LET US DIG OUR SELVES - QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS - 7TH DAY

friends...i have inserted the comments of a friend and my comments in bold letters....

Wow......very interesting and very very very hard to follow......in the present state of your mind and body you are feeling so...many have expressed the same....once you know the techniques.. .some of them may be suitable to you....you will understand that it is not so difficult... .generally females feel like this more because of the more emotional personality component ingrilled in them by nature for reproduction and child rearing necessities ...but same as what Krishna said in Bhagvadgita. ......"Do your duty without an eye for the reward"..... ......perfectly right....but krishna did not tell the methods of doing it as he did not have time on battle field....hihhi. ...just kidding....
 
But then the question is, if human beings were to live similar to other organisms... ..there seems to be difference in understanding. ....kindly read yesterday 'SOME INTERESTING QUESTIONS' and answers....human beings need not live like other animals in all aspects..... but atleast in those aspects which are basic and will not cause harm to body and mind....they should fully exploit their SIXTH SENSE for self actualisation. ...but without affecting their physical and mental health....and without affecting that of others too in that process....the researches done are about how to do it.......I am sure quite a few of our ancestors knew this.......then why did groups that are based on how we pray or how we live come......different people use different methods of achieving above.....prayer, method of living etc are the few ones....these are general....specific s will follow in later mails......does that mean that human beings should also get out of being possessive of the way they live their life.....perfectly right....how can we be emotionally possessive about things in life.....(i know, you might be laughing louder now.....if we are, then we will land up with physical and mental health probelms with sorrows..... .why to have that....we are borne to be happy....lakhs and crores earnt by us are not going to be fully used by us and more than 80% of it we will leave behind....we have made our children also capable of earning lakhs and crores.....one who enjoys all these will also land up with life style and health problems.... .due to not working, not exercising, by feeling complacent, by picking up bad health habits....not self actualised, by becoming unstable in his mind... etc etc....if you understand completely you will agree with me....otherwise only laugh at.....think that i am confused.... etc....due to paucity of time let me limit here....you will understand all these when we progress with LET US DIG OURSELVES lessons..... where i will explain in detail...... p.for ex: the way one worships could lead to being possessive of the religion one is categorised/ born into.......this is the biggest probelmm.... we are possessive about everything as if we have created it.....when we enjoy the creations of others, how can we possessive about the creations of others / ours.......possessi ve about all living and non living, processes, issues, beliefs etc etc.....!...ultimately it is up to the individual whether he wants to be happy and healthy or not...

it is very interesting to read this and the questions it raises are a lot......i  get 10 different doubts and themes for exploratory research for every line i read in the books....!

 

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when should a person go to the doctor for treatment?

 

normally when a person feels that he has got a problem (at this stage also his day to day functioning may be only at a less percentage or at a less efficiency than his max performance) .....or when others indicate that he has got a behavioural problem....if he knows the techniques, then he can correct himself..... .

 

but when it affects his day to day functioning at home, office and in society seriously then it is time that he contacts a physician or psychiatrist or psychologist for treatment... ..

 

why mental illnesses or bahavioural problems to be taken seriously?

 

when a person gets a physical ailment, it can be treated within a short time with medicines... .does not or affects others less comparatively. ....does not affect his job or social relationships. ....no social stigma....lives almost a normal life....

 

when a person has mental illness or behavioural problem..... it is to do with the brain...so takes long time...requires multiple doctors (psychiatrist for neurotransmitters, physician for damage caused to body parts, psychologist for behavioural correction.. ....at least two doctors) for treatment... .multiple and long time medicines... .may result in loss of job....financial crisis....big burden for others....affects financial, emotional status of family....loss of happiness in family.....may be permanent physical support necessary... ..social stigma.....lives of self and others get seriously impaired....

 

therefore, beavioural issues are serious!

 

what is your opinion about mad people....can they be corrected?

 

generally you find them to be of more than 30 years old....it indicates that they have not become Schizophrenic (there is no word as 'mad' in psychology) since child hood....only recently.... means they have a family and chain of relationships. ...may be they were holding good job and positions... .their mental state would have got deteriorated slowly over a period of time...but the significant people have not given proper care, attention and treatment... .once they loose the sense of reality then they leave their homes and move around in streets....the significant people also do not bother to trace them...as such patients can not give any clue about their past due to loss of sense of reality they can not be treated....no significant people known to get their details....their brain has suffered a major damage and cannot be treated...they remain like that and die shortly.....

 

if you look at such poor people the significant people are responsible for their condition... ...the problem is that the significant people themselves cannot figure out that the person has got a behavioural / mental illness....by the time they come to know the damage is irrepairable. ...therefore awareness for everyone is essential... .

 

i will give some examples of slow deterioration day after tomorrow....

 

how to know and tackle the behavioural problems in the case of ladies?

 

during the reproductive stage in life the behavioural changes are frequent...every 10 days....reaches its peak during the periods time....this is quite normal and needs no medication or treatment... .healthy balanced diet is sufficient.. ..basic knowledge of managing behaviours is enough to have a balanced healthy and happy life...if significant people also understand this then the life becomes pleasant.... if not managed by the individual and significant people properly then it results in physical illnesses immediately or later in life......

 

during the menopausal period also the behavioural changes are frequent.... ..generally mood disorders are prevalent... .they need emotional support of significant people....can be managed with little knowledge and may be short time medication.. ..

 

post productive life stage has generally stable behaviour... .mood disorders may arise....

 

after 70 for both men and women there is major deterioration in the neuro department of the body and gets seriously impaired.... if care is not taken....we will discuss in the 'let us dig ourselves' lessons....about the changes in the brain....functional impairments. ....causes. ....remedies. ...etc... .

regards
rams