hai
viniths...i think i have answered for your question of 'are you a
prophet?' in my previous mail...now only thing remaining unanswered is
'are they your own experiences?'...
--- On Fri, 18/11/11, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
To: PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, 18 November, 2011, 1:11 PM
(hai guys and gals...oru kusu kusu...looks like this is an interesting topic to bring more interaction in the group!
...viniths has replied instantaneously!)
hai viniths...
i am not a prophet!
...just a human being.....and trying to be a better human being ....that is all!
the issue of 'love' and 'relationships' is an ocean and never ending one...type adichhaa adichhukkittey irukkalaam!...discuss panninaa discuss panneettey irukkalaam!
what i said was 'adapatability problems with respect to mind related issues are solvable easily (though they get converted in to behaviours) (e.g husband believing in jesus and wife believing on ram (hihihi...not rams!)...but adaptability issues related to physical requirements are difficult as they are basic needs of life'...
ok...let me now talk about your issue of bed sheet...the husband might put on two bedsheets or a rug...but when it comes to the needs of the wife...sex, hugs, romance...it is a hurdle...while doing all these husband would like to be inside the cover...or he may not be able to perform to the satisfaction of the spouse inside that...but wife will sweat inside the cover...so she wants husband to come out of the cover...MOST OF THE PROBLEMS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE IS RELATED TO INADEQUACY OF LOVE, ATTENTION, AFFECTION, SEXUAL NEEDS AND SATISFACTION...
ithukku neriya kaaranam irukku...some of the reasons i have discussed in my long mails...never ending topic!
our suffering in life is not due to the microorganisms related diseases, but because of our own personality oriented diseases...which we keep blaming on others...i.e wife or husband!
we need to learn to be happy within ourselves without seeking it from others (note...others include 'all')...especially the spouse!
thanks viniths for reading all the pending mails in your yahoo...great!
keep talking, singing and rocking!
rams
--- On Fri, 18/11/11, Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com> wrote:
From: Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com>
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
To: "PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com" <PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com>
Date: Friday, 18 November, 2011, 7:35 AM
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
To: PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, November 18, 2011 6:00 AM
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna? hai viniths....
From: Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com>
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
To: "PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com" <PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com>
Date: Thursday, 17 November, 2011, 11:36 PM
To: A D MIT GROUPS <MIT-36THBATCH-ITIANS@yahoogroups.com>; A D PSG TECH GROUPS <PSGBSC81-84@YAHOOGROUPS.COM>
Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 10:40 AM
Subject: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
Love is holding hands in the street.
Marriage is holding arguments in the street.
Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant.
Marriage is a take home packet.
Love is cuddling on a sofa.
Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa.
Love is talking about having children.
Marriage is talking about getting away from children.
Love is going to bed early.
Marriage is going to sleep early.
Love is a romantic drive.
Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac.
Love is losing your appetite.
Marriage is losing your figure.
Love is sweet nothing in the ear.
Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank.
Tv has no place in love.
Marriage is a fight for remote control.
Love is 1 drink and 2 straws.
Marriage is "Don't you think you've had enough!".
Conclusion: "Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener!"
when you go to a counselling psychologist do you ask him 'all the things you talk are your own experiences?'
as
we belong to the second batch of +2, suburban school, where i did my
plus two, did not have enough biological specimens...so i got involved
with my biology
master nagarajan...he is still there...and made many specimens and
herbarium sheets...botony and zoology became my breath, food, water and
dreams...my house became a zoo, biology lab with lots of jars with
formaline solutions...my bath room became the dissection lab where all
rats, frogs, fishes got butchered...all boys in that area started
roaming around in streets with buckets to catch frogs and other living
organisms as i gave money for that...taught the technique of catching
them...roamed around in maruthamalai and nearby hilly and forest
area collecting all sorts of insects, flowers, plants, etc etc...while
it strengthened the biology lab, it also helped me to enjoy the
nature...and form some philosophies of life on my own...of living with
nature
net result is i got fascinated with the organ 'brain'...
later i became your classmate...and
prof lakshmikanthan and dr ramanaiah drove me deep inside physics,
lasers, thin films, crystal growth etc...though my life went on with
instrumentation, marine engg, aeronautical engg, management etc finally i
came back to psychology to add value to my MBA (HR)...back to the
'brain'!
...and
prof lakshmikanthan and dr ramanaiah drove me deep inside physics,
lasers, thin films, crystal growth etc...though my life went on with
instrumentation, marine engg, aeronautical engg, management etc finally i
came back to psychology to add value to my MBA (HR)...back to the
'brain'!
here i learnt many theories, human
behavioural studies, statistics of human behaviours, got few professors
and counselling psychologists as friends, got a famous professor as my
guide for PhD in psychology, became a member of many yahoogroups of
psychologists consisting of veterans in the
field of psychology all over the world...keep reading their mails
containing their rich experiences...
and
realised that every thing...every perception... about human life,
living, behaviours, happiness, sorrows, achievements etc are all inside
the 'brain'!...our own brain!..not in gods, god men, prophets, religions etc.
incidentally
i landed on the lap of psg tech again for my PhD in Robotics...there
again the study is about functioning or 'behaviours' of robots...i.e 'brain'
i am a small paal kudikkum baby inside
the ocean of psychology (behaviours of individual human beings),
sociology (behaviours of group of people), behaviours of machines...what
ever A, B C s i learn i keep typing...there is a looooooooong way to
go!...i am still left with 42 years on this earth to learn
about all these...as my last date is pegged at 88th year from 02 Mar
1965....i
have enough money to live my small simple life. My daughters can make
their own living. Pinney enna...life is back inside the psg tech library
and labs...!
inside
the ocean of psychology (behaviours of individual human beings),
sociology (behaviours of group of people), behaviours of machines...what
ever A, B C s i learn i keep typing...there is a looooooooong way to
go!...i am still left with 42 years on this earth to learn
about all these...as my last date is pegged at 88th year from 02 Mar
1965....i
have enough money to live my small simple life. My daughters can make
their own living. Pinney enna...life is back inside the psg tech library
and labs...!
hihihi...i have pushed my
sisters' children also inside this world of happiness, good health and
achievements with knowledge...one guy is doing research at Indian
Institute of Science, bangalore...hihihi...on brain and biological
systems...he
did Btech Bioinformatics and knows programming of machines...into
artificial intelligence etc...he is happy dwelling and swimming inside
the biological susbstances...is
about to publish few papers in journals of international repute...
other guy is finishing his
masters in applied psychology after his MBA and about to register for a
Phd in mgmt...one girl is doing her MBA after her Btech...will make her
also a psychologist and Phd in mgmt...
...he
did Btech Bioinformatics and knows programming of machines...into
artificial intelligence etc...he is happy dwelling and swimming inside
the biological susbstances...is
about to publish few papers in journals of international repute...
other guy is finishing his
masters in applied psychology after his MBA and about to register for a
Phd in mgmt...one girl is doing her MBA after her Btech...will make her
also a psychologist and Phd in mgmt...
infact i am the first guy in our relations to enter the college...and kicking all to reach the outer space of knowledge!
there
are many whom i have pulled inside my ring of 'knowledge centered life'
principle...out of their 'wealth centered life' principle...as wealth
is a byproduct of knowledge in this 'information technology'
world...they all tell me that they have sensed the 'real aanandam and
happiness' now...one among them is our DB!!!!! (his life is totally changed now and that is why he is absent here and present elsewhere!!!)
(his life is totally changed now and that is why he is absent here and present elsewhere!!!)
this
ring is increasing every day with school children to old people of even
70 years of age!...one old IIT, chennai lecturer of 1960s and CMD of a
iconic firm on electronic security systems started learning psychology
at 66 years of age and he is into research on this subject now...feels
liberated and enlightened!
so
what ever i type are not my own experiences...they are from experts in
the field...their experiences...and my understanding on these...not
experiences!
intha reply pothumaa, innum neraiya venumaaa?
rams
--- On Fri, 18/11/11, M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
To: PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, 18 November, 2011, 1:11 PM
(hai guys and gals...oru kusu kusu...looks like this is an interesting topic to bring more interaction in the group!
...viniths has replied instantaneously!)hai viniths...
i am not a prophet!
...just a human being.....and trying to be a better human being ....that is all!the issue of 'love' and 'relationships' is an ocean and never ending one...type adichhaa adichhukkittey irukkalaam!...discuss panninaa discuss panneettey irukkalaam!
what i said was 'adapatability problems with respect to mind related issues are solvable easily (though they get converted in to behaviours) (e.g husband believing in jesus and wife believing on ram (hihihi...not rams!
)...but adaptability issues related to physical requirements are difficult as they are basic needs of life'...ok...let me now talk about your issue of bed sheet...the husband might put on two bedsheets or a rug...but when it comes to the needs of the wife...sex, hugs, romance...it is a hurdle...while doing all these husband would like to be inside the cover...or he may not be able to perform to the satisfaction of the spouse inside that...but wife will sweat inside the cover...so she wants husband to come out of the cover...MOST OF THE PROBLEMS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE IS RELATED TO INADEQUACY OF LOVE, ATTENTION, AFFECTION, SEXUAL NEEDS AND SATISFACTION...
ithukku neriya kaaranam irukku...some of the reasons i have discussed in my long mails...never ending topic!
our suffering in life is not due to the microorganisms related diseases, but because of our own personality oriented diseases...which we keep blaming on others...i.e wife or husband!
we need to learn to be happy within ourselves without seeking it from others (note...others include 'all'
)...especially the spouse!thanks viniths for reading all the pending mails in your yahoo...great!
keep talking, singing and rocking!
rams
--- On Fri, 18/11/11, Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com> wrote:
From: Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com>
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
To: "PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com" <PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com>
Date: Friday, 18 November, 2011, 7:35 AM
Hi Rams,
Are you a prophet? How do you know about the peculier problem
of 'high speed fan'? Luckily my husband has a solution..sleeping with
two bedsheets fully covered !
vinitha.
To: PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, November 18, 2011 6:00 AM
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna? hai viniths....
yesterday night only i was thinking that the group has come to an end looks like...nnu!
with viniths not there...rad not there...db not sending mails...rajasekhar and murali also going silent...
of course, anu keeps sending smileys and links...good...
i will reply to anu's link and viniths mails shortly...now supply will go...before that let me rush with replies...
in short...i think there is no difference in this issue of 'finding
the differences and picking up fights' whether it is love marriage or
arranged marriage...
in both the cases the first few years of married life is
'honeymoon' phase searching for happiness...floating in air...all
negativities are not looked at all...they get masked by the
happiness...(unless there is any physical adaptability problem...for e.g
husband shivers in bed room with fan running, whereas wife will die of
sweating without fan)...
before marriage the lover shows lover behaviour...but after marriage he shows husband behaviour...
ok bye...more later....
rams
--- On Thu, 17/11/11, Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com> wrote:
From: Vinithasampath Palanisamy <vinithasampath@rocketmail.com>
Subject: Re: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
To: "PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com" <PSGBSC81-84@yahoogroups.com>
Date: Thursday, 17 November, 2011, 11:36 PM
And what about lovemarriage Bond?
vinitha :)
From: M.RAMASUBRAMANIAN R.MANICKARAJAN <mramasubramanian1@yahoo.co.in>To: A D MIT GROUPS <MIT-36THBATCH-ITIANS@yahoogroups.com>; A D PSG TECH GROUPS <PSGBSC81-84@YAHOOGROUPS.COM>
Sent: Saturday, November 12, 2011 10:40 AM
Subject: [PSGBSC81-84] love unnaa yenna?
hai my mates...classmates...!
Marriage is holding arguments in the street.
Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant.
Marriage is a take home packet.
Love is cuddling on a sofa.
Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa.
Love is talking about having children.
Marriage is talking about getting away from children.
Love is going to bed early.
Marriage is going to sleep early.
Love is a romantic drive.
Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac.
Love is losing your appetite.
Marriage is losing your figure.
Love is sweet nothing in the ear.
Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank.
Tv has no place in love.
Marriage is a fight for remote control.
Love is 1 drink and 2 straws.
Marriage is "Don't you think you've had enough!".
Conclusion: "Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener!"
rams
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