Changed person? Or Will you feel he has become a different person and feel odd about it? i.e you are not ready to accept him / her that way? Then how will you get your soul mate? Are you ready to live like this?
I hope you are able to understand the gravity of the issue. There are far toooooooooo many issues related to ‘socialisation between two people of opposite sexes during their entire life time from childhood to death’…as their socialisation is the not the same during the entire life cycle…due to the continuously changing and unmatching needs and wants of individuals…
Social sites and networks in internet are full of 'soul mate ' search. Many are happy with what they have. Most of these people have not got the oppurtunity to search for their soul mate. Most of those people who have got the oppurtunity and time, look for this social relationship. Some crave for it. It also depends upon the QUANTITY, QUALITY AND TYPES of emotional support and love which they are getting from their significant people (those to whom they are significant and those who are significant to them). Does one need a soul mate? What will happen if he or she does not have one?
let us continue in the next mail...i think this is enough to munch for the next few days...
(மெயில் லாங்கா போனா சரவணா குமார் அடிக்க வாரான்...என்ன பண்ணுவேன்!)
your comments are welcome...i know it is a delicate issue...but when are we going to discuss the delicate issues and find solutions...
scientific theories on such behaviours, what to do?...how to resolve these issues....we will see in the future mails...
till then...
bye from ரவுசு ராம்ஸ்
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