Dear all....especially the parents and teachers,
Knowing and understanding 'what is Love?' is very important so that we can practice in our lives and more importantly we can teach our children and students about it so that they learn it correctly from us or otherwise they will learn it from peers who are equally ignorant and confused or they will learn from the movies which is all about only 'attraction for natural reproductive needs'.
"Love is not getting attracted to people, especially of opposite sex, or reproductive acts...it's not love making...or activities generally described as love making are not related to love...love means 'caring and supporting unconditionally'.
Caring means caring for the body, mind, and the relationships of the other person.
Supporting means supporting the other person for his or her complete intellectual and skill development to the full potential and capability, supporting the other person to achieve his or her dreams, passion, aims, and life goals.
Unconditionally means without any expectations, without looking for any returns, without any vested interests, without any direct or indirect demands, without any wants or need satiation. Caring and supporting as a true service the way all the trillions of plant and animal life / living organisms live on this earth. We are just one among the trillions.
This is what is called Love. Please teach this to all students and to your children.
Getting attracted to people is not love. It happens for satiation of our physical, mental, social and procreation needs or wants. Needs are those basic necessities required for survival and existance. Wants are those which will give comforts for our day today living.
Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist!!
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