Saturday 25 August 2018

How to live?...What or whom to follow?...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS...
1. Religious leaders and spiritual leaders only profess a PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND SOCIAL LIFE STYLE!!
2. The LIFE STYLES are for living with PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND SOCIAL WELL-BEING. For living peacefully and harmoniously with every one around!!
3. In general the prophets or leaders who formed these groups defined a life style or belief systems which give the above.
4. To attract people towards them they also provide food, shelter, clothing, educational and job opportunities, health care for self and family, social security and an identity and image in the society that makes them get self respect, social status etc.
5. Some people attach themselves to the above said groups only for the needs and wants of survival and living listed at para 4 above. Such people do not follow the life style professed by the leaders.
6. In general the prophets professed a life style based on HAPPINESS. But our body drives the mind to repeat the thoughts, emotions and behaviours related to PLEASURES that brings a short lived feeling of goodness and an ocean and universe of all cravings, urges, expectations, wants, needs, frustration, fights, anger, hate and all such negative thoughts, feelings and behaviours. So, the mind takes this easy and desired or urged path. So, we deviate from the life style professed by the prophets and move away into pleasures.
So, these people do not get the PHYSICAL, MENTAL, SOCIAL WELL-BEING, PEACE AND HARMONIOUS LIFE. In fact such people also form self-interest groups within and distort the preaching of the original prophets thereby confusing others and directing confused people to wrong life styles that does not fetch them the basics of life listed at .para 2 above.
The end result is no physical health, no mental health, no harmonious living, no peace, fights, killings etc.
So, the crux is...
1. Follow religions and spiritual preaching for deriving the fundamental purpose of GOOD PHYSICAL, MENTAL, SOCIAL LIFE STYLE AND BELIEF SYSTEMS THAT BRINGS PEACE, HARMONY AND GROWTH THROW SYNERGY.
2. Don't follow just for those listed at para 4 above.
3. Identify those life style and belief elements that makes you to fight with others, live with diseases of body and mind, does not allow you to progress in life and profession and change it in the correct direction.
4. Identify people who distort the life styles, knowingly or unknowingly, and correct them to the right path.
5. The religious leaders and spiritual leaders should also identify those who have taken shelters under them for self-interest motives as listed at para 5 above and confuse, divert and distort the people towards wrong paths.
6. The prophets are no more. Only the successors exist now. They should truly spread the life styles professed by the prophets.
7. People also need to identify the true religious and spiritual leaders and follow the LIFE STYLE professed by them.
8. Any one who tells 'Follow me blindly. I am right!!' is likely to shut down your THOUGHT PROCESSES, COMMON SENSE, SIXTH SENSE and PRESENCE OF MIND which is not good for mental well-being. Any one who presents the entire scenario and allows you to think and make your own life style based on your personal, organisational, social, situational, physical/climatic environment and HELPS to live with physical health, mental health, peace, social well-being and growth is right.
Peacefully yours....Rams...Psychologist!!

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